Ikati ngalinye "linobuntu" balo, futhi maqondana nalokhu, kuzoba yinto engavamile kakhulu izikhathi lapho lizosimangaza lapho sesazi ukuthi umlingiswa womngani wethu unjani. Bambalwa kakhulu lokho sithambekele ekukhathazekeni: sicabanga ukuthi kukhona okubi okungahambi kahle ngaye, futhi yize lokho kungaba yisizathu, akulona iqiniso ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Namuhla ngizokuchazela izizathu ezingadala lokho Ukuziphatha okungazelelwe kushintsha amakati.
Lezi zilwane ngokuvamile ziyazijabulisa kakhulu. Lokhu yinto esiyibona mihla namalanga behlala nabo: bathanda ukuphululwa, kudlalwa nabo,… ngamafuphi, ukuthi siyakujabulela ukuba nabo. Manje, lapho singenazo ezinye izidingo zakho ezihlanganisiwe, kungenzeka ukuthi shintsha indlela oziphatha ngayo: bangadlondlobala ngokwedlulele, bazihlukanise noma babonise isimilo esinolaka ngenxa yalokhu kunganaki, kwalokho "ukulahlwa imizwa" (okusho ukuthi, yeka ukunika uthando).
Kukhona amakati anikela kakhulu kunalokho akutholayo. Yibo labo abathanda kakhulu mega abathanda ukuchitha usuku lonke besondele kumuntu obaphathayo, kepha bona abathola lutho ngaphandle kokudla, amanzi nophahla. Yize ngenhlanhla kuya ngokuya kuncipha, kukhona labo abasacabanga ukuthi amakati adinga kuphela lezo zinto ezintathu, kanti akunjalo. Ikati liyilungu lomndeni nalo idinga uthando nokunakwa. Nsuku zonke.
Kungani kwenzeka ushintsho oluzumayo ekuziphatheni kwekati?
Kunezimbangela eziningi ezingaba khona:
Ukungabi nokunakekelwa okuvela kumnakekeli wakho
Kuyaye kucatshangwe ukuthi la makati azimele nokuthi ziyizilwane okulula ukuzinakekela, ukuthi noma ubanikeza nje ukudla namanzi bazobe belungile. Kepha akunjalo. Amakati adinga okungaphezulu kakhulu kwalokho: Badinga ukuzizwa beyingxenye yomndeni, futhi ngalokhu, laba bantu kumele bazame ukubakhonza, babagcine behlangene,… Ngamafuphi, mphathe njengelungu elilodwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona amakati okuthi, njengoba sishilo, athandana kakhulu, ancike kakhulu emoyeni. Bazoba nesikhathi esibi kakhulu lapho beshiye bodwa, ngakho-ke uma uthatha uhambo into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukucela umuntu omethembayo ukuthi abe nabo, noma uma kungenzeka, ahambe ayohlala endlini yakho uze ubuye .
Ubuhlungu noma ukungaphatheki kahle
Le yinto engenzeka nakubantu: izinhlungu (ngokomzimba kanye / noma ngokomzwelo) zenza indlela yethu yokuziphatha iguquke kakhulu, noma incane, kepha iyeka ukufana. Njengoba amakati ngeshwa engakhulumi njengabantu, futhi kungathatha okuningi ukuthola ukuthi yini engahambi kahle ngabo, ukuvakashela kudokotela wezilwane akulimazi. Kepha uma wena noma umndeni wakho nibhekene nesikhathi esibi, isilwane cishe siyasibona, into ezobenza bazizwe bengakhululekile.
Isixazululo si ... usizo oluhle lokutotosa nsuku zonke 🙂. Akukona ukumcindezela, kepha kumayelana nokumbonisa ukuthi umthanda kangakanani. Mnikeze ukuphatha amakati ngezikhathi ezithile, uzomjabulisa!
Ikati lami lithandana kakhulu kunokujwayelekile, kwenzekani kuye?
Uma ingathathi hlangothi futhi kuyintwasahlobo noma ihlobo, maningi amathuba okuthi uma kungowesifazane iye ekushiseni, futhi uma kungowesilisa ifuna ukuthi uvule umnyango ukuze uyofuna umaqondana. Kepha uma uke wahlinzwa, kungenzeka kakhulu Ngizamile ukukutshela okuthile: ungahle ufune inkampani, noma udinga usizo lwezilwane.
