Amakati alahlekile yizilwane ezihlala emgwaqeni, ngaphandle kwabantu. Ngenkathi kuthathwa izinyathelo zokunciphisa isibalo soboya obalahliwe, iqiniso ukuthi kusekude ekubeni sikwazi ukuyeka ukukhuluma ngale nkinga ebathinta kakhulu.
Lapho sinakekela i-feline colony, noma lapho sihlangana naleyo edinga usizo, kubalulekile ukuthi sizilungiselele futhi sazi ukubamba kanjani ikati elahlekile.
Enye indlela yokukwenza kahle, okungukuthi, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi isilwane asizizwa singakhululekile noma sesaba, ukwenza lokho kukwenze uzizwe uqiniseka ngaphambilini. Uma ikati, ngokwesibonelo, likhona phakathi kwezihlahla ezithