Nangona kukho ulwazi olwandayo lokuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthatha uxanduva lwesilwanyana kwaye sikwenze ngokuchanekileyo, ngelishwa kusekho abantu abaninzi abenza iikati zabo into abayifunayo, babaphatha ngokungathi bangaphantsi kwezinto.
Uninzi lwabo luphela luhlala ezitalatweni, kwaye abambalwa abanethamsanqa baphelela kwindawo yokuhlala apho baya kuchitha bonke ubomi babo. Le yinyani ebukhali. Bambalwa kakhulu abafumana usapho. Ke ngoko, ukuba usandula ukwazisa umntu osisilwanyana ekhayeni lakho kwaye ukrokrela ukuba babunobomi obunzima, siya kukucacisela ke wazi njani ukuba ikati yam iye yaxhatshazwa.
Ukwazi njani ukuba ikati yam iye yaxhatshazwa?
Ikati kufuneka ineemfuno zomzimba nezengqondo zigutyungelwe ubomi bayo bonke, kungenjalo iya kukhula yoyika abantu. Ke ngoko, uya kuba nakho ukwazi, okanye ubuncinci, ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kumhlobo wakho ukuba uyakubona oko:
- Ngaba ichasene noluntu okanye inobundlongondlongo: le yindlela yokuziphatha iikati ezahlulwe kumama wazo kungekudala.
- Ngaba uphelelwe ngamanzi kunye / okanye unciphile-Okunokwenzeka kukuba awukalufumani ukhathalelo olusisiseko olifunayo.
- Ungcolile kwaye / okanye unuka kakubi: xa uboya ungcolile kwaye / okanye ukhupha ivumba elibi, kuyacaca ukuba bekuhlala kwindawo apho bengakhange bahoye nganto kuyo.
- Unamanxeba, inkqayi, kunye / okanye iiparasites zangaphandleLe yimiqondiso engabonisa ukuba ikati iye yaxhatshazwa. Xa uhlala kwimeko yoxinzelelo olusisigxina, unako nokukhupha iinwele zakho. Izidleleleli zangaphandle, ezinjengeentakumba okanye amakhalane, zezinye zeengxaki zekati ezingakhathalelwanga kakuhle.
- Yiba nomsindo xa sele uza kukhuhla umgangatho okanye utshayele umshanelo: ikati engakhange iphathwe gadalala, into yesiqhelo kukuba nokuba inomdla okanye iyayityeshela into esiyenzayo, kodwa ukuba nangaliphi na ixesha ibethiwe (okanye izamile ukubetha) nge-broomstick okanye mop, iyakuphuma ibaleka ekukhangeleni indawo yokufihla.
Ndingakunceda njani?
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo esele uyenzile: wamkele ekhayeni lakho. Ngoku, ngomonde nothando oluninzi, kuya kufuneka uzuze ukuthembela kwabo. Ungaze unyanzele nantoni na, jonga nje indlela abaziphethe ngayo kwaye uthathe ixesha suku ngalunye ukuze uyiqonde ulwimi lomzimba. Mmeme ukuba azodlala ukuze abone ukuba awuzimiselanga kumenza buhlungu, kwaye umnike ukutya kwekati emanzi amaxesha ngamaxesha (iinkonkxa) Ngokuqinisekileyo uyonwabele!
Ke, ngokuhamba kwexesha, uya kuba nakho ukukhokelela kubomi obuqhelekileyo kunye nokonwaba ecaleni kwakho.
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