Kunoma ikuphi, ukuvakashela uchwepheshe kuzokusiza wehlise umoya, ngoba uma egula uzothola ukwelashwa, futhi uma engenakho, khona-ke uzokwazi ukuthi okumele ukwenze ukunikela isikhathi esithe xaxa kuye.
Ngabe ikati elinolaka lingazuma ngokushesha?
Yebo kunjalo, noma kumele ukhumbule ukuthi ulaka luvame ukuhambisana nokwesaba nokungazethembi. Ngamanye amagama: awekho amakati anolaka, kepha kunalokho izimo lapho beziphatha kanjena. Abenzi ngokuhlela kusengaphambili, ngoba abanalo lelo khono, kodwa ngokwemvelo.
Ukubheka lokhu, Kunini lapho ungaba nolaka ngokungazelelwe? Ezimweni ezilandelayo:
- Lapho siletha ikati lesibili elingaziwa ngokuphelele kuye.
- Lapho sibuyela ekhaya sivela kudokotela wezilwane nomlingani wakhe obekufanele alashwe noma ahlinzwe.
- Lapho ehlelwe yisimo esibuhlungu kuye.
- Lapho uzwa ukuthi impilo yakho isengozini.
Ukumthulisa okokuqala kufanele sazi ukuthi kungani iziphatha kanjena. Isibonelo, ezimweni ezimbili zokuqala okuhle ukuwethula (noma ukwethula kabusha); thatha eyodwa uye ekamelweni bese ushintshanisa imibhede izinsuku ezingama-3-4, bese uzibuyisela ndawonye ngaphansi kokubhekwa.
Uma ngabe uphile noma uphila umzuzu wokucindezeleka okukhulu kanye nokungezwani, noma uma uzwa sengathi impilo yakho isengcupheni, esizokwenza ukukuhambisa kude lapho kuphela uma kunengozi yangempela; Okusho ukuthi, uma wesaba isikhwama sepulasitiki (ngokwesibonelo), ukuthinta isikhwama futhi usinikeze ukuphatha ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze ubone ukuthi akukho okungahambi kahle kwanele.
Uma ingozi ingeyangempela (inja noma esinye isilwane noma umuntu ekuhlupha noma ekuhlasela) sizozama ukukukhipha kuleso simo, esabisa umhlaseli wakho noma umuntu ongaba ngumhlaseli, noma umcele - uma engumuntu - ukuthi ahambe.
Ungayisiza kanjani ikati ngokwesaba okungazelelwe?
Ngokuzola okukhulu nangokubekezela. Ukuphatha ikati kungenza ubuqili, kepha uma kwenzeka engengethuki. Uma kuyisilwane esihlala sifihlekile ekhoneni lendlu, Kuzoba ngcono ukuthi ukhulume ngezwi elijabulisayo, elizolile nelithambile. Ungenzi ukunyakaza okungazelelwe noma umsindo; qamba.
Qonda futhi usebenzise ulimi lomzimba lwe-feline- Cwayiza kancane, yibheke umzuzwana, bese ubheka eceleni. Le mininingwane, yize ibukeka incane, izokwenza ukuthi uboya buqonde ukuthi angazizwa ephephile ekhaya.
Ungaluqeda kanjani ukucindezeleka emakati?
Amakati abekezelela ingcindezi kabi, yingakho lapho kungenzeka kufanele sishiye ukungezwani ngaphandle kwekhaya. Ukuhamba, amaqembu, ukwahlukana noma ama-duels yizimo ezibathinta kakhulu, kuze kufike ezingeni lokuthi indlela abaziphatha ngayo ingashintsha.
Indlela yokubasiza iwukuthula, ngokubekezela. Uma sinyakaza, sizomshiya egumbini nezinto zakhe size siqede (impela, sizoba naye isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, nsuku zonke); uma exinwa yimicimbi noma evakashelwa, singazama ukuzihlanganisa nabantu; Futhi uma sihamba ngokwehlukana noma nge-duel, kunzima kepha kufanele sizame ukuqhubeka nenqubo yansuku zonke. Uma kunzima kithina, sizocela usizo lochwepheshe.
Kukuphi ukuziphatha okujwayelekile kwamakati?
Lowo ngomunye wemibuzo engenayo impendulo eyodwa, ngoba kuzoncika kakhulu ekatsheni, kwizakhi zalo zofuzo, ukuthi lakhuliswa kuphi nokuthi kanjani, ukunakekelwa elikutholile endimeni nalokho elikutholayo manje, ... Kepha uma ufuna ukuthola umbono ongaphezulu noma omncane, akutshele lokho amazinyane ngokuvamile anonya kakhulu, ayethukile, ayadlala futhi ayaphuma, kwesinye isikhathi ngokweqile.
