Until recently and even today there are people who continue to treat cats as if they were dogs, when the reality is that they have a totally different behavior: while dogs are always wanting to please us, cats only do the things they want and when they want.
So if you would like to know how to bond with a catI'm going to explain some things to you so that your coexistence is enriching for both of you.
Take some time to know their body language
The cat is an animal that, although it cannot speak, does transmit messages to us constantly through its body language. It is important that, as your caregiver, take some time to get to know him, to know what it tries to tell you at all times by observing the position of its tail, its eyes, and listening to the sounds that may be emitting at that moment.
Treat him with respect and affection
It's the basics. If it is not treated with respect and affection, it will be impossible for the cat to be happy. Therefore, you should take time to be with him, but not in the same room with you in one corner and the cat in another, but with the two close, interacting. In pet stores you will find countless feline toys with which you can have a great time. Take advantage of an afternoon and choose the ones you like the most, and enjoy the company of your furry friend.
Do not force him to do anything he does not want
In the same way that you have to establish certain limits to avoid hurting yourself or ending up in the veterinary clinic, He will also put his own limits that you should not cross. For example: if you are caressing him and he suddenly moves away, do not hold him to continue caressing him, since by simply leaving he is telling you that he does not want you to caress him anymore.
Take care of him
It may seem logical, but taking care of a cat is not only to give him food and drink, but also to help him overcome his fears, to let him be with the family and visits, ... in short, to see him and treat him like a member of the family.
Only then can it be, I think, a happy animal.