Xa sithatha isigqibo sokuthatha ikati kufuneka siyigcine engqondweni ukuba ayiyinja. Ingabonakala icacile, kodwa inyani kukuba amaxesha amaninzi sinokulindela ukuba umzali aziphathe ngendlela efanayo nenja, into elingenakwenziwa ixesha elininzi. Kwaye ke, isimilo umntu anaso sohluke kakhulu kolomnye, kwaye ke, indlela yokufundisa nokunyanga nayo iya kwahluka.
Ke, ukuba umntu akayiphathi ngokufanelekileyo intshontsho labo, eyona nto inokwenzeka kukuba isilwanyana siphule ubudlelwane, sikwazi ukuzibonakalisa ngendlela esingayithandiyo. Ngesi sizathu, ndiza kukunika ezimbalwa iingcebiso ngokuhlala kunye nekati enoburharha.
Akukho ziikati ziyingozi
Le yinto yokuqala ekufuneka uyigcinile engqondweni. Ngendlela efanayo ukuba akukho zinja ziyingozi, akukho zikati zifuna ukwenzakalisa abantu. Yintoni enokwenzeka, njengoko kunokwenzeka nakubani na kuthi, kukuba ngaxa lithile baba ndlongondlongo ukuzikhusela.
Kodwa kwakhona, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba unyango kunye nemfundo oyifumanayo iya kuba nefuthe ngqo kubuntu bakho. Ke mabangaze baphathwe gadalala, oko kukuthi, akufuneki babethwe, bangxolwe okanye bangahoywa (ewe, ukungahoyi ikati, nokuba ingaphakathi endlwini, ikwahlukunyezwa).
Khangela oyena nobangela wengxaki
Xa sinengxaki, into esiyenzayo kukujonga imvelaphi yokuzama ukuyisombulula. Ngeekati ezingaphili ngokonwaba kufuneka senze okufanayo. Kwaye kutheni banokuba ndlongondlongo? Ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, ezona ziphambili zezi zilandelayo:
- Ukufika kwelungu elitsha lekhaya: iikati zinendawo enkulu. Xa usapho lukhula, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba intshayelelo zenziwe ngokuchanekileyo, oko kukuthi, ukugcina izilwanyana ziqhelelene iintsuku ezimbalwa kwaye kutshintshiswana ngeebhedi zazo, ukuvumela umntwana asondele emntwaneni phambi komntu omkhulu kwaye enze imeko efanayo Onke amalungu osapho.
- Uxinzelelo: ezi zilwanyana azinyamezeli uxinzelelo. Ukuba uhlala kwindawo enamaxhala, okanye ukuba uyahamba okanye uhlobisa kwakhona ikhaya lakho, zama ukuhlala uzolile. Into enceda kakhulu ukuzola (kokubini abantu kunye neekati) idlala umculo weklasikhi. Ukongeza, kufuneka sikuphephe ukuguqula ivolumu ephezulu, kungenjalo iya kubangela ukungonwabi okukhulu kwikati, enengqondo yokuphucula ngakumbi kunale yethu (iyakwazi ukuva isandi sempuku ukusuka kwiimitha ezi-7 kude).
- Ingozi okanye ukugula: ukuba baziva iintlungu nakweyiphi na indawo yomzimba wabo, okanye ukuba bayagula, banokuphendula kakubi xa bechukunyiswa. Ngesi sizathu, kufuneka siye kugqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza ukuze babanike unyango olubavumela ukuba baphinde babe sempilweni.
Nceda ikati yakho
Ukongeza kuyo yonke into esele siyithethile, kubaluleke kakhulu ukunceda iikati esinazo ekhaya. Uyenza njani lonto? Ngomonde, ngentlonipho nangothando. Kuya kufuneka siphephe ukuxhatshazwa kwaye, nokuzicingela ("Wenza oku kuba efuna ukohlwaya", okanye izimvo ezinje). Abayi kusinceda nganto, ukongeza kwinto yokuba ikati yezengqondo yahluke kancinane kuleyo yomntu, ke ngoko, akufuneki ibe ngabantu. Ukuba izilwanyana zethu ezinoboya zinengcwangu, ziya kuyenza ukutsala umdla, ukuze usapho lwabo luthathe amanyathelo ayimfuneko ukuze baphinde bonwabe.
Ngelishwa, abayazi indlela yokuthetha njengathi, ke ukuba bayasikrwela, basilume kunye / okanye basileqe, kufuneka sizibuze ukuba kutheni, kwaye singacingi ukuba bayayenza ukusenzakalisa. Ukuziphatha kweekati zabantu abadala sisiphumo semfundo abayifumeneyo xa bebancinci. Ukuba sivumela iikati ukuba zingaziphathi kakuhle, njengoko zikhula ziya kusenzakalisa ngakumbi kuba ziya kuba namandla ngakumbi. Ngesi sizathu, kufuneka sibafundise Andilumi sele sele sukukrwempa.
Ukuba sibamkele njengabantu abadala, sisengabafundisa ukuba kukho izinto abangenako ukuzenza. Soloko unomonde nothando, ungaze ubanyanzele. Kwimeko apho ixesha lidlulayo okanye sinamathandabuzo amaninzi malunga nendlela yokubanceda, siya kudibana ne-feline ethologist.
Siyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso ziluncedo kuwe.