Kufanele ubabekezelele kakhulu, ubafundise ngenhlonipho, kepha futhi nangothando. Kumele sishiye ngemuva izifutho, sizithele ngamanzi, sizishaye. Lokhu kuzosebenza kuphela ukuthi basenze besabe.
Uma sikhuluma ngamakati amadala, ajwayele ukuba namahloni, abe skittish, kepha abe nobudlelwano namanye amakati noma nabanye abantu (Lokhu kuzoncika kakhulu ekutheni ngabe bayizidalwa, okungukuthi, uma bekhulele emgwaqweni ngaphandle kokuxhumana nabantu, noma uma, kunalokho, bebehlala futhi behlala nomndeni obanakekelayo ngothando ).
Kunezimo ezithile ezikhethekile lapho ungathola khona amakati adumisa inkampani yanoma ngubani ofuna ukuwaphulula, kepha, njengoba ngithi, akhethekile. Ukuba nenhlanhla yokuhlala nomunye onjalo akulula. Kufanele usebenze kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bekati lomuntu, kufanele uthathe isikhathi ukuqonda ulimi lomzimba wakhe, umhloniphe ngalokho ayikho nokuthi unjani (lokho kusho ukumvumela angene kwifenisha, isibonelo, noma umbhede).
Ngiyethemba kube usizo kuwe to.
Sawubona, ikati lami selishintshile selokhu ngasusa ukhaphethi endlini yami, alidli futhi lifuna ukuba ngaphansi kwendlu yezingubo ezithile, ngiyalibiza futhi alifuni ukwehla.
Sawubona Maria.
Ungazama ukumupha ukudla akuthanda kakhulu, njengamathini amakati. Njengoba inephunga elinamandla, akufanele ithathe isikhathi eside ukuphuma.
Noma, hola ukunaka kwakhe ngethoyizi noma ngentambo, bese udlala naye.
A ukubingelela.
Sawubona,
Selokhu sibuya eholidini, ikati lami alifuni ukunyathela phansi futhi ukulihambisa ligxume lisuke kufenisha eyodwa liye kolunye ... kubucayi noma ngiyaliyeka kancane libuyele "kokujwayelekile"?
Sawubona Maria Inés.
Amakati awakuthandi ukuba semhlabathini kakhulu, ngoba kuyindawo lapho angazizwa esengozini khona.
Noma kunjalo, kancane kancane kufanele kubuyele kokujwayelekile.
A ukubingelela.
Sawubona, ikati lami lishintshe ngokuzumayo ukuziphatha kwalo. Usesabeka kakhulu, uyazifihla, achame abuye afake izidwaba yonke indawo, isikhumba nezinwele zakhe kuyabulala, futhi kubukeka sengathi akasaboni. Udokotela wezilwane akazi ukuthi kungaba yini. Sicela usize! Ngikhathazekile kakhulu!
Sawubona Sofia.
Ngincoma ukuthi ubuze umbono wesibili wezilwane. Angiyena udokotela wezilwane, uxolo.
Ukuphela kwento engingayicabanga ukuthi indlela yokudla kungenzeka ingabi yinhle kakhulu kuye. Ngincoma ukuthi ubheke ukuze ubone ukuthi inamabele (ummbila, ukolweni, i-oats, njll.), Futhi uma kunjalo, yishintshele kokunye okungaholi, ukubona ukuthi iyathuthuka yini.
Isikhuthazo esikhulu.
Sawubona lapho! Nginekati elineminyaka engu-6 ubudala, sathutha efulethini saya ekhaya ngonyaka odlule. Ngimenze washiya amatshe amancane kodwa izinyanga ezimbalwa ubelokhu esendlini lapho engena nje endlini. Ngukushoda kothando, ukugula noma kuzoba yini?
Sawubona Marcela.
Uxolo, angikuzwisisi kahle. Ngabe uthathe ibhokisi lodoti ekatini lakho ukuze likhululeke ngaphandle futhi manje selibuyele emuva liyokwenza ekhaya? Uma kunjalo, mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi ukhululekile nje ukuzikhululela endlini.
Kunoma ikuphi, ngeke kulimaze ukuthi udokotela wezilwane amhlole, abone ukuthi akanalo yini igciwane.
