Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ikati ihlasela rhoqo? Lo ngumbuzo ekungafuneki ubuzwe, okanye ubuncinci ungabi njalo. Kwaye kufuneka uqale kwisiseko sokuba esi silwanyana asihlaseli ngaphandle kokuba sizive sisongelwa, okanye siva iintlungu kwelinye lomzimba.
Ukuba iyaluma kwaye / okanye isigcawu, umntu unokuzibuza Kwenziwa ntoni kuye nokuba ufundiswe njani. Ikati ayisiyinja, kodwa akukho nzima ukufumana abantu abadlala ngoboya babo ... nto leyo eyimpazamo.
Kutheni le nto ikati ihlaselwa rhoqo?
Ikati sisilwanyana esisoloko sibaleka kuxinzelelo kunye nengxolo nanini na apho sinakho. Uhlala engakhuselekanga kwaye esoyikisa kakhulu. Ukuba uhlasela rhoqo kungenxa yokuba kukho into eyenziweyo engalunganga, okanye ngenxa yokuba kukho into eyenzekileyo okanye eyenzekayo kuye, enje:
- Yiba neentlungu kwenye indawo
- Akudlalwa ngendlela eyiyo (okt ngeethoyi hayi ngezandla)
- Ukuba injana kuvunyelwe ukuluma kunye / okanye ukukrwempa
- Ngaba (okanye) ulixhoba le unyango olubi
- Hlala kwindawo enamaxhala
- Yikati yasendle, yasendle okanye yekati esembindini etshixelwe endlwini (ezi zilwanyana kufuneka zinokufikelela ngaphandle, kungenjalo azisayi kuphila ngokonwaba)
Ungenza ntoni ukuze ilunge?
Ewe, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze ahlolwenjengokuba ingagula. Ukusuka apho, kuya kuba yimfuneko ukukhupha izizathu ezinokubangela ude ufumane eyona ilungileyo. Kunjalo, ukuba uyaxhatshazwa kwaye sinobungqina boku, kufuneka uyixele; Kodwa ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kukuba samkele ikati ephethwe gadalala, eyona nto icetyiswayo kukucela uncedo kwi-feline ethologist esebenza kakuhle: uyakusinika uthotho lwezikhokelo ekufuneka sizilandele ukuze buyisa kwakhona ukuzithemba kwayo.
Ukuba into eyenzekayo kukuba siyivumele ukuba isihlasele njengenjana okanye sidlale ngayo ngoku, kuya kufuneka senze into ebesifanele ukuba siyenzile ngomhla wayo: siyifundise Andilumi sele sele sukukrwempa. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka uzixhase ngomonde, kwaye uhlala unento yokudlala (kwezi meko, eyona nto ingumqobo yintonga yeekati). Kuya kufuneka udlale nayo kathathu ngemini malunga nemizuzu engama-20, kwaye ugcine izandla zakho zikude nomlomo wakho kunye neepawuthi ngokunokwenzeka ngexesha leseshoni.
Enye into enokwenzeka kukuba size nekati yasendle okanye yasendle.. Esi silwanyana sibaleka ebantwini, sizifihla phantsi kwefanitshala, kwaye asifuni kunxibelelana nabantu. Ewe, ukuba uzama ukumchukumisa, uyeke ukubamba, uyacaphuka kuba eziva esongelwa. Obu ayibobomi bakhe okanye babantu. Ukuba ulungile, oko kukuthi, ukuba ukhulele ekhaya kodwa kuba wayeyinjanana uyathanda ukuba sesitratweni ngakumbi kunasendlwini, emva koko kunokwenzeka ukuba wamkele ezinye ii-caresses, kodwa akufuneki mgcine evaliwe. Kwaye indalo kufuneka ihlale ingaphandle, nokuba kubiyelwe okukhulu (amakhulu eemitha ubude) inendawo yokuhlala kunye nokutya, okanye kwindawo ekhuselekileyo apho kukho iikati ezininzi.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe, kodwa khumbula ukuba kwikhonkco unolwazi oluthe kratya.