Iikati zizilwanyana zentlalo, nangona zingafani nezinja. Ngelixa izinja zinendawo yendalo yokukholisa wonke umntu, iikati azifuni mvume nakubani na. Ba… njengokuba benjalo, kwaye baya kusinika ubuhlobo babo kuphela ukuba bacinga ukuba kufanelekile. Kodwa ngaba abantwana abangabantu banokuhlala nabo?
Ayizukuba okokuqala ngqa kwiindaba zokuba indoda enoboya yenzakalise umntu omncinci. Into ehlekisayo kukuba akukho mntu uyazibuza ukuba kutheni le nto yenzekile, okanye ukuba ibinokuthintelwa. Ke, Ngaba iikati zingaba ngabahlobo neentsana?
Masicace gca: iikati kunye neentsana zabantu baneendlela ezahlukeneyo zokudlala. Amakati ngabazingeli, kwaye loo nto ithuku livuse ekuseni kakhulu. Kwiiveki ezi-3 ubudala, kulapho baqala khona ukuhamba nokuphonononga umhlaba wabo, badlala umlo nabantakwabo kunye nomama wabo, abathi ngomonde abafundise ukulawula amandla okuluma kunye nokuhlonipha imida ethile.
Abantu, kwelinye icala, besebancinci kakhulu, bayathanda ukuthatha izinto, bazifake emilonyeni yethu, njalo njalo. Kunjalo. Sinezandla. Ezi zezona zixhobo zethu ezilungileyo zokujonga oko kusingqongileyo okoko siseziintsana. Ingxaki yile Ukuba sibeka ikati kunye nosana kunye kwaye sizishiya zingagadwanga, nantoni na inokuvela:
- Ikati inokulimaza umntwana: ineenzipho ezibukhali kakhulu kunye namazinyo omeleleyo.
- Umntwana angalimaza ikati: unamandla aneleyo okumbamba ngomsila, ubeke iminwe yakhe emehlweni, ulale ngaphezulu ... Izinto ezingathandwayo ngoboya kuphela kodwa ziyasongela.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba ingakanani ikati yabantu abadala enobunzima? Malunga ne-4-6kg. Umyinge wosana lomntu malunga ne-2-4kg ... kanye emva kokuzalwa. Uyawubona umahluko?
Kuzo zonke ezi zizathu, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abazali bangashiyi usana lodwa kunye nekati nangaliphi na ixesha. Kodwa lumka, ayingombandela wokuzigcina zahlukile.
Ikati kufuneka ichithe ixesha kunye nomncinciMakamnuke, makabe secaleni kwakhe, kuba kungenjalo into enokwenzeka kukuba ngomso uyamphosisa. Kwaye oko akusenzi mdla kuthi. Into enomdla kuthi - okanye ekufuneka sinomdla kuyo - kukuba babe ngabahlobo, kwaye kufuneka sibekhona, sifundisa umntwana ukuhlonipha ikati, nokufundisa ikati akufuneki ukrwembe nokuba ungaluma.