Momwe mungaphunzitsire mwana wamphaka wazaka ziwiri

Amphaka amatha kukhala osalamulirika

Mwana wamphaka kuyambira ali mwana ndi nyama wosamvera kwambiri. Mano ake akangoyamba kubwera, atafika sabata lachitatu, amayamba kuchita zinthu zomwe anthu sangakonde kwambiri. Ndipo adzafuna kufufuza chilichonse ... ndi pakamwa pake ndi misomali yake. Pamsinkhu uwu suwononga zambiri, koma umatha kuchita zochuluka patsiku kwakuti kangapo kamodzi timadabwa ngati zipitilira kukhala choncho munthu wamkulu.

Koma tili ndi yankho la funsoli. Inde Inde. Kutengera zomwe timamuphunzitsa - mosazindikira kapena mosazindikira - wocheperako azichita mwanjira ina. Kuti mawa mukhale bwino, m'pofunika kudziwa momwe mungaphunzitsire mwana wamphaka wazaka ziwiri. Tiyeni tiwone zomwe tiyenera kuchita kuti tisinthe "kanyama kameneka" kukhala malo ochezera.

Kodi ndikufunika chiyani kuti ndilere mwana wamphaka wazaka ziwiri?

Amphaka ndi amisala kwambiri

Chimene mudzafunika kwambiri ndi kuleza mtima. Zambiri, kuleza mtima kwambiri. Mphaka adzakuyesa kangapo patsiku, tsiku lililonse. Idzakwera pamwendo pako, nthawi zina kukagona, koma nthawi zina kusewera, ndipo uyenera kudziwa kuti mawu oti 'kusewera' pa msinkhu uwu akuphatikizapo kukanda ndi kuluma chilichonse chomwe chikuwoneka, kuphatikiza manja, mikono ndi miyendo.

Koma fayilo ya wokondedwa. M'malo mwake, izi ndizofunikira. Ngati mwana samalandira chikondi tsiku lililonse, ndiye kuti adzakhala mphaka wamkulu yemwe azichita zosayenera ndi banja komanso alendo.

Kodi mungaphunzitse bwanji?

Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti nthawi zonse muzikumbukira izi sitiyenera kuzilola kuti zitikumbe kapena kutiluma. Palibe (kapena pafupifupi konse). Chifukwa chake, tiyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti nthawi zonse timakhala ndi choseweretsa kapena chingwe pafupi, popeza ndi zomwe tidzasewere naye.

Zikakhala kuti tilibe kalikonse, ngati mungakhale pa sofa, tidzatsitsa; ndipo ngati chitiukenso ndikutiukiranso, tidzatsitsanso. Kotero mpaka atakhazikika. Poyamba zikhala zovuta kuti adziwe kuti sangatiukire, koma ndi nthawi ndi chipiriro tidzakwaniritsa.

Mfundo ina yomwe sitingayiwalire ndi yocheza. Mwana wamphaka ayenera kukhala limodzi ndi banja nthawi yayitali. Tikamamukhomera mchipinda tsiku lonse, osakumana ndi anthu ambiri, amakula ndikukhala mphaka 'wosagwirizana' ndi anthu. Nyamayo iyenera kugwiridwa m'manja, yosisitidwa ndi ana ndi akulu, imayenera kusangalala ndikusewera nawo komanso ndi nyama zina zomwe zimakhala pakhomo, mwachidule, iyenera kukhala ndi banja.

Pokhapo ndipamene adzaphunzire kukhala nafe. Ndipo, usiku, mupuma mosavuta.

Momwe mungaphunzitsire mphaka miyezi iwiri kapena kupitilira apo

Ngakhale zili choncho, paka ikadutsa miyezi iwiri, muyenera kupitiliza kuwaphunzitsa, chifukwa mwanjira imeneyi ndi yomwe ingakhale mphaka wachikulire wofunitsitsa kuchita bwino ndikupatseni chikondi nthawi zonse osawononga chilichonse mnyumba. Ndiye tikupatsani zisonyezo kuti muphunzitse khate lanu kukhala ndi khalidwe labwino popeza anali wamng'ono.

Sangalalani ndi mphaka wanu

Ana aamuna a miyezi iwiri amafunika kuleza mtima

Kuti mphaka wanu akuzolowere ndikofunikira kuti muzicheza naye kuyambira pachiyambi. Monga anthu, amphaka amaphunzira zambiri poyang'ana machitidwe owazungulira. Kuti mphaka wanu akhale ndi machitidwe abwino, muyenera kuyamba kucheza nawo kuyambira ali aang'ono kwambiri, kuyambira milungu iwiri yakubadwa!

Ndikofunikira kuti muzikumbatira mwana wanu, kuti mukhale naye kwa kanthawi, ngati mphindi 10. Ndimalingaliro abwino kudzidziwikitsa kwa anthu ena kuti awazolowere kuyanjana ndi anthu. Chizolowezi chosewera ndi mphaka wanu chimamupatsanso mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito machitidwe oyipa kapena okangalika.

Muyenera kukhala odzipereka komanso koposa zonse. Kumbukirani kuti musamulange ndikumuchitira zoyipa. Amafunikira chikondi chanu chonse kuti achite bwino ndi inu.

