Ikati elishisayo yisilwane ukuthi uzokwenza konke okusemandleni ukuthola umaqondana, okusho ukuthi, izobamba, ikwazi ukumaka, uma ihlala nenye inyamazane ingalwa nayo, ebusuku ingavimbela umndeni wayo ukuthi uphumule, ... ngamafuphi, kuzoba ubomvu obuzodinga ukuthi shintsha inqubo yethu ukuze ubudlelwano bube mnandi futhi kungabikho ukwethuka noma izinkinga.
Uma une-feline edlula kulokhu, mhlawumbe uyazibuza okufanele ukwenze uma ikati lami lishisa, iqiniso? Uma kunjalo, landela iseluleko sethu futhi uzobona ukuthi kancane kancane konke kubuyela kwesejwayelekile.
Ikati liziphatha kanjani lapho lishisa?
Ikati elishisayo likhula ngokungaphezi, ikakhulukazi ebusuku. Uya efasiteleni noma emnyango, bese uzama ukubiza owesifazane. Yini enye, amamaki ngomchamo amakhona ahlukahlukene endlu, kushiya iphunga elibi kakhulu.
Uma ithuba livela, lizophumela ngaphandle, lapho kungenzeka lihlangane khona nomunye wesilisa, futhi uma kukhona ikati eduze ... lizolwa naye. Yize singakuthandi, lokhu kungukuziphatha okungokwemvelo kuye.
Futhi ikati?
Ikati lithanda kakhulu. Uyazigcoba lapho eya khona, uphakamisa umsila njalo uma uphulula umhlane wakhe, abuye alime ebusuku. Kulezi zinsuku, ukuthambekela kwakhe ekuzaleni kukhulu kakhulu, ngakho-ke uzokwenza noma yini edingekayo ukuthola umlingani.
Futhi-ke, uma uya phesheya, uzobuya ekhaya ukhulelwe.
Yini okufanele uyenze?
Noma ngabe unekati noma ikati lensikazi elishisayo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nokuningi ukubekezela. Ukushisa kuhlala phakathi kwezinsuku ezi-3 nezili-10, ngakho-ke ayikho enye indlela ngaphandle kokuzama ukubhekana nayo ngokusemandleni, ngendlela ezolile kakhulu.
Kepha ngaphandle kokubekezela kulula lokho ikugcine usebenza emini. Ngale ndlela, ubusuku buzofika futhi uzobe ekhathele kakhulu, ngakho-ke esikhundleni sokugwinya, uzophumula. Ngakho-ke lapho evukile, kufanele udlale naye.
Futhi ukugwema ukumaka yonke indlu, akukho okungcono kunokusebenzisa Okude noma yimuphi omunye umkhiqizo ofanayo, okungcono kwi-diffuser ngoba lokhu kuzosebenza kulo lonke igumbi, kuvimbele ikati ekuchameni lapho lingadingeki khona.
Kunoma ikuphi, uma ungafuni ukukhulisa ikati, okulungile kungukuthi mthene. Ngale ndlela, ukushisa kuyagwenywa, ukuze isilwane (kanye nomuntu) sikwazi ukuphumula ngaphandle kokukhathazeka nganoma yini.
Izigaba zokushisa emakati
Ngokwesilinganiso, ikati lishisa izinsuku ezintathu kuya kwezingu-3, njengoba sibonile ngenhla. Kodwa-ke, ingahlala kancanyana njengosuku noma kuze kube amasonto amathathu. Amakati abesifazane angathenwanga aneminyaka yobudala yokuzala abizwa ngokuthi izindlovukazi. Amakati angama-polyesters, okusho ukuthi izindlovukazi zivame ukungena ekushiseni izikhathi eziningana ngonyaka zize zihlangane.
- I-Proestro: Ngesikhathi se-proestrus, indlovukazi ingaheha abesilisa abangadingekile, kepha ayikakamukeli ukukhwelana. I-proestrum ivame ukuhlala usuku olulodwa noma ezimbili. Ama-Queens ku-proestro ngokuvamile akhombisi zimpawu zangaphandle.
- I-Estrus (ukushisa): khona-ke indlovukazi iyangena ekushiseni. Cishe isikhathi esingangesonto (noma ngaphezulu), uzoheha abesilisa futhi wamukele ukukhwelwa. Ngalesi sigaba, indlovukazi ikwazi ukuzwakalisa umsindo kakhulu, igingqike, izikhuhle ezintweni, iphinde ikhuphule nesinqe sayo. Angase futhi anciphise ukudla. Uma indlovukazi ishada ngesikhathi se-estrus, izodala ukuvuthwa kweqanda. Isenzo sokuhlangana sikhuthaza ukukhiqizwa kwamahomoni okwenza i-ovulation. Ama-Queens ngokuvamile adinga ukukhwelana izikhathi ezine kuya kweziyisithupha ngesikhathi sokushisa ukuze akhulelwe. Indlovukazi ingakhwelana nabesilisa abaningi ngenkathi kusashisa futhi izale udoti wamakati aqukethe abazali abahlukene.
- I-Interestrus: uma indlovukazi ingamlingani noma ikhulelwe ngesikhathi sokushisa, izongena kwi-interestrus. Lesi yisikhathi esiphakathi kochungechunge. Izinga lakhe le-estrogen lehla futhi akabonisi zimpawu ezithile. Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbili kuya kwamasonto amathathu, uzophinde ashise. Umjikelezo weproestrus, ukushisa, kanye ne-interestrus kuzoqhubeka phakathi nenkathi yokukhwelana noma kuze kube yilapho indlovukazi ikhulelwa.