A ukubingelela.
Hols… Nginezinja ezimbili. Unyaka owodwa futhi wathena omunye wezinyanga eziyi-1 owamfaka emasontweni amathathu edlule. Babethandana, bezijabulisa futhi behlala bendawonye. Kusukela ngakhipha okuncane kunazo zonke ... Ushintsho olukhulu kakhulu futhi uhlala ehlasela futhi enesimo esibi ... (bobabili bagonyelwe amarabi). Angazi ukuthi ngenzeni ukumvimba ahlasele ama-lamas amancane. Ngizama ukubatotosa ngokulinganayo kepha akusizi ngalutho .. Izimpilo ezindala kakhulu zithukuthele. Usizo!
Sawubona Carla.
Ngincoma ukuthi uphinde uzihambise. Thatha omncane umyise egumbini izinsuku ezintathu. Kulelo gumbi kufanele umbhede wakho umbozwe ngengubo. Mboza umbhede welinye ikati ngenye ingubo. Phakathi nosuku lwesibili nolwesithathu kuzofanela uwashintshanise, ngakho-ke bazokwamukela kabusha umbala womzimba wenye.
Ngosuku lwesine, yekisa ikati phandle ubone ukuthi lisabela kanjani. Mthinte omunye bese umenzela omunye kancane kancane ukuze kancane kancane babe nephunga elifanayo, elizobasiza bazizwe bezolile.
Futhi bekezela. Kungekudala bazophinde bazwane.
A ukubingelela.
Sawubona. Ngidinga usizo. Nginekati elicishe libe neminyaka eyi-9 ubudala, selivele linomzimba. Emasontweni ambalwa edlule uqale ukuhlanza kakhulu ngamyisa kudokotela wezilwane. Benza ukuhlolwa kwegazi konke kwahamba kahle kwahlolwa ukuhlolwa kokuthola ukuthi isifo sokuqaqamba kwamaphaphu sabuya singekho. Kwaqedwa ukuthi kwakungezama-hairballs futhi banquma imithombo. Futhi emva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa ngiyayeka ukuhlanza. Kepha ngemuva kwalokho waqala waphefumula ngendlela exakile futhi akasangqumi, noma u-preps, noma ufuna ukudlala, uchitha isikhathi sakhe esiningi elele phansi. Kubukeka kudabukisa. Akufani. Kwesinye isikhathi igxuma ngokumangazayo bese iphakamisa umsila. Yini engaba khona? Yiziphi izivivinyo okudingeka ube nazo ukuze wazi onakho? Ngiyabonga.
Sawubona Cris.
Kungenzeka ukuthi imithombo ayikusebenzisanga kahle.
Kepha lokho kungaziwa kuphela ngudokotela wezilwane (angisiye).
Ungazama ukuyinika uwoyela omncane, ukubona ukuthi uqunjelwe yini, kepha ngincoma amanye ukuthi uphinde uwuthathe.
Isikhuthazo esikhulu.
Sawubona, kuvela ukuthi benginekati lami lesilisa lasePheresiya elingathathi hlangothi iminyaka emithathu futhi emasontweni ambalwa edlule uyamangaza, njengoba engenakho ukuthula kunokujwayelekile futhi esabisayo, kwesinye isikhathi, ngokuzumayo, uvame ukungigqolozela ngaphandle kokucwayiza nokungixosha kube sengathi bengiyisihambi esengene endlini yakhe, sengathi akangibonanga, uba nolaka, angiqunge aze angishaye ngempama uma ngisondela.Akukho zinguquko ekhaya noma okunye okusha, yize ngicabanga ukuthi uyakwenza ngokwesaba, angikuqondi, yesaba ini? okokugcina kwenzeka kimi, ngaphandle kwalokho, besidlala Kwakungelona ikati elinolaka, empeleni, kwakuyikati eligcwele, elikhulu.Kodwa lashintsha ngokungazelelwe, alikaze lingihlasele phambilini, futhi kubonakala sengathi ngiyisongo kulo.Kwenzekani kulo? Noma kungani ikwenza lokho? Ngiyabonga kusengaphambili.
Sawubona!
Yebo, okushoyo kuyaxaka kakhulu. Uma kungabibikho ushintsho, ngincoma ukumyisa kudokotela wezilwane ukuze ayohlolwa ngokuphelele.
Kwesinye isikhathi kungasinika umuzwa wokuthi unempilo enhle, kepha uma kwenzeka kuwe, ayikho inkinga yezilwane engakhishwa ngaphandle.
