Lapho isinqumo sesithathiwe sokuqala ukuhlala nesinoboya, umbuzo olandelayo ozophendulwa yilokhu okulandelayo: owesilisa noma owesifazane? Wonke amakati akhetheke kakhulu kuwona, ahlukile. Yize zonke zinezici ezifanayo, iqiniso ukuthi kukhona umehluko omncane omncane ozosenza sikhethe okunye noma okunye. Kodwa ziphi?
Kulokhu okukhethekile sizokutshela Ukuziphatha kwekati kuhluke kanjani kokwekati? ukwenza kube lula kuwe ukukhetha umlingani wakho omusha.
Ngaphambi kokuqala kubalulekile ukuthi wazi lokho imfundo etholwa yisilwane izoba nomthelela ekuziphatheni kwayo kwesikhathi esizayo. Ngakho-ke, uma ethola uthando nokunakwa kusukela ngosuku lokuqala efika ekhaya, kungenzeka ukuthi njengomuntu omdala uthanda ukuba nobudlelwano nabantu; Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma kunganakwa noma kungaphathwa kahle, kuzoba yisilwane esizohlala ngokwesaba, futhi sibe nolaka kubantu.
Lokho kusho, ake siqhubeke manje ukubona umehluko phakathi kwekati nekati.
Ukuziphatha kwekati
Amakati asendle noma ahlala emgwaqeni achitha ingxenye enkulu yesikhathi sawo ezulazula endaweni yawo, futhi ahlangana kuphela nabesifazane lapho beshushu noma bedla. Awavamile ukuba nobungane kakhulu; kangangoba uma bengakaze baxhumane nabantu, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi babalekele. Kepha, Ingabe lesi yisimilo esifanele sowesilisa?
Ukuqinisekisa lokhu, ngangibheka ikati lami uBenji, okwathi ngesikhathi sokubhala lo mbhalo wayeneminyaka emi-2 ubudala. Ukhuliswe ekhaya ngothando olukhulu, ngenxa yalokhu usephenduke ikati labantu abadala elithanda ukuzijabulisa, ikakhulukazi namanye amakati. Noma kunjalo, uthanda ukuchitha isikhathi eyedwa, ezungeza insimu. Sekukonke uchitha cishe amahora amabili ethokozela ngaphandle, futhi ngaleso sikhathi noma ngabe umbiza malini akezi, ngaphandle uma elambile. Vele, ngokungafani nalabo abasendaweni, uhlala njalo emgwaqweni ofanayo.
Ngokususelwe kulokhu nakulokho engikwazile ukukuqinisekisa eminyakeni edlule, amakati wesilisa angathandeka kakhulu, kepha bayohlala befuna ukuba bodwa isikhashana. Ungasho ukuthi bazimele kancane ngokwengeziwe; hhayi okuningi, kodwa kuyiqiniso ukuthi uma uhlala nekati nekati njengoba izinsuku zihamba ungathola ukukuqaphela.
Uma sikhuluma ngokuthi bayasebenza noma cha, imvamisa zanelengisho kanye sebekhulile. Bayayijabulela imidlalo yokuzingela, ngakho-ke noma yini abangayicosha ngezidladla zabo, nibble, noma baphonse phansi… bazothanda.
Vele kukhona okuhlukile, kepha ngiyakutshela ukuthi njengamanje nginakekela amakati wesilisa ama-5, elilodwa lawo linguBenji, futhi elinye lawo kuno-1 kuphela owephula lowo mthetho.
Ukuziphatha kwekati
Amakati endle noma lawo akhuliswe emgwaqeni nawo awatholakali kalula, kepha ahlala emaqenjini abesifazane aba-3-6. Bachitha isikhathi bodwa, kodwa abakaze baqhele kakhulu kwabanyeNgale ndlela bavikela kangcono indawo yabo futhi ngeke bangabaze ukukhahlela amakati asondela kakhulu.
