Lapho siletha ikati lesibili ekhaya, kujwayelekile ukuthi kuvele ezinye izinkinga, ikakhulukazi uma singayilandelanga imihlahlandlela yenhlalo. Kwesinye isikhathi kuyenzeka ukuthi uboya (imvamisa lowo obesehlale nathi isikhathi eside), bahlukumeze omunye.
Lokhu kuziphatha akumele kudidaniswe nesimo abangaba naso lapho befuna ukudlala. I- ukuhlukunyezwa phakathi kwamakati Kuyinkinga ebucayi kakhulu, evimbela zombili lezi zilwane ukuthi ziphile impilo ejwayelekile: ngakolunye uhlangothi, lo oshayayo ubheka enye njalo, elinde ithuba elincane lokumhlupha; ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuntu ohlukunyezwayo uhlala ngokungavikeleki nokwesaba ukuthi angenza okuthile kuye. Singasibona kanjani futhi sisixazulule lesi simo?
Into yokuqala okufanele siyenze ukubuka womabili amakati. Sizothola ngokushesha ukuthi ngubani ohluphayo nokuthi ngubani ohlukunyezwayo:
- Ikati lokuthungatha: Kwehlukile kulabo abahlukunyezwayo ngokuba namandla. Uchitha isikhathi sakhe esiningi eyilawula, ikwenza kucace ukuthi le yinsimu yakhe ngokushiya ama-pheromones akhe (kungaba ukunwaya noma, uma eyindoda, emaka ngomchamo) nokuthi akawamukeli omusha. Njalo lapho embona, uyamsukela, amhayize futhi amklabalase. Ungalwa naye.
- Ikati eliqinelwayo: Uzizwa engakhululekile kakhulu, engazethembi kakhulu. Uzobona ukuthi udla ngokushesha okukhulu, nokuthi uma nje ebona lo obekulandela lo mseshi uhamba ngokushesha. Zama ukuyivika noma nini lapho ungakwazi. Akunakwenzeka ngaye ukuthi aphile impilo ejwayelekile, aze afike ezingeni lokuthi akwazi ukuzikhulula etreyini.
Le nkinga ingaxazululwa kanjani? Kusukela ekuqaleni, okungukuthi, ukwenza sengathi kuwusuku lokuqala ukuthi ikati elisha lihlale ekhaya. Ukwenza lokhu, sizomfaka egumbini elinethileyi, umbhede, ukudla namanzi kuze kube usuku olulandelayo, okuyilapho sizoqala khona ukuzihlanganisa nabo.
Kittens ukudlala
Ngakusasa ekuseni, esizokwenza ukushintshanisa imibhede ukuze ngale ndlela baqale ukubekezelela iphunga lomunye, bese silishiya isonto lonke. Ngemuva kwaleso sikhathi, sizothatha ikati elihlukunyezwayo liyiswe endaweni endlini lapho lizobona khona ikati elinyakazayo kodwa ngaphandle kwengozi. Uma ubona ukuthi kuyadingeka, ungabasiza ngokufafaza igumbi ngemikhiqizo yokwehlisa i-felines.
Uma konke kuhamba kahle, ngosuku olulandelayo ungasusa isithiyo esibahlukanisayo. Njengendlela yokuqapha, kusukela lapho kuya phambili futhi baze bazwane ngokuphelele, ngincoma ukuthi uqhubeke usebenzise imikhiqizo ebasiza ukuba babe nokuzola. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi umhlukumezi aqhubeke nokuziphatha ngendlela efanayo, zigcine zihlukaniswe nomgoqo isikhathi esisodwa, uze ube nokuthula phambi kwalabo abahlukumezekile.
Uzobona ngokuhamba kwesikhathi le nkinga iba yingxenye yesikhathi esedlule 😉.