Muphunzitseni kutsatira malangizo

Ngakhale samakhala galu, amphaka amathanso kuphunzitsidwa kutsatira njira zosavuta. Kukhala ndi mphaka yemwe amamvera malangizo kumakupangitsani kukhala kosangalatsa ndipo mukuthandizira kukhala ndi chitukuko chakuthupi ndi chamaganizidwe. Zowonjezera, Ndikopindulitsa kwambiri kulera mphaka womvera komanso wolandila.

Kulimbikitsana komanso kulimbikitsidwa zidzakhala zida zanu zachinsinsi panthawiyi. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kuphunzitsa mphaka wanu kukhala ndikukhala pampando, kuwongolera ndikulimbikitsa mphaka wanu pochita izi kugwiritsa ntchito chakudya ngati cholimbikitsira. Njira ina yophunzitsira amphaka kumvera ndikugwiritsa ntchito phokoso ndi chakudya kuti mphaka wanu ayambe kugwirizanitsa mawuwo ndi machitidwe abwino ndikulonjeza mphotho.

Muphunzitseni kugwiritsa ntchito bwino zinyalala

Gawo ili ndi limodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri, komanso zovuta kwambiri. Mwamwayi, zonsezi zimachokera pakulimbikira kwanu ndikulimbikitsidwa ndi mphaka wanu. Tengani malo a zinyalala. Ngati mukufuna kuti mphaka wanu agwiritse ntchito, muyenera kuwapatsa chifukwa. Sankhani malo opanda phokoso komanso osavuta kuti mwana wanu azitha kufikako. 

Muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti simangokhala ndi zinyalala zokha, komanso zinthu zofunika monga chakudya, madzi, ndi zofunda, komanso zoseweretsa zomwe mumakonda kwambiri. Ndi zonse zomwe amafunikira pamalo amodzi, ayamba kuzolowera kugwiritsa ntchito zinyalala.

Njira ina yothandiza ndikuyika kitty wanu mumabokosi ake onyenga nthawi iliyonse yomwe amadzuka kapena kumaliza kudya. Chofunikanso kwambiri ndichakuti muchite mukazindikira zikwangwani zakuti ali wokonzeka kupita kubafa. Kodi zimenezi zimatheka bwanji? Yambani kuyang'ana mphaka wanu momwe mungathere. Izi zithandizira kuchepetsa ngozi ndikupangitsa maphunziro onyamula zinyalala kuti asatopetse.

Sewerani ndi mphaka wanu

Ndikofunika kuti muzisewera ndi mphaka wanu kuti upite patsogolo pakukula kwake. Sitimangotanthauza kuti amasewera ndi zoseweretsa zazing'ono zamphaka, koma, kuti amasewera nanu. Kuti zoseweretsa zomwe amagwiritsira ntchito ndizoyenera kusewera nazo komanso kuti mutha kulumikizana limodzi. Kusewera kumapatsa mphaka wanu mwayi wolimbikitsira, kulimbitsa thupi komanso kulimbitsa thupi, mwayi wokhutiritsa chibadwa chake chosaka komanso mwayi wolumikizana nanu..

Monga mitundu ina ya maphunziro, pali njira yolondola yochitira. Muyenera kusintha masewerawa kuti mukwaniritse zosowa zamphaka wanu ndikuwonetsetsa kuti masewera omwe mumasewera akupita patsogolo, osabweza mphaka wanu. Ngakhale zoseweretsa zomwe mungasankhe zimakhudza chidwi cha mphaka wanu kusewera. Mukamagula zoseweretsa, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti mugula zoseweretsa zomwe zili zoyenera mphaka, osati amphaka achikulire.

Kulimbitsa kwabwino

Amphaka ang'ono amafunikira chikondi

Khalidwe labwino likalimbikitsidwa ndikulimbikitsidwa, amphaka amaphunzira kuchita bwino. Mwina mwawona kufunikira kwakulimbikitsidwa kwabwino m'magawo ena amoyo wanu, chifukwa ndizofanana ndi amphaka. Izi Zimapatsa mphaka wanu chifukwa chopitilira kuchita moyenera.

Kulimbitsa mtima kumathandizira kulimbikitsa machitidwe athanzi ndikuletsa machitidwe oyipa. Izi ndizofunikira kukumbukira nthawi yomwe mphaka wanu amachita, popeza mutha kumulanga ... koma sichinthu chabwino kwa iye kuti akhale ndi machitidwe abwino.

Kulanga mphaka wanu pazomwe alakwitsa si lingaliro labwino konse chifukwa kumawonjezera nkhawa komanso nkhawa ndipo kumatha kuwononga ubale wabwino womwe mwalimbikira kwambiri kuti mumange. Mofananamo, kulimbitsa kwabwino kumawonetsa kuti machitidwe abwino amadziwika ndipo amapatsidwa mphotho, nikuba kuti ulakonzya kuchita kabotu.

Pomaliza, ngakhale kuphunzitsa mwana wanu wamphongo wamng'ono kumawoneka ngati ntchito yovuta poyamba, pang'ono ndi pang'ono mudzawona kuti ndizosavuta mukamudziwa mphaka wanu ndipo mphaka wanu amakudziwani bwino. Potsatira malangizo awa, zonse zidzakhala zosavuta kwa nonse. Mphaka wanu adzakhala ndi khalidwe labwino ndipo mudzakhala womasuka pakuleredwa kwake. Mudzakhala ndi mphaka wokongola yemwe mungakhazikike naye mtima ndipo amamvera malamulo anu pakafunika kutero!


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