Manje, ingabe amakati asendlini anje? Ukuqinisekisa lokhu, bengibona nenye yamakati ami, kulokhu uKeisha, owesifazane oneminyaka emihlanu okhuliswe ekhaya kusukela anezinyanga ezimbili. Unobungane kakhulu, kodwa nabantu. Akavamisile ukuthanda kakhulu ukuthi abantu abanoboya baleli koloni yibo abathatha isinyathelo sokusondela kuye, kepha yena ukhetha ukuba nguyena oya kubo. Futhi-ke lokhu yinto angajwayele ukuyenza: imvamisa akabanaki. Akafani noBenji ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ekhaya; kangangoba esewonke uchitha u-1h noma ngaphansi phesheya.
Kuvame ukucatshangwa ukuthi amakati azolile kakhulu kunamakati, ngokwazi kwami ukuthi ngikwazile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi kunjalo. Ikati ngalinye lihlukile, kungaba owesilisa noma owesifazane, futhi empeleni abesilisa nabesifazane banokungafani kwethu okusenza sibe yilokho esiyikho, njengamakati anoboya. Kepha uhlobo okungokwalo luyingxenye nje yalokho eliyikho; akwenzi ingqikithi, uMuntu.
Ngokuya ngemfundo oyitholayo, impatho oyinikezwayo, indawo ohlala kuyo, noma ngabe uhlala emgwaqweni noma cha, phakathi kwezinye izinto eziningi, ikati lizoba nobungane obuncane noma obuncane.
Elinye iphuzu okufanele ulinakekele yi- inzalo. Amakati 'aphelele', noma ngabe awesilisa noma abesifazane, ngesikhathi sokukhwelana azosebenza ngokwemvelo yabo: ngenkathi eyokuqala inganolaka, amakati ezinsikazi azoba nothando kakhulu kunokujwayelekile. Ngokuphambene nalokho, amakati asetshenzisiwe ngeke abe nokushisa, kepha kungenzeka ukuthi azokwehlisa umoya, ukuthi abe nokuthula ngokwengeziwe nokuhlala phansi.
Njengoba sibona, ziningi izinto ezizothinta indlela aziphatha ngayo umngani wakho, kepha yini ezomsiza kakhulu ukuthi abe ngoboya obufuna kakhulu ngokungangabazeki uthando olunikezayo.
Bengingazi ukuthi amakati anezinyoni zawo abonakala ekhuluma nawe, nginekati elinonyaka ubudala abanginike lona nginenyanga eyodwa ubudala, ngimkhulisile usuku lonke nami, uma nakho konke angilethele ukuthi ngisebenze kubhasikidi wonke umuntu futhi ujabule, kodwa ihlobo lafika futhi wesaba ukuthi uzobheka emafasiteleni awe, ngoba amafasitela awanazo izisekelo, umshiye ekhaya, anensimu yokuthi anyakaze, emafasiteleni anezikhala ukuze uyabona umgwaqo futhi ushiswa yilanga futhi ungilinde ngasendleleni, kanye nethala lapho angaphazamiseka khona, futhi ajabule, wayevame ukuzikhulula ethoyilethi ngegajethi azoyithengisa ngesihlabathi esincane, ngithatha nsuku zonke ukuthi kude Uma isihlabathi simanzi, kuwukuqabula, akafuni lutho ngaphandle kwami ukuze amgone, anginakati, nginenja, ngisekhaya yonke indawo, futhi sengivele ngithi ngikhuluma ngemiamiau yakhe , wuthando olunamabhantshi enginawo bayadlala, futhi ugeza ubuso bakhe, alale phezu kwabo, kunento eyodwa engingayiboni ijwayelekile kakhulu kusukela ngisemncane ku-c U-Ojín uyayihuqa futhi ayimunce sengathi ngumama wakhe, bese elala phansi, ngelinye ilanga ngayigeza yangithethisa, ngemiaumiau yakhe. Sengivele ngithi iyi-charlatan, angazi noma kuzoba wonke amakati yini,
