Ungathanda ukuba umngane omkhulu wekati lakho? Uma kunjalo, kufanele wazi ukuthi, yize kungumsebenzi ongaba lula impela, udinga isikhathi nokubekezela. Awukwazi ukulindela ukuthola ukwethenjwa kwesibalo ezinsukwini ezimbili.
Noma kunjalo, ngiyaqinisekisa ukuthi ngemuva kwawo wonke umzamo, imivuzo izokuza. Ngalesi sizathu, ngizokuchazela indlela yokuthola ukwethenjwa kwekati.
Mnike ukuphepha
Ngaphambi kokukhuluma ngokuphulula, kubalulekile ukuthi uqiniseke ukuthi uboya buzohlala endaweni ethule nephephile. Kumele ukwazi ukukhempa okuqukethwe yinhliziyo yakho, ubone futhi uhlole yonke into ekhaya lakho elisha (ngaphandle kwezinto eziyingozi nezintambo, kunjalo) ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa abanye abantu abanoboya noma abantu. Ngokufanayo, akudingeki umphoqe ukuba enze noma yini, kepha okumele ukwenze ukuthi u-feline yena kube nguye obeka ijubane lobudlelwano.
Futhi, kuyadingeka kakhulu ukuthi aye egumbini yedwa noma nini lapho ethanda. Kuwo kufanele kube khona okubalulekile okuyizinto zokudlala, islefa, umbhede, ukudla namanzi, kodwa futhi nocezu oluthile lwezingubo zethu oluthwala iphunga lethu.
Chitha isikhathi
Ukuze sikwazi ukwethenjwa nguwe, kubalulekile ukuthi usebenzise isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ubekezele. Kubalulekile ukufunda ukuhumusha i- ulimi lomzimba Yebo, leyo kuzoba yindlela lapho ubomvu busitshela khona ukuthi ufunani nokuthi uzizwa kanjani ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Nsuku zonke kufanele sidlale naye, kungaba ngentambo noma ngebhola, futhi asivumele ashonele eduze kwethu. Izikhathi ezimbalwa zokuqala kunamathuba amaningi okuthi ngeke isondele kakhulu, kepha akukho okwenzekayo, sizolinda. Kungakabiphi singaqiniseka ukuthi uzofuna ukuthi simncenge.
Ungenzi imisindo
Amakati ayakwazi ukuzwa umsindo wegundane kusuka kude ngamamitha ayi-7. Uma simthethisa futhi / noma senza umsindo omkhulu, sizomethusa futhi isilwane ngeke sijabule. Uma wenza okuthile okungalungile, akumele simphathe kabi (Empeleni, ukuphatha kabi isilwane akuvumelekile ngokomthetho noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu esiholela ekutheni umuntu aphathe esakhe, yini okufanele ibe yiyo, umngane onemilenze emine kanjalo), Esikhundleni salokho, kufanele sithi "CHA" ngokuqinile kepha ngaphandle kokumemeza okwamanje, linda imizuzwana engu-4 bese uqondise kabusha ukuziphatha kwabo ngokuphatha noma amathoyizi.
Ubudlelwano bekati lomuntu kufanele bube ubudlelwano obulinganayo. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho sobabili singaba nobudlelwano obuhle.