Uma konke ekugcineni kulungile, thola ukwethenjwa kwakhe ngesisu: mnike ukudla kwekati okumanzi nokwelashwa kwekati. Mthambise njengomuntu ongafuni le nto lapho edla, ngakho-ke uzohlobanisa lo mbukiso wothando nokuthile okuhle okuwukudla.
Mmeme ukuthi azodlala ngezintambo, izilwane ezifakiwe, amabhola amancane. Uma ekuklwebha / ekuluma noma ehlose ukukwenza, misa umdlalo bese uwushiyela umzuzu owodwa noma emibili kuphela.
Kufanele ubekezele, futhi kwesinye isikhathi usizo lwe-feline ethologist lungadingeka, kepha ekugcineni ungabona ukuthuthuka.
Isikhuthazo esikhulu.
Sawubona, ikati lami liqale ukuhlasela ikati lami kungazelele muntu, le ndawo yangakubo inguquko eshaqisayo futhi angazi yini inkinga yakhe.
Ikati lami lihamba licashe ngoba liyalimaza futhi limhlukumeza kakhulu, limhlasela ngamandla futhi ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Kwenzakalani?
Sawubona Natalia.
Ngabe kube khona ushintsho ekhaya? Ukuhambisa, ukusebenza, ...?
Uma bekungekho lutho, kuye kufike kimi ukuthi mhlawumbe ikati alinampilo enhle. Kwesinye isikhathi lapho zimbi zisebenza ngodlame, ngakho-ke ngincoma ukumyisa kudokotela wezilwane ukuze ambuke.
Uma kwenzeka kulungile, khona-ke ngikweluleka ukuthi uchithe isikhathi esiningi nabo, nidlale, futhi nibanikeze uthando olufanayo. Ngakho-ke, kancane kancane, bobabili bazokwehlisa umoya.
Isikhuthazo esikhulu.
Nginekati elidala elicishe libe neminyaka eyi-10 ubudala futhi ubelokhu ethandana kakhulu futhi muva nje uma ngimtotosa uyalithanda njengenjwayelo futhi uyangihlikihla angikhothe kodwa ngemuva kwesikhashana ngimphulule uyathukuthela angithukuthelele uma umthinte, kungaba yini?
Sawubona barbara.
Kumele kube ushintsho ekuziphatheni okufana nobudala. Uma ephila impilo ejwayelekile futhi ungaziboni ezinye izimpawu, impela akasathandi ukuphululwa isikhathi eside.
A ukubingelela.
Nginekati elineminyaka engu-5 ubudala, wayevame ukungabi naluthando (ikakhulukazi ngezingane, kwakubonakala sengathi akazithandi), wanyamalala cishe amasonto amabili, futhi manje njengoba sengibuyile unothando kakhulu futhi uvumela ukuphululwa yizingane, futhi nginekati eliyindodana yakhe, kepha manje njengoba ebuyile ikati liyamgqumela futhi lifuna ukumshaya, kungaba yini?
Sawubona Elmer.
Ingabe i-neutered? Uma kungenjalo, kungenzeka ukuthi ukhulelwe nokuthi, ngenxa yesimo sakhe, indlela aziphatha ngayo isishintshile.
Uma kwenzeka isetshenziswa, okungenzeka ukuthi kwenzekile ukuthi ikati aliqapheli iphunga lomzimba kanina, ukuthi liyibona njengesihambi. Ukuyixazulula, kufanele ubaphulule bobabili, kuqala eyodwa, bese kuba enye, bese ubuyela kweyokuqala. Lezi zilwane ziqondiswa kakhulu yiphunga, ngakho-ke uma zibona ukuthi zonke zinephunga elifanayo, kancane kancane ziyokwehlisa umoya.
Kubalulekile futhi ukubanikeza ukudla okumanzi (amathini) futhi wenze icala elifanayo kubo bobabili.
A ukubingelela.
Sawubona, angazi noma ungangisiza yini.
Nginamakati amabili, eyodwa ineminyaka emi-4 enye inenye engu-2. Noma bobabili benobuntu obungafani, bavame ukuzwana, futhi babehlale bengana futhi belala ndawonye ngaphandle kwenkinga. Emasontweni ambalwa edlule sithathe isinqumo sokunakekela izinyane lekati elinenyanga eyodwa ubudala amasonto ambalwa, kanti elincane likwazile ukuliphulula, kuyilapho elidala lisanda kujwayela ukubekezela kwalo.
