Uma uhlala nekati, ngokuqinisekile ufuna ukuthi kube yisilwane esiphila ngokujabula eceleni kwakho, akunjalo? Ukuthola akunzima, kepha kuyiqiniso ukuthi uma kungokokuqala uhlala nomunye wabo, ungaba nokungabaza okuningi ngakho.
Ngakho-ke, uma ukuleso simo futhi ufuna othile azocacisa ukungabaza kwakho, ngokulandelayo ngizokutshela ukuthi ungaba kanjani nekati elijabule nelinempilo.
Mnike amanzi, ukudla nendawo yokuhlala ephephile
Kufanele uqale ngezisekelo, futhi lokho: ikati kumele lihlale linamanzi, ngaphezu kokudla okuseqophelweni eliphezulu -ngekho okusanhlamvu-. Kepha futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungaphila impilo ethule ekhaya lapho uhlonishwa khona futhi uthandwa yibo bonke. Lokhu kusho ukuthi abantu kumele bazinike isikhathi baqonde ukukhuluma komzimba wabo, ngoba lokhu kuzokwenza uzizwe ukhululekile ekhaya.
Dlala naye
Yize kunamakati anokwesaba kakhulu kunamanye, adlala kakhulu kunamanye, kubalulekile ukuthi udlale naye nsuku zonke. Nikezela cishe amaseshini amathathu cishe emizuzu eyi-10 lilinye ukuze udlale naye. Thenga ithoyizi noma amabili (isibonelo, ibhola nepali) bese ukusebenzisela umngani wakho ukuthi ajabule.
Yithande futhi uyihloniphe
Ngaphezu kokuqonda ukukhuluma komzimba wakhe ukuze akwazi ukuxhumana naye kangcono, kubaluleke kakhulu - empeleni, kufanele kube yisibopho - ukuthanda ikati onalo futhi ulihloniphe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kufanele umenze azizwe ethandwa, kepha akudingeki umphoqe ukuthi enze noma yini. Njengoba uqonda ulimi lwakhe, uzoyihumusha kangcono imilayezo akuthumelela yona.
Muse kudokotela wezilwane noma nini lapho eyidinga
Ikati yisilwane esingagula noma sibe nengozi noma nini, njengathi bantu. Ukugwema lokhu, kufanele umyise ukuyogoma futhi mthene, futhi ngokuhlukana futhi Kumele ubonane nochwepheshe njalo uma usola ukuthi akaphilile noma kukhona okumehlele.
Ngalezi zeluleko, kuzoba lula kakhulu ukwenza ikati lakho liphile iminyaka eminingi, eminingi 🙂.