Amakati asebenzisa iinzipho zawo kuyo yonke into: ukumakisha indawo yawo, ukuzingela, ukudlala ... Ziyinxalenye yomzimba wesilwanyana, kodwa kunjalo, banokusenzakalisa. Kuyinyani ukuba xa zizinjana azenzi lukhulu, kodwa kufuneka ucinge ukuba ziyokhula, kwaye xa zikhula, emva koko sinokuba neengxaki.
Ungayiphepha njani? Kulula kakhulu: ukungakuvumeli ukuba usebenzise iinzipho zakho nathi. Funda ukuze wazi ukufundisa ikati yam ukuba ingakrwibi
Njengoko besitshilo, aba banoboya basebenzisa iinzipho zabo kuyo yonke into. Ngesi sizathu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba, ukusukela kusuku lokuqala ungena kuthi, sikufundise ukuba zininzi izinto ongenakuzenza, njengokukrwela. Ezi zilwanyana ngamanye amaxesha zinokusebenzisa iinzipho zazo nezinye zohlobo lwazo, kwaye akukho nto yenzekayo kuba banoboya obungqingqwa obuninzi kunabantu. Ngapha koko, wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ngaphezulu kweenwele, into esinayo ziinwele ezingenakukhusela ngokupheleleyo kwimikrwelo yekati.
Ke kufuneka senze ntoni ukuze ingasikrwibi? Ukuqalisa, akufuneki sidlale ngale ndlela:
Ukuba senza oku, kwaye sisusa isandla sethu kwelinye icala, siya kuphumelela kukuba ikati ifunda ngokuchanekileyo ukuba isihlasele kwaye isilume. Umzimba wethu - awuyonxalenye yawo - yinto yokudlala, ke kufuneka sisoloko sinento yokudlala ikati (umzekelo intambo) ephakathi kwezi zimbini. Isilwanyana kufuneka adlale ngento yakhe yokudlala, kwaye wonwabe nomntu omkhathalelayo, ekufuneka naye onwabe kunye naye.
Imidlalo ayifanelanga ukuba ibe "nobundlobongela" okanye "irhabaxa", kodwa endaweni yoko "ithambe." Ukuba ikati yakho ifuna ukukrwempa, uyeke kwangoko umdlalo kwaye uqale ukwenza ezinye izinto. Kancinci kancinci uya kufunda ukuba akanakubawela abantu.
Isibindi, kwaye ube nomonde, ukuze ekugqibeleni umsebenzi wemihla ngemihla uza kuhlawula 😉.
Siyavuya uyayithanda, Coralia 🙂.
Molo Diana.
Ukuze ifunde ukungakulumi, kufuneka uyeke umdlalo kwakamsinya nje xa ubona ukuba uzimisele ukwenza njalo, okanye uwushiye phantsi ukuba ubukwindawo ephezulu (isofa, ibhedi, itafile,. ..).
En Oku kubhaliwe unolwazi oluthe kratya.
A ubingelele.
Kulungile kusasa,
Kwaye ukuba uyakrwela udonga kodwa ususe ezinye izitikha / iivinyl eziqhotyoshelweyo, ulungisa njani le ndlela yokuziphatha? Okanye singamlwa njani ngaphandle kwakhe? okanye ungoyiki?
Molo uEstere.
Zama ukumphazamisa ngentambo. Ukuba mncinci okanye ikati enovalo, kubalulekile ukuba udlale nayo iyure yonke imihla (yahlulwe yangamaxesha amfutshane) de idinwe.
Ngapha koko, ukuba ufuna ndiyeke ukwenza oku, kuyacetyiswa ukutshiza / ukutshiza, kule meko udonga, ngento enuka ivumba le-sitrasi (iorenji, ilamuni,…). Iikati azilithandi elo vumba.
Nibuliso!