Labo bethu abanakekela amakati alahlekile isikhathi esingaphezu kwesisodwa kudingeke ukuthi sizwe abanye abantu bethi lezi zilwane ziyazinakekela futhi azidingi muntu ozophila, ngisho nasebusika. Lokhu, noma kungahle kube yiqiniso ngezinga elithile, akuhlali kunjalo, futhi kuncane uma uphethe indoda enoboya ngaphambili eyayinomndeni wabantu owawunakekela.
Lapho amazinga okushisa eqala ukwehla, la makati ayigugu kufanele azame ukuzivumelanisa, azivikele nomaphi lapho engakwazi khona. Ungabasiza kanjani badlule esikhathini esibi kakhulu sonyaka? Sazise ukuvikela kanjani amakati alahlekile emakhazeni.
Banikeze indawo yokukhosela
Ukubeka amaqhugwane amaningana - noma amasha noma amadala- noma afanayo endaweni lapho bechitha khona isikhathi esithe xaxa kuzobasiza ukuthi banqobe ubusika. Uma futhi sibeka ezinye izingubo kubo, impela ngeke banqikaze umzuzwana ukungena ngaphakathi.
Noma, yebo, zama "ukuyifihla" ngangokunokwenzeka, ubeke amagatsha ngaphezulu kwayo, ushiye, vele, umnyango ungafinyeleleka. Amakati amahle kunawo wonke, okuthiwa feral, Abavamisile ukukhombisa intshisekelo ezintweni ezenziwe ngabantu kusukela iphunga lethu - leli esilishiya kuzo - nokuthi bakwazi ukubona ukubonga kwesitho sikaJacobson kubenza bangathembi.
Ngakho-ke, uma sifihla indawo yokukhosela, siyafihla nephunga lethu.
Bathathe bayodla
Okubaluleke njengokuzivikela emakhazeni ukudla. Ngesikhathi sasebusika, amakati ancamela ukuzivikela emazingeni okushisa abandayo kunokuchitha isikhathi kwezinye izinto. Ngakho-ke, Kuyinto elula ukuthi bathathe ukudla namanzi nsuku zonke.
Ukugwema izinkinga ngomakhelwane, sizobalethela ukudla okomile, ngoba kuhlanzeke kakhulu kunalokho okumanzi, futhi sizosusa noma yikuphi ukungcola okungenzeka ukuthi basalile.
Ngakho-ke, amakati alahlekile angavikelwa.