Ngaba ikati yakho ayikuhoyi? Kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Isimilo salezi zilwanyana sahluke kakhulu kuneso sezinja, ke eyona nto isengqiqweni kukuba benza le nto bayifunayo naxa befuna 🙂; Ngesi sizathu, ukuze ahoye wena, kufuneka umfundise into ayithandayo kakhulu, kungenjalo uya kuqhubeka esenza eyona nto ayithandayo.
Ukukunceda, siza kukunika uthotho lwe iingcebiso kwikati yakho ukuhlawula ngakumbi kuwe.
Sukumphatha gadalala
Nokuba iyakrwela okanye iyaluma, akufuneki ubethe ikati (okanye nabani na, enyanisweni). Kwaye akufuneki ukuba umngxolise okanye ungamhoyi (ukungamkhathaleli ikwayindlela yokumphatha gadalala). Ke ngoko, awunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze nayiphi na kwezi:
- Yifefe ngamanzi
- Ukubetha iphephandaba (okanye nantoni na)
- Umoyikise: nokuba ungabeki izinto ngasemva okanye udale ingxolo
- Ukunyanzela ukuba wenze into ongayifuniyo
- Mngcungcuthekise
- Ngaba yodwa
Mthande njengoko enjalo
Akukho mntu uzalwa esazi. Ngendlela efanayo nomama echitha ixesha kunye nomntwana wakhe emfundisa imigaqo esisiseko yokuhlalisana, kuya kufuneka wenze njalo nakwikati yakho. Mfundise Andilumi, i sukukrwempa. Konwabele ukubukela iintshukumo zabo kunye nokuqonda kwabo ulwimi lomzimba. Kule bhulogi uneengcebiso ezininzi, kodwa ukuba ufuna uncedo, kuya kufuneka usibuze.
Khusela ikati yakho
Ekhaya kukho iimveliso ezahlukeneyo kunye nezinto ezinobungozi ngakumbi, ezinje ngeentambo, ezinye izityalo, isitya sokuhlambela izitya, njl. Ukhuseleko lwakho, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ugcine konke oku kugcinwe kakuhle, kufihliwe kwimbonakalo kwaye kufikeleleke kwindawo enoboya. Ukongeza, ukunqanda ukonakala kuya kufuneka iifestile neengcango zivaliwe (kubandakanya imicrowave kunye nomatshini wokuhlamba).
Mnike into ayithandayo
Ukuba nangaliphi na ixesha uzifumana ukwimeko apho ikati isengozini (okanye inokuba), okanye ukuba ufuna nje ukuhoywa, kufuneka umnike into ayithandayo kakhulu, njenge iikati. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyithathe kwaye uyibonise, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuza kuwe ungakhange ucinge ngayo.
Ngezi ngcebiso uboya bakho bunokonwaba kakhulu ecaleni kwakho 🙂.