Lapho sithatha isinqumo sokuthola ikati, omunye wemibuzo yokuqala evelayo ukuthi ngabe ukhetha owesilisa noma owesifazane. Kokwangaphambili basitshela ukuthi bazimele kakhulu, futhi ngokwabo bajwayelene kakhulu. Yini eyiqiniso kulokho?
Uma kungokokuqala ukuthi sihlale nanoma yisiphi salezi zilwane futhi sifuna ukwazi ukuthi amakati athandana kakhulu yini kunamakati, sincoma ukuthi ufunde le ndatshana 🙂.
Empilweni yami yonke bengihlala namakati amaningi. Njengamanje kunabahlanu ekhaya kanti abanye abahlanu engadini abenza impilo yami ijabule futhi, yize kungenakwenziwa kube kujwayelekile, ngibona umehluko othile esimilweni phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane, okunesizathu ngokombono wami kunengqondo impela. Amakati ngokuvamile azimele ngokuthe xaxa: yilabo okuthi kusukela ebuncaneni babo -ezinhlanu noma izinyanga eziyisithupha- bafuna ukuphuma bayohlola indawo yabo. Imvamisa, noma ngabe zithathiwe, ziyahamba ekuseni futhi azibuzi kuze kuhlwe. Kodwa ingabe banothando? Kunjalo. Uma sebebuyela emakhaya into abayifunayo wukuyidla nokuzototoswa.
Abesifazane, yize befuna nokuya phesheya, abasoze baba kude namakhaya. Bahlale bahlala endaweni, mhlawumbe amamitha angama-400, kodwa bangaqhubeki. Futhi yize bengeke baphume bayohambahamba, benomlingiswa ovame ukuzola, bavame ukuzivumelanisa kahle nokuhlala efulethini noma efulethini. Yini enye, bayathanda ukuba yisikhungo sokunakwa. Angikwazi ukukutshela ukuthi ngabe bancike kakhulu kunabesilisa, kepha ngiyakwazi bathambekele ekubeni nothando ngokwengeziwe.
Noma kunjalo, ikati ngalinye nekati ngalinye umhlaba. Asikwazi ukuthi unamuntu onjani ngokusikhomba ngobulili bakhe. Ngalokho kuyadingeka ukumazi, ukuxhumana naye. Kungakho-ke, uma sizokwamukela eyodwa, kunconywa kakhulu ukuthi sichithe isikhathi naleyo enoboya, ngoba yize emizuzwini embalwa kungenzeki ukwazi ukuthi kuzoba njani, singathola umbono ngakho ezintweni elizenzayo ngenkathi silithokozela. inkampani yakho.
Ukuze uthole olunye ulwazi, chofoza lapha.