Ngesikhathi ikati lalilapha, sanquma ukumyisa kudokotela wezilwane ukuze ayohlolwa futhi kwavela ukuthi unezinambuzane, ngakho-ke sathatha amanye amakati ami amabili ukuyohlolwa. Ikati lami elidala kunawo wonke kuvele ukuthi belikahle, kepha ingane eneminyaka emibili ubudala ibinokutheleleka okunamandla, ngakho udokotela wezilwane uthathe isinqumo sokumjova ngensimbi, ukukhipha izikelemu namavithamini. Waqala ukuthuthuka kancane, futhi wabonakala ephatheke kabi ngokungabikho kwekati, kepha wayebonakala ethuthuka kwezempilo. Kuze kwaba lapho ebuyela esimeni sakhe, saphinda samthatha futhi udokotela wezilwane wathi kungenzeka ukuthi unesifo sezinambuzane, ngakho-ke wamnika i-iron, amavithamini kanye nokwelashwa kwama-antibiotic futhi. Kepha ikati lami langesaba ukuya kudokotela wezilwane, futhi imijovo yensimbi yamlimaza kakhulu. Sekudlule amasonto amabili kusukela lapho. Ikati lami libukeka seliluleme ngokuphelele, linovalo oluncane kepha ngokujwayelekile libuye laba yikati elithandekayo ebeliyilo. Konke bekuhamba kahle, kuze kuqale ukufika ikati elivela emgwaqweni ukumaka indawo. Womabili la makati ayachithwa, futhi ikati elincane libe nezinkinga ezimbalwa ngokululama kwalo kuspay, kepha konke bekubonakala kuyinto ejwayelekile. Manje, amakati ami ayalwa futhi alume omunye nomunye, futhi ikati lami elikhulu kunawo wonke alithethise elinye ikati lami, bese kuthi ikati elincane liziphonse kuye bese liluma limklwebhe kabi kakhulu. Futhi bobabili bayekile ukudla ukudla esibanika kona, futhi bashiya konke kungcolile futhi kugcwele izingcezu zama-croquette (abakaze bakwenze lokho). Ngiyaxolisa kakhulu uma umyalezo wami umude kangaka, kepha njengoba ngingazi ukuthi yimiphi imicimbi engaba imbangela yokushintsha kokuziphatha kwamakati ami, ngincamele ukutshela konke okwenzekile muva nje okungaba yisiqubulo. Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngesikhathi sakho, futhi ngithemba ukuthi ungangisiza ngokuthi ngenzeni ngamakati ami, ngiwathanda kakhulu futhi angifuni ukuthi babe kanjena komunye nomunye, ikakhulukazi ngoba bezwana ngokumangalisayo ngaphambili .
Sawubona Alison.
Okokuqala, ngiyaxolisa ngokubambezeleka. Ibhulogi ibilokhu ingenzi lutho isikhashana.
Aqhuba kanjani amakati? Ngiyethemba bathuthukile; uma kungenjalo, ngizokutshela:
Angiyena uchwepheshe, kepha kulokhu okushoyo ukuthi imbangela yale nkinga kungenzeka kube yizinto eziningana:
-iphunga le-vet (amakati ngokwawo adala ukungakhululeki nokungezwani; futhi kwesinye isikhathi labo abahlala ekhaya baphatha kabi labo abakade bekhona)
-ukuvela kwalelo kati lasemgwaqweni (ingabe liphazanyisiwe noma alinayo i-neutered? uhlelo lokuzala, ngakho-ke futhi kungenzeka nokuba nokushisa). Uma zivinjelwe inzalo, kungenzeka ukuthi okwenzeka kuzo ukuthi uma zibona iphunga lalelinye ikati, ziyacasulana ngenxa yokuthi akunakwenzeka ukusondela kuye.
Okunye okungenzeka ukuthi, kucacile futhi kulula, abayithandi leyo kati ezungezile, nokuthi bakhokhela intukuthelo yabo ngenye.
Kunoma ikuphi, ngincoma ukuthi wenze sengathi awazi nhlobo. Sengathi bekuyisonto lokuqala ukuthi bahlala nawe. Thatha oyedwa kulaba ababili (omncane kunabo bonke) umyise egumbini elinombhede wakhe, okondla, amanzi, ibhokisi lodoti. Izinsuku ezintathu, shintshanisa imibhede. Ngemuva kwalesosikhathi, mabehlangane futhi banukelane. Lungisa amathini ambalwa wokudla kwekati elimanzi. Ungenzi imisindo noma ukhulume ngokuzwakalayo: kungcono kakhulu ukwenza ukunyakaza okuthambile, okucashile… futhi ukhulume nabo sengathi bangamantombazane amancane (ngokujulile, kuvame ukusebenza 😉).
