Nui ka poʻe e manaʻo nei he mau holoholona mehameha nā pōpoki, a ʻaʻole launa lākou. Akā ʻokoʻa iki ka ʻoiaʻiʻo mai kēlā mau manaʻoʻiʻo. He ʻoiaʻiʻo hiki iā lākou ke lilo i mau holoholona kūʻokoʻa akā, inā mākou e nānā pono i kahi kolone o nā pōpoki e laʻa, e ʻike mākou pehea lākou e launa pū ai me kekahi, pehea e hōʻike ai i ko lākou nohona me nā hoa ʻē aʻe.
Aʻo ia he holoholona pohihihi loa lākouMai noʻonoʻo ʻoe
Hoʻokumu ʻia ka pilina pili mua me kona makuahine, ʻo ia ke kuleana no ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ia i ke aloha a me ka pale ʻana iā ia, e like me nā makuahine āpau i hāpai i kā lākou pēpē i loko o kā lākou ʻōpū no kekahi mau mahina, a laila hāʻawi iā lākou i ka waiū makamae e kōkua iā lākou e ulu ikaika a olakino hoʻi. I ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, ua lilo ke keiki i ke autonomous a hiki i kona hiki ke ʻai, pāʻani, pōkole, alakaʻi i kahi ola maʻamau me ka ʻole o ka hāʻawi ʻana o ka makuahine i ka wāwae. ʻOiai ʻike mākou he keiki i hānau ʻia ma ka home a hiki ke noho me ko lākou makuahine no ke ola, e hoʻomau mau ia pili pili.
E like me mākou nā kānaka. ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha no ka mālama ʻana o nā pōpoki i kahi kolone i kahi pilina "peer-to-peer" me kā lākou kahu. ʻAʻole paha lākou e hoʻokokoke iā lākou, akā no ka pono wale nō o ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka meaʻai a me ka palekana, mahalo nui lākou iā lākou a mai kānalua e kāhea iā lākou inā manaʻo lākou he pono.
He keiki i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia mai kona makuahine i ka wā ʻōpio, ma waena o 2 a me 3 mau mahina, holo paha lākou i ka makaʻu o nā kānaka e hoʻāʻo nei e "humanize" iā lākou. Pono ʻoe e ʻike pehea e hoʻokaʻawale ai i waena o kekahi mau mea. He mau manaʻo ko lākou a hōʻike lākou ia lā i kēlā me kēia lā, hiki nō iā lākou ke aʻo, akā ʻaʻole lākou he kanaka. ʻAʻole hana mua nā pōpoki, ʻaʻole lākou i noʻonoʻo no nā lā pehea a lākou e hele ai, no ka laʻana, hakakā me kahi pōpoki ʻē aʻe. Noho lākou i kēia manawa, aʻo ia ka ʻokoʻa nui ma waena o lākou a me mākou e pili ana i ka lawena.
A ma muli o kēia pono mākou e hana e like me ia, ʻaʻole e hoʻopiʻi iā ia no kekahi mea i loaʻa ʻole iā ia. ʻAʻole lākou e hana hōʻino iā mākou.
E lilo i mea mua e wehewehe