Holis ... sawubona ntambama. Ngibe nenjabulo emangalisayo yokwamukela amazinyane amathathu, eyokuqala esiyibiza ngokuthi iKliniki, isiSiamese esihle esidle ubuthi begundane ngephutha safa 🙁 bekungelula ukusula ekulahlekelweni yaso kwazise nguzakwethu onginike yena. IClin yayizimele kakhulu, angikhumbuli ngimphulula, wayejwayele ukusithinta sonke ekhaya ngomsila wakhe, washona enezinyanga ezintathu. Njengoba izinyanga zihamba, enye ikati lensikazi lafika kusayithi lethu ngenhlanhla futhi, samthatha ngokushesha, sambiza ngokuthi uLuna, wayemuhle, enothando njengathi sonke ekhaya, simthanda kakhulu kangangokuba wavunyelwa ukuhlala ekhaya usuku lonke ukulala embhedeni wethu. ... ukufuywa ngokuphelele ... ngangikuthanda kakhulu ngoba wayezivumela ukuthi agezwe futhi azivumele enze noma yini engiyifunayo, impango yendlu ngoba ngaphandle kwakhe nathi banekhaya inja egama layo lingu-Aurora kanye namehlo okuthiwa nguTerry, uLuna wayehlalisana kahle bobabili, ikakhulukazi i-aurora, yomibili imitholampilo engabokuqala ukufika njengenyanga, balala ne-aurora njengodadewabo ... ngaphandle kokungabaza ubumnene, impilo yethu yayijabule kakhulu ngokufika kwenyanga, ngoba ngemuva kwesikhashana yayisivele isondela entshisekelweni yayo futhi sanquma ukuyivala inzalo ... ngiyakutshela ukuthi kungcono singalokothi sikucabange lokho. inyanga ngemuva kokuhlinzwa yathatha izinsuku ezintathu kuphela…. Kwakuyinto ehlukumezayo nebuhlungu kakhulu esake sayizwa ezimpilweni zethu. Asikaze sicabange ukuthi kungenzeka lokho ... uthando lwami nokuzinikela kwamakati lukhulu kangangokuthi ngosuku ngemuva kokulahlekelwa kwakhe banginika eyodwa futhi ngaso leso sikhathi ngamthatha ngamgona futhi ngamletha ekhaya, sonke sambiza ngo-cindy ngenjabulo, kusobala Angikaze ngithathe indawo yenyanga futhi asikaze sizame ukufaka ezinye esikhundleni salokho ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho sibheka emehlweni ka-cindy sikhumbula uClin noLuna. UCindy, njengathi sonke thina bantu, wayenobuntu bakhe nobuntu bakhe ... edlala ngezikhathi ezithile, ethanda, eyinkosikazi yezenzo zakhe, wamukela isimo se-canine ngoba lapho ehlanganyela ne-aurora ne-terry into abanye abangakaze bayenze. wayehluke ngokuphelele kubo bonke…. ulaka ezikhathini eziningi kepha uthandeka. Indaba ebuhlungu futhi ebuhlungu ukuthi ngqo lapho ngiphenduka izinyanga ezintathu nje ngeshwa njengezinye engiphuma ngazo noma nini ekuseni njengoba ngivame ukumnika ukudla kwakhe nevithamini lakhe futhi akukho okuvelayo ………… simfuna yonke indawo, indawo ezungeze ilanga nomakhelwane phakathi kwabanye futhi akukho okuvelayo ... ngaphandle kokungabaza izinhliziyo zethu zilinyazwe ubuhlungu obungaka. kungukuthi nje asinayo inhlanhla yokuthola amantshontsho akho ??? kubuhlungu kakhulu uyazi? USindy usevele wanyamalala cishe amasonto amabili, sisakhala futhi siyamkhumbula kuwo wonke amakhona ale ndlu. Sithandaza kuphela kuNkulunkulu ukuthi uma yebiwe noma yeqiwe ukuthi isezandleni ezinhle, enezidalwa ezinhle njengathi noma okungenani iphephile ezandleni zokuvikelwa uNkulunkulu. Emavikini amathathu uNkulunkulu, esebenzisa udokotela wami wezilwane, uzosinika izinyane lekati…. siyethemba kunkulunkulu umninimandla onke ngalesi sikhathi uma sinenhlanhla futhi singahamba nathi iminyaka eminingi…. Inkosi ikubusise.
Sawubona Hileenis.
Ngiyaxolisa ngokuthi awuzange ube nenhlanhla enkulu namazinyane itt, kodwa thokoza, nginesiqiniseko sokuthi isimo sizohluka kuleso esisha. Futhi ke, halala ngelungu elisha lomndeni!