Ukuthimula kuyinto ejwayelekile, ngisho nokukhahlelana. Kepha uma ubona izinwele zabo zimile, zibhodlelana futhi, ekugcineni, ukuthi sebezolwa, beka umshanelo noma okuthile phakathi kwabo, bese uzama ukufaka omunye walaba egumbini. Futhi zama futhi ngosuku olulandelayo.
Kufanele ubekezele kakhulu, kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzobona imiphumela.
Jabula.
Sawubona, ikati lami kulezi zinsuku ezimbili liyamangaza, ngiqonde ukuthi alithandeki kangako kunezinsuku ezimbili ezedlule; ikati ngomqondo wokudla namanzi bekungekho zinkinga kepha esikhathini esithile esedlule ubengaphezulu kakhulu kwe-goop, walala esifubeni sami, walala nami, ngaphatha yonke indawo.
kodwa manje ngethemba ukuthi ufika emilenzeni yami bese ehla khona manjalo akafuni ukungena endlini ayejwayele ukungena kuyo engacabangi
Sawubona Monse.
Ungamyisa kudokotela wezilwane ukuze ambheke, ubone ukuthi akanalutho yini. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi lapho kushisa kakhulu ngokwesibonelo, noma lapho sebekhulile, ngisho nabathandekayo bayayeka ukuba njalo. Bangaba nezinsuku lapho bengafuni ukuxhumana nabantu okuningi.
Ukubingelela!
Sawubona Unjani?
Sihlenge ikati elinezinyanga ezi-2 nohhafu ubudala emgwaqweni samamukela. Ekuqaleni wayethandana kodwa sathola ukuthi uyazingela kakhulu futhi uyadlala. Kwenzeka ukuthi kusuka ngosuku olulodwa kuye kolunye usuku wayeka ukufuna ukuthi simange. Ngaphambi kokuphinda nathi kodwa wayeka ukukwenza. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ngelinye ilanga ngamgona, wangiluma engathi shu ebusweni futhi iqiniso lithi, ngamshaya ngaphuma emqondweni. Kusukela lapho kusobala ukuthi ubediniwe futhi ethukuthele yize ngizama ukusondela, ngimange, ngimyeke ahambe lapho efuna ngimgone, ngimnikeze ukudla kwakhe nokunye okuphatha ikati, kanye namathoyizi. Ngizizwa nginqatshiwe futhi angazi ukuthi ngenzeni. Amadodakazi ami afuna ukudlala naye kodwa naye uyathukuthela futhi adinwe.
Sawubona Paula.
Iseluleko sami ukuthi udlala nekati kakhulu, kepha usebenzisa amathoyizi (izintambo, amabhola, ...), futhi ungalokothi ube ngendlela enokhahlo.
Ungamphoqi ukuba enze noma yini; okungukuthi, uma ungafuni ukuba semathangeni, akukho okwenzekayo. Ukumshiya isikhala sakhe uzokwazi ukubuyisa ukuzethemba kwakhe.
Ukubingelela nokukhuthaza.
sawubona ikati lami linothando futhi lisinda kakhulu alihlanganyeli namanye amakati lizwana nenja yami eneminyaka eyisi-6 ubudala
Ikati lami lizoba nonyaka owodwa ngo-Okthoba 4 kuzoba ukushisa kwakhe kokuqala angazi ngoba ubengithanda kakhulu ubelokhu enabafundi bakhe abakhulu njengombuthano omkhulu kakhulu njengoba lapho esaba abambalwa ezinsukwini ezedlule waqala ngaleyo ndlela yokuziphatha ukuthi kufanele enze okuningi Ngiyabonga
Sawubona Cami.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umthathe ayothena. Ngale ndlela kungenzeka wehlise umoya futhi, ngeshwa, uphile isikhathi eside.
Kodwa lapha sikhuluma ngezinye izinketho.
Ukubingelela
Sawubona!!
Nginamakati amabili uSimba anezinyanga eziyi-8 no-Oliver cishe onezinyanga ezintathu ubudala.
