Amakati Abonisa Kanjani Ukuthandana

Monica Sanchez

Imizuzu ye-4

Phatha ikati lakho ngenhlonipho ukuze likunikeze uthando

Ngubani Owathi Amakati Ayengeke Athande? Sengiphile nabo iminyaka eminingi futhi iqiniso ukuthi nsuku zonke bangimangaza kakhulu. Amandla akhe othando asobala impela, futhi kuyiqiniso futhi ukuthi ukukhombisa kwakhe uthando kwesinye isikhathi kucashile kangangokuba, kumuntu ongenalwazi, kungabonwa. Kepha lokho ngeke kusenzeka.

Ngokulandelayo sizokutshela amakati abonisa kanjani uthando ngakho-ke uyazi lapho sekuyisikhathi sokuphindisela 🙂.

Bakuthinta ngawe

Uma ikati likugudla, linike uthando

Amakati angathandana kakhulu. Kakade kusukela entweni yokuqala ekuseni bayakukhombisa ukuthi bakuthanda kangakanani, futhi enye yezindlela zokwenza ngukukuhlikihla ikhanda. Ebusweni kunezindlala ezikhipha ama-pheromones. Ama-pheromones yimilayezo ayisebenzisayo ukwenza kucace, ngokwesibonelo, ukuthi "lokhu okwabo" (uneminye imininingwane lapha). Lapho bekuhlikihla, abakutshela kona ukuthi bazizwa kahle ngawe..

Ziyakuhlanza

Cha, akukhona ukuthi bakubheka njengongcolile, kodwa ukuthi bakwenza njengesenzo sobumbano lomndeni. Kubo, ungomunye futhi, ikati elilodwa eliyingxenye yezimpilo zabo, futhi bayakuthanda futhi bayakuhlonipha kanjalo.. Ngakho-ke lapho bekwenza, bayeke bakwenze futhi ubavuze ngeseshini yokutotosa kamuva. Ngokuqinisekile bayayithanda.

Abasuki kude kakhulu nawe

Kwesinye isikhathi kungaba njalo ukuthi amakati onawo ekhaya anamahloni, athanda kakhulu, noma asesezinhlelweni zokuzethemba ekhaya lawo elisha. Kubo, iqiniso elilula lokuthi bayakulandela liyisiboniso sothandoBayakutshela ukuthi bafuna ukuba lapho ukhona.

Khombisa isisu

Uma ikati lakho likhombisa isisu, kungenxa yokuthi uyakuthanda

Uma amakati efulathele, ngaleyo ndlela aveze umoya, bakutshela ukuthi bayakuthemba. Futhi ngukuthi, ngokwemvelo, uma bekwenzile bebezoba sengozini enkulu, ngakho-ke uma ubona aboboya bakho bekhombisa isisu sabo, ungangabazi ukuthi bazizwa bekhululekile ngokuba khona kwakho.

Bayajabula lapho ufika ekhaya

Yebo, cishe, cishe njengezinja. Uma uvula umnyango bese uthola amakati akho, noma uma nje lapho ukhuluma basondela kuwe, ungathatha kancane ukuthi bajabule kakhulu ukukubona futhi nokuthi bakukhumbule.

Knead

Ukukhwabanisa kuyisenzo esingokwemvelo abasenzayo ngoba bayizingane ezisanda kuzalwa. Lapho amantshontsho exolela, avusa ukugeleza kobisi kunina. Lapho bekhula, leso silwane sihlala isikhathi eside, incazelo kuphela iyashintsha: manje kuyisibonakaliso senjabulo, induduzo nokuvikeleka.

Bashiya izipho

Uma amakati akho ephumela ngaphandle futhi ekwethemba, mhlawumbe azokulethela "izipho" eziyizidumbu zezilwane. Angiyithandi nakancane, kodwa ungabathukutheleli Yebo, bakwenza ngoba bakuthanda nje futhi abafuni ukuthi ulambe. Ngakho-ke into enhle kakhulu ongayenza ukuyisa egumbini ngenkathi omunye umuntu enakekela ukususa isisulu esimpofu. Enye inketho ukungabavumeli baphumele ngaphandle.

Cwayiza kancane

Amehlo amahle wekati le-tabby

Lapho amakati ekubuka futhi ecwayiza kancane, empeleni akunikeza "ukwanga kwabo kwekati". Ngakho-ke, kungukukhonjiswa kothando okucashile kodwa okumangalisayo okuzokuvumela ukuthi uqinisekise ukuthi abantu bakho abanoboya bayakuthanda, kakhulu. Ungakhohlwa ukwenza okufanayo ukuze bazi ukuthi nawe uyabazisa.

Lezi yizibonakaliso "ezilula" zothando ukuzibona, kepha Ikati ngalinye lihlukile futhi linezindlela zalo zokubonisa ukuthi bayakuthanda. Isibonelo, iqiniso lokuthi ulele eduze kwakho, ukugoqa lapho ubaphulula, noma ukugibela emathangeni akho kungenye yezindlela la mafutha amahle kakhulu okumele akhombise uthando lwawo kulabo ababheka njengomndeni wabo.

Vele, uma ufuna ngibenze, konke okumele ukwenze ukubanakekela njengoba kufanele, ngenhlonipho nangothando.


Shiya umbono wakho

Ikheli lakho le ngeke ishicilelwe. Ezidingekayo ibhalwe nge *

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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.

  1.   UJudith Elvira Quesada kusho
    kwenza iminyaka 6

    Sanibonani, nginekati engilithanda kakhulu, angazi uzilimaze kanjani wasusa ingqamuzana lakhe, ngamyisa kudokotela wezilwane "walilungisa" kodwa uyaxhuga kakhulu. Kungumlenze wangaphambili ongakwesokudla, yini engingayenza?

    Phendula uJudith Elvira Quesada
    1.    UMonica sanchez kusho
      kwenza iminyaka 6

      Sawubona Judith.
      Ngiyaxolisa ukuthi ikati lakho libi, kepha kufanele wazi ukuthi ukuqhekeka, ukuhlukaniswa kwemisipha nokunye kuthatha isikhathi eside ukuphola.
      Kufanele ubekezele. Ngingakweluleka kuphela ukuthi (angiyena udokotela wezilwane).
      Isikhuthazo esikhulu.

      Phendula uMonica Sanchez
  2.   Vi kusho
    kwenza iminyaka 6

    Sawubona, namhlanje sivumelanise umdlwane onezinyanga ezimbili ubudala, samletha ekhaya kodwa akavumeli ukuthi abanjwe kalula, izingane azikwazanga ukudlala naye, akafuni ukudla, ngingenzani ukuze athenjwe?

    Phendula ku-Vi
    1.    UMonica sanchez kusho
      kwenza iminyaka 6

      Sawubona!
      Kufanele ubekezele 🙂. Mmeme ukuthi azodlala nsuku zonke, umkhombise intambo noma ithoyizi. Mnike ukudla okumanzi (amathini) ngezikhathi ezithile, ukuze maduze azokubona uyilokhu oyikho, umuntu omnakekelayo.
      En Lesi sihloko uneminye imininingwane.
      Siyakuhalalisela ngalokho kuthathwa.

      Phendula uMonica Sanchez