Nganginekati lami uMidi iminyaka engu-13, salicosha lilahliwe ngangivele ngine-poodle kaMis ende uBlanqui futhi ngaphambi kokumthena ngabamvumela ukuba abe nengane. Phambilini wayeyingxube ye-virmana, i-brusque esoka elihle kakhulu. Ama-kittens we-Turbo 5 Precious ne-Blanqui turbo eyodwa yami yokuthola i-Limda. Ikati lami alizange limunce uma linamakati angu-5 noma ayisithupha selokhu uLimda Sr. alala namakati kaMisu turbo wami oyindodakazi uPetra Bahlalile ndawonye iminyaka eyi-6 uLinda wami ogulayo futhi bafa ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbili uMisu wami eshonile
UPena ube nesikhathi esibi kakhulu futhi i-jute ayinakho okuningi. izilwane kodwa ngaphelezela umngani waya esibayeni futhi kwakukhona uPetra omncane owanginika inhlansi yempilo yami futhi ngamletha ekhaya Kuthando base benginika iKitten engimkhulise yona ngebhodlela kanye neSpark yami futhi uLeon wami Bathatha u-de marvilla uLeon wami uyakhuluma futhi ubuye abe yi-Parrot The 3 bazwana kakhulu
Ngingowasekhaya nezilwane zami
Futhi benginekati lami uMusu futhi bekuluthando Akaphumanga nje kancane waya engadini yethu noLeon wami Uyathandeka kakhulu Uchitha usuku ewindini uphuma yedwa nami
Kulungile. Siyakuhalalisela ngezilwane zakho 🙂
Sawubona, unjani? Ngibuyekeze izindatshana eziningi ekhasini futhi ngazithanda kakhulu, ngisafika kulokhu mayelana namazinyane futhi ngithanda ukuthi ungisize ngixazulule ezinye izinto.Ngiyazi ukuthi ngingabona kanjani ukuthi ngabe izinyane lekati noma ikati, ngaphandle kwalokho lithanda ukukhuphuka imilenze yami ngenkathi ngenza imisebenzi yami yasekhaya futhi kubuhlungu kakhulu angazi ukuthi ngingamenza kanjani ayeke ukukwenza, kungangisiza kakhulu ukuthola izeluleko kusengaphambili, ngiyabonga kakhulu! Ngilithandile ikhasi! 🙂
Sawubona Dalia.
Siyabonga ngamazwi akho, futhi siyakuhalalisela ngekati lakho! 🙂
Ukumfundisa ukuthi angakuklwayi kulula, yize kuthatha isikhathi lol Kumane nje kuyindaba yokumqukula, ukumyisa kwelinye igumbi futhi udlale naye isikhashana, uhlala ephethe ithoyizi, hhayi ngezandla zakhe.
Ukuthola ukuthi owesilisa noma owesifazane, ku Lesi sihloko Siyakuchazela.
A ukubingelela.
Sanibonani nonke! Ngidinga ukwelulekwa, nginekati lowesilisa elinonyaka owodwa futhi ngalihlenga nginezinsuku ezingama-30 ubudala ngisesimweni esibi kakhulu, namuhla uyikati elihle kodwa unesimilo esikhetheke kakhulu, ngingathanda ukuthi omunye umuntu angitshele ngesipiliyoni sakhe maqondana nokuthi kulungile yini ukumthola umaqondana, owesilisa noma owesifazane nohlanga olufanayo (ukukubeka ngandlela thile kungaba yiveni laseTurkey, ngokusho kobunjalo bakhe nobuntu bakhe)
Siyabonga!
Sawubona Nuria.
Sekuyizinsuku ezimbalwa kakhulu ukuthi uyicoshe. Iseluleko sami ukuthi silinde izinyanga ezimbalwa, size siqede ukujwayela ikhaya laso elisha.
Ngokubekezela nothando oluningi, ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzojabula.
A ukubingelela.
Ngiseyingane ngiyakhumbula nginamakati amabili, owesiSiamese owesilisa futhi onothando (hhayi okuningi kodwa wavumela ukuthintwa futhi wakuthokozela, akazange akufune) nowesifazane wasePheresiya ongakaze avume ukuthintwa, wayehlala ebhonga kuwe nje ngokudlula futhi ubengahlobene namanye amakati. AbaseSiamese kwesinye isikhathi babefika namanye amakati bezodla endishini yabo engadini.
