Ukuhlukumezeka emakati kuvame ukwenzeka ngenxa yokwesaba, ubuhlungu noma njengomphumela ongaqondile wokushisa. Azikho amakati ayingozi, kepha kunoboya obungafundiswanga ngenhlonipho, noma obungakaze buxhumane nabantu (umgwaqo).
Lapho sihlangana nomuntu obonakala eshubile, kufanele sazi ungamisa kanjani ikati elinolaka ngendlela yokuthi i-feline noma thina asipheli kabi.
Thola imbangela yolaka lwabo
Uma sifuna ukukusiza, into yokuqala okufanele siyazi ukuthi kungani ibonakala kanjena. Izimbangela ezivame kakhulu yilezi:
- Ukwesaba: kusuka emisindweni ephezulu (kufaka phakathi umculo onomsindo), kusuka kwamanye amakati kanye / noma izinja, kubantu kanye / noma ekunyakazeni okungazelelwe okungenzeka ukuthi sikwenzile ngaphandle kokuqaphela.
- dolor: uma eke waphuka, noma uma egula, angase ezwe ubuhlungu obukhulu engxenyeni ethile yomzimba wakhe, ukuze kuthi uma simshaya khona kuleyo ndawo akwazi ukusabela ngolaka.
- UCeloAmakati abesilisa abashisayo avame ukuba nolaka kwamanye amakati nabantu.
- Ukucindezeleka: Uma uhlala endaweni eshubile, into ejwayeleke kakhulu ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzogcina unolaka.
Msize, kodwa ungamcindezeli
Ikati elinolaka lingasihlasela, ngakho-ke okungcono kakhulu esingakwenza shiya isikhala sakho ukuze uye lapho uthanda khona. Ngeke simthethise, futhi ngeke simshaye, kungasaphathwa ukuthi simphoqe ukuba abe sendaweni lapho angafuni khona, kepha simane simvumele abe khona. Kuphela uma ezwa izinhlungu, sizomthatha ngethawula, simfake othwali bese simyisa kudokotela wezilwane ngokushesha okukhulu.
Uma kwenzeka unengcindezi, singakusiza Okude, okuwumkhiqizo we-pheromone wokwenziwa ozokuphumuza futhi kukusize unqobe ukucindezeleka ngokwemvelo. Kepha uma usekushiseni, inketho enconywe kakhulu yile mthene, okungukuthi, ukususa izindlala zokuzala.
Ngaleyo ndlela, singakuthola uphumule.