- Anestrus: Lesi yisikhathi sokungasebenzi kwenzalo yendlovukazi. Ama-hormone abo okuzala awasebenzi futhi kukhona ukungabikho komsebenzi womjikelezo we-estrous. Akekho esikhathini se-rutting. Kumakati zasendle nangaphandle, imijikelezo yokushisa yenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile kusukela entwasahlobo iye ekuweni. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukukhiqizwa kwamahomoni endlovukazi kukhuthazwa yimini ende. Lapho izinsuku zifushane (ikakhulukazi kusukela ngo-Okthoba kuya kuJanuwari) indlovukazi ayikhuthazwa ukuthi iye ekushiseni. Amakati asendlini adalulwa isikhathi eside sokukhanya okufakelwayo ngakho-ke angaqhubeka nokuhamba ngemijikelezo yokushisa unyaka wonke.
Ikati lami lizongena nini ekushiseni?
Amakati angathenwanga bangaba nomjikelezo wabo wokuqala wokushisa oqala ezinyangeni ezine ubudala, yize isilinganiso seminyaka siyizinyanga ezinhlanu kuya kweziyisishiyagalolunye kumakati amaningi abesifazane. Uma unekati futhi ufuna ukuyivimba ukuthi ingangeni ekushiseni, kungcono ukuyiphalaza ngokushesha lapho udokotela wezilwane ecabanga ukuthi iphephile. Lokhu ngokuvamile akukho ngaphambi kwezinyanga ezine kuya kweziyisithupha ubudala, kepha kungaba ngamasonto ayisithupha kuya kwayishumi nambili ubudala.
Izizathu zokuvimbela ukushisa emakati asekhaya
Lapho nje izinyane lekati lakho litshisa okokuqala, lingakhulelwa. Ama-hormone asesimweni sakhe amenza alangazelele ukuthola umlingani. Mhlawumbe uzokhala ngendlela ezwakala njengobuhlungu. Ungagingqa phansi bese uhlikihla nganoma yini oyibonayo. Yini ebaluleke kakhulu, Uma eyedwa endlini, angazama ukweqa ekhaya ayofuna umngane womshado.
Akuyona nje ingozi ukuthi abe ngaphandle lapho angalahleka khona noma alimale, kodwa futhi akuphephile ukuthi akhulelwe esemncane kangaka. Umzimba wakhe awukaqedi ukukhula, ngakho-ke ukukhulelwa kungaba yingozi kuye nakumazinyane.
Uma ikati lakho lingaphumi endlini liyohlangana ngesikhathi sokushisa kokuqala, lizoqhubeka nomjikelezo wokushisa njalo emasontweni ambalwa lize likhulelwe noma lichithwe. Lokhu kungenza kubonakale sengathi uhlala eshisa njalo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kungacindezela futhi kungabi nempilo ekati lakho. Ungancipha, uqale ukukhotha ngokweqile, futhi ube nezinkinga zokuziphatha..
Uma uvumela ikati lakho ukuthi likhulelwe, wandisa inkinga yokugcwala kwezilwane emhlabeni. Kunamakati amaningi namakati ahlala ezindaweni zokukhosela ukuthola amakhaya. Noma uthola amakhaya ekati lakho amakhaya, kufanele wazi ukuthi lawo makati athatha indawo yamakati okukhosela okungenzeka ukuthi athole amakhaya. Ngaphandle kokuthi unekati lozalo futhi ukulungele ukubambisana nomfuyi wekati ngokuzalanisa ngendlela efanele, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi izinyane lekati lakho lifafazwa ngokushesha okukhulu.
Yini engingayenza nekati lami ekushiseni
Ngaphezu kokuyifaka inzalo ngokushesha okukhulu, kuwumqondo omuhle ukubheka amanye amathiphu, ukubheka okulandelayo:
- Ukuba nomona ngekati lakho kungaba nzima kuwe nakwikati yakho. Ukukhala ngomona kungathukuthelisa futhi uma ufuna ukukubalekela nakho kungakucindezela. Kungakho kubalulekile ukuthi ngaphambi kwanoma yini enye ubeke isixazululo ngokuvala inzalo.
- Ukuphulula okwengeziwe nokuxubha ngesikhathi sokushisa. Kwamanye amakati, ukunakwa okungaphezulu okuncane kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka kwe-estrus. Naka kakhulu umngane wakho we-feline ekhaya lapho ushisa, futhi ungakwazi ukumhlisa umoya futhi ugcine amazinga akhe okucindezeleka elawuleka.
- Ukuzola. Uzodinga ukuthula kwengqondo. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi unesikhala esikahle nesizimele, njengesihlahla sekati noma eshalofini eliphezulu lekhabethe lapho angabalekela khona isiyaluyalu lapho edinga ukuthula nokuzola.
- Amakati ashisayo angadinga isikhathi esingeziwe sokudlala. Kumakati, ukulangazelela ukukhwelana kungokwemvelo. Sinjalo-ke isidingo sokuzingela. Zama ukugcina ikati lakho limatasa ngamathoyizi ajabulisayo avusa imizwelo yakhe yokuzingela. Kungakuphazamisa kwezinye izifiso zakho.
- Vikela umjikelezo. Ikati elishisayo ngumculi ophunyukayo we-quintessential. Kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi ugcina ikhaya lakho liphephile futhi uvala noma yimiphi imizila yokuphunyuka, njengamawindi, iminyango yekati, neminyango ehlolwe evuleka kalula.
Nginekati lami elishisayo futhi sekuyisikhathi eside ngakho ngicabanga ukuthi selivele liyinyanga futhi alinangqondo ngoba lidida ingalo noma umlenze wami nekati nokuthi ... Kukhona okunye ngaphandle kokuvala inzalo engikwaziyo ngenzela ukuthi ikati lami libuyele kokujwayelekile ???
Sawubona Rossley.
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