Ngike ngazimela efulethini, ngangifuna ukwamukela ikati kodwa ngathi uma ngiyoyifuna ngabona ikati elihle, ekhoneni ekhoneni libuka ukuthi abanye badlala kanjani. Ngicabange ukuthi mhlawumbe leyo bekungeyona indawo yakhe futhi ngingamhlinzeka ngayo. Ngazibeka engcupheni ngicabanga ukuthi uzobe enamahloni hhayi ngokukhohlisa kakhulu, nokungekhona ebengikufuna.
Usephenduke ikati eliwubuqili kunabo bonke engake ngahlangana nabo, uhlala ecela futhi efuna ukutotosa, muhle kubo bonke abantu ahlangana nabo futhi uyabatotosa, noma umuntu emziba ngoba akawathandi amakati, akasamhluphi. Uhlale edla kahle, eshisa kakhulu noma sengimhambisile kweminye imizi. Bazijwayela izindawo ngokushesha futhi bathi ikati kungcono ukungalisusi lisuse endlini yalo. Akafundisiwe futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngiyamyisa endlini lapho kukhona owesilisa ongafundisiwe futhi (ngoba angikholelwa ekwenzeni okuthile okungekhona okwemvelo kuye futhi angiyena umuntu ongalawula impilo yakhe) futhi ngenyanga yokuqala wazama ukumkhweza , kodwa sathi CHA! njalo lapho ezama futhi kancane kancane wayeka ukukwenza futhi waqala ukuzivikela.Namuhla singahlangana sonke futhi kuhle ukubona ukuthi bagezana kanjani, balale begonene futhi badlala ndawonye. Azikho izinkinga, akukho ukusolwa, ukuzifundisa nokubekezela.
Umehluko ophawulekayo phakathi kwalelo kati nekati lami (bafundiswe ngokufana) engikubonile yilokhu:
- Ikati, njengoba kusho i-athikili, lithanda ukuhamba amahora athile liye endaweni ethile ephakeme futhi lihlale lapho libuke konke okwenzeka egumbini.
- Ikati nalo liyathanda ukuhlala lisuka endaweni ethile liyibukele kodwa uma nje ulibuka, liza ligijime lizokutotosa.
- Wake wakhihla (3 onyakeni owodwa nohhafu) esihlabathini, sikucabanga lokho ukumaka indawo. Akakaze akwenze.
- Uhlanza kakhulu futhi ngokuzwakalayo, wahlanza njengengane kepha wayeka ukukwenza.
- Ucela ukutotoswa okuningi futhi naye, kepha akuvamile, bobabili bakwamukela ukutotosa ngomoya ophansi.
Ngike ngezwa ngabantu abaphelelwa yithemba ngenxa yokutholakala kwekati, kuyiqiniso ukuthi abajabuleki futhi kwesinye isikhathi baphakama kakhulu bangesabisa omakhelwane kodwa lapho ngiyamthatha, ngiyamthambisa, ngiyamtotosa noma ngiyamvumela ukulala kwakhe phezu kwami bese kwehlisa umoya. Awudingi enye into. Ngokumphatha kahle, uyehlisa umoya.
Bathi bazimele nokuthi bakholelwa ukuthi bangabanikazi bethu, nami ngakholwa futhi ... kepha ngemuva kokufundisa amakati amabili ngikuqinisekisile ukuthi cha, ukuthi bakhetha ukuba ngabangane bakho nokuthi ngothando oluningi bakunikeza okuningi zothando, ziza zigijime lapho ufona, zikulinda emnyango lapho ufika, zilala nawe ...
Ngiyethemba ukuthi ngibasizile labo abanokungabaza ngokuthi bazokhetha ini, noma kunjalo, ngikholwa ukuthi konke kuyimfundo enikezwa ngumnikazi nobuntu bekati.
Sawubona Edelweiss.
Siyabonga ngokuphawula. Impela kuyamsiza umuntu ukuthi anqume.
