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Umthwali ungenye yalezo zinto ikati elingazithandi nhlobo. Futhi kungenxa yokuthi kuye kunguhlobo lwekheji lapho abantu bemyisa khona kwenye indawo lapho engayazi kahle futhi lapho inuka kabi kakhulu: umtholampilo wezilwane noma isibhedlela.
Noma kunjalo, akukho okunye ongakwenza ngaphandle kokuzama ukujwayela. Kepha kufanele sazi ukuthi ngeke akwenze uma singamniki isandla. Umbuzo uwukuthi, Singakusiza kanjani ukuthi ubone othwala ngamehlo ahlukile?
Kancane kancane nangokubekezela okuningi. Ukugijimela akukuhle kunoma ngubani, ikakhulukazi hhayi kumngane wethu onemilenze emine, ongakubekezeleli nakancane ukucindezeleka. Ngalesi sizathu, akudingeki simlande simfake ngqo kumphathi, ngoba ukwenza njalo kuzomenza ayihlobanise nokwethuka kwethu, okuyimbi kuye futhi, ngenhlanhla, nakithi.
Ukubheka lokhu, okumele sikwenze ukumenza abone leyo nto efana nekheji njengesiphephelo lapho angazizwa ephephile khona njalo lapho ephuma endlini. Ukukufeza akuwona umsebenzi olula kakhulu, futhi kuncane uma usuvele ube nokuhlangenwe nakho okubi, kepha akunakwenzeka.
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Ukujwayela, kuzodingeka ukuthi uqale ekuqaleni, okungukuthi, wenze sengathi sisanda kuthenga ophethe izinto. Sizoyihlanza kahle, ngonembeza, futhi siyishiye egumbini, endaweni ebonakalayo nekwazi ukufinyeleleka kuyo ikati, umnyango uvulekile futhi unengubo. Cishe awufuni ukusondela kakhulu, ngakho-ke esizokwenza ukumphulula ezinhlangothini zombili zempumulo yakhe, bese sidlulisa isandla sethu kulowo ophethe nengubo. Sizokwenza kaningana phakathi nezinsuku ezimbalwa, futhi lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuzoqala ukukhombisa ilukuluku.
Umlingo? Cha, akunjalo neze 🙂. Ikati likhiqiza ama-pheromones ezinhlangothini zombili zomlomo. Lapho idlula ngokuxubha imilenze yethu noma enye into, ukuthi yenzani empeleni ishiya iphunga layo (unolwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana ne- ukumaka u-feline kule ndatshana). Ngakho-ke, uma simthinta kule ndawo futhi ngokushesha ngemuva kwalokho sidlulisa isandla sethu phezu kwengubo, isibonelo, sishiya iphunga lakhe kuyo, okuzosebenzela "ukumkhohlisa".
Ukuze sisebenze kangcono, sincoma ukuthi sishaye ngesithwali Okude, okuwumkhiqizo osiza amakati ukuba abe nokuthula. Ngakho-ke, kancane kancane, izongena ngaphakathi futhi ingakusebenzisa njengombhede. Ngokushesha nje lapho simbona ezolile, singaqala ukuvala umnyango isikhathi okufanele sisikhulise njengoba izinsuku zihamba.
Ngale ndlela, uboya buzokhululeka phakathi nohambo 🙂.