Isimo sinje: USimba ungumfana omncane onobungane, uthanda ukudlala futhi agijime. Njengoba izinyanga ziqhubeka, ngabona ukuthi uzizwa enesizungu kakhulu, wayezizwa ephansi futhi ekhala kakhulu, kulapho-ke lapho sanquma khona ukuthi wayedinga ubhuti omncane. Silethe u-Oliver emasontweni amabili edlule onobuntu obufanayo, odlalayo, onelukuluku lokufuna ukwazi. Kungimangaze ukuthi uSimba uyamukele kahle kakhulu, ekuqaleni sibahlukanise emakamelweni ahlukene sazama ukumnika isikhala. Esikhathini esingaphansi kwesonto bese bevele besabelana ngesihlabathi futhi beneSonto ndawonye, ubungabona ukuthi bayakujabulela ukudlala nokwabelana.
Bobabili bagule muva nje kanti u-Oliver usenomkhuhlane omncane eselapha nodokotela wezilwane. Udla ngokujwayelekile, uphuza amanzi, kodwa ulala kakhulu. Futhi, ngibonile ukuthi isimilo sakhe sesishintshe kakhulu kuSimba. Ungamnaki futhi ugweme ukuxhumana okuphelele naye. USimba uyaphikelela ngokudlala naye kodwa u-Oliver ugingqika alale. USimba ukhungathekile kakhulu, futhi ngicabanga ukuthi unakho ukukhathazeka. Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi ngesesikhashana ngenkathi ululama noma ubuntu bakho bungashintsha ngokungazelelwe? Ngifisa ukwazi abantu abake baba nokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo.
Gracias
Sawubona Julieta.
Ungakhathazeki. Okwenzeka kubo kuyinto ejwayelekile ngokuphelele. Noma yiliphi ikati eligulayo lize lilulame ngokuphelele livame ukushintsha indlela eliziphatha ngayo kancane liye kwabanye.
Ngiyakukholwa lokho, ukuthi lapho u-Oliver eseluleme bazodlala futhi. Konke kuyindaba yokubekezela, nokutotosa 🙂
Ukubingelela!
Sawubona, unjani? Ikati lami linezinyanga eziyisishiyagalombili ubudala futhi muva nje izinja ezithile zilibambile .. Waba nothando kakhulu kunaye, futhi usifunela okwengeziwe ukuze athole ukutotosa lapho ngaphambi kokuba ahambe uma usondela .. Ingabe kufanele engozini?
Sawubona Belen.
Uma kwenzeka. Ngemuva kwesimo esinjalo, bangashintsha kancane.
Ukubingelela
Sawubona, nginekati elidala eliphakathi kweminyaka eyi-8 nengu-10 ubudala, iqiniso ukuthi ekuqaleni belilokhu liphambuka, futhi lingenalo uthando kakhulu, lapho efika ekhaya wayengakuthandi kakhulu ukuthintana ngokomzimba, wayedla kuphela futhi wazenzela into yakhe.
muva nje kutholakale ukuthi unesifo sezinso ngokuthuthuka kahle kwezimpawu ngemithi. Ngenkathi ezizwa engcono ezinsukwini ezimbili ezedlule waya emgwaqeni manje wabuyela ekhaya, isimilo sakhe sesisukile ekubeni sekukude saze saganga, ufuna ukuba phezu kwami, ahlanze, axoxe ngezidladla zakhe futhi afune ukuthintana naye, kungani lokho kwenzeka ushintsho? Ingabe kungenxa yokugula kwakhe?
Ngilinde impendulo yakho!
Sawubona Sarah.
Impela ngikukhumbule wena, imfudumalo yekhaya, ukunakwa ... Kujabulele 🙂
Sawubona. Ikati lami libalekile laphuma endlini, ubengaphandle izinsuku eziyi-10 ngaze ngamthola, engaphansi kwesisindo, ethukile kakhulu, elambile kakhulu futhi engcolile. Manje njengoba ebuyile, uyamangaza kakhulu ezinsukwini ezi-2 zokuqala, ulele kakhulu, uchitha usuku elele phansi, akafuni ukudlala, ufuna nje ukuba semqamelweni wakhe, unothando kakhulu, wayevame ukuba namahloni kakhulu futhi adlale.
Sawubona Karle.
Bheka ukuthi uphilile yini. Akudingeki ukuthi ugule, kepha lapho ushintsho ekuziphatheni lungazelelwe, ungakhiphi lutho.
Ukubingelela!