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi ukuhambisa ikati akuyona into engokwemvelo kubo; njengoba sisusa ingxenye yomzimba wakhe. Kepha kufanele ucabange ukuthi yisilwane esiphila kulo mzuzu wamanje. Uma ikati lingashiseki, ngeke liye kozakwethu; uma enezingane, uzozinakekela, futhi uma engenazo, ngeke.
Maningi kakhulu amakati namakati alahliwe, futhi bambalwa kakhulu abantu abalungile kuwo.
Ngijabule kakhulu ukuthi wenza kahle ngale ndlela, futhi ngiyethemba ukuthi awukuthathi ngendlela engafanele (akuhambisani naleyo nhloso 🙂).
A ukubingelela.
Bangiphuca iLos Gatos iminyaka eyi-12, nganginekati elihle laseBurma, laliyekwa, kwakuwuthando lekati, lakhula nenja. UPoodle wamkhulisa sengathi uyindodakazi yakhe, yafa inja yena waba nosizi. Kwaphela inyanga ngicabanga ukuthi angisenazo ezinye izilwane kodwa ngaya kobona isibaya senkomo ngaphuma nenja edla inyama bese kuthi kudoti ngathola ikati futhi sengimkhulisile kanye naye. Ngiye ngazwana kahle kakhulu ngayibona inja. Balala ndawonye iNgonyama yami iyakhuluma kakhulu icela yonke into iyadlala futhi iyinyama ayiyithandi. Lokho kuphumela emgwaqweni kusuka efasiteleni maya ngithanda
Engithethisa, uhlanzekile impela, kufanele aphuze amanzi engilazini, ukahle, akawathandi ngaphezu kokuphakelayo kwakhe, ngicabanga ukuthi uneminyaka emibili
Lo mbhalo uthakazelisa kakhulu, ngigcwalisa ngokuthile okucace kakhulu nokuthi akekho noyedwa onikeze incazelo enengqondo yokuthi kungani lokho kwenzeka, ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule amazinyane amane abeletha ikati, ngeshwa kwenzeka imoto yambulala kanye namazinyane kwesokunxele amasonto amane, kwenzeka into engajwayelekile ngoba ikati lesilisa elivela kudoti wangaphambilini lilele nabo, liyababuka, lidlale nabo, kepha into engajwayelekile bekuyizinsuku ezimbalwa ezedlule ukuthi ufike negundane eliphilayo futhi, njengoba ukube bekuyikati, ubize amantshontsho wawafaka ukuze adlale aze awadle, bengicabanga ukuthi yicala elilodwa, kepha cha, ubelokhu ekwenza kaningi, manje njengoba ngidlulise amakati abuyele kuwo alethe ezinye izilwane uyazibulala futhi akazidli.
Sawubona Jairo Rodrigo.
Siyabonga ngokuxoxa le ndaba. Kuyamangaza 🙂
Amakati (owesilisa) nawo angaba nesimilo sesisa nesomama (kahle, oyise kuleli cala heh heh).
A ukubingelela.
Nganginekati engangilinikezwa umngane wami. Ngametha ngokuthi uMinina.
AMAKATI WAMI angamaduna, uPhill noPaul. Baphila kusukela esibelethweni sikamama enkampanini yami, kwazise uGina (umama) wayeyikati elijwayele ukuhamba emgwaqweni nasendle.Wafika endlini yami eyedwa wahlala egcekeni ngaphandle izinhloso zokushiya! Udoti wakhe wokuqala washona, eyodwa ngesikhathi ezalwa kanti abanye abathathu ngenxa yokungabi nalwazi. Abathathu bazalwa ngodoti olandelayo. Abesilisa ababili nowesifazane oyedwa. Kwakufanele ngimbeke ukhololo nesibopho ngaphansi kwedeski ukuze azinakekele inyanga nohhafu. Ngemuva kwenyanga ngaqala ukubapha amaphilisi. Njengamanje uhlala ngaphandle nangaphezulu kwendlu. Abesilisa bahlala ngaphakathi nangaphandle kokuthula nabangane. UGina (udade) wamukelwa ngumakhelwane, kepha yena ungaphandle futhi uphezu kophahla njengonina. Amakati aqonda kahle cha futhi ahlakaniphe kakhulu. Ngingakuqinisekisa ukuthi bayakwazi ukulandela ama-oda ngokunemba okungu-90%. Ziphuzi
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