Imvamisa lapho sibona ikati eliyimpumputhe kwelinye noma kuwo womabili amehlo sikhathazeka kakhulu ukuthi sifuna ukulivikela ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze kungabi bikho okubi. Futhi lokhu akulungile ngokuphelele, ngoba ukuphela kwento esizoyizuza ukuthi isilwane sincike kakhulu kithi, futhi lokho kungaba yinkinga enkulu lapho, ngokwesibonelo, kufanele siye emsebenzini. Uboya babungazizwa bunesizungu kakhulu, futhi bungagcina sebunokukhathazeka okukhulu kangangokuba, Ungazilimaza ungahlosile.
Ukukugwema, ngizokuchazela ukunakekela kanjani ikati elingaboni.
Mnakekele, yebo, kodwa ngaphandle kokumvikela ngokweqile
Noma ngabe wazalwa eyimpumputhe noma engasaboni kahle, akufanele avikelwe ngokweqile. Ukungaboni kuyiqiniso ukuthi kungumkhawulo wekati, kodwa futhi kuyiqiniso lokho ingashintshwa kahle isesimeni sakho. Futhi ngukuthi, njengoba kwenzeka kubantu, lapho belahlekelwa umuzwa, abanye babonakala sengathi bakhula kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke, ngeke ukwazi ukubona, kepha kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi, ngokwesibonelo, izindlebe zakho zizwe imisindo esingacabangi nokuthi ikhiqizwa. Noma, kunjalo, lokho akusho ukuthi akudingeki senze izinguquko ezithile ekhaya.
Ukuhlala nekati elingaboni
Ukuze uboya buqhubeke nokuphila impilo ejwayelekile, kunezinto eziningi okufanele sizenze (futhi singazenzi). Zimi kanje:
- Beka umgoqo ezitebhisini ukuze angakwazi ukukhuphuka noma ukwehla kubo, okungenani ngaphandle kokuthi umuntu abe naye.
- Gcina zonke izinto ezibukhali, kanye nalezo ezinobuthinjengemikhiqizo yokuhlanza.
- Kufanele umkhuthaze ukuhamba nokugijima, ukusabalalisa ikati ukuphatha ikhaya, nokuchitha imizuzu embalwa usuku ngalunye kudlala naye.
- Awudingi ukuhambisa izinto zakho: okuphakelayo, okuphuzayo, kombhede ...
- Ngokusobala, ungayivumeli iphumele ngaphandle, noma ngabe uneso elilodwa elingaboni. Kuyingozi kakhulu.
Khumbula ukuthi ikati elingaboni lisele nezinzwa ezine, ngakho-ke lingajabula uma lithola uthando futhi lizizwa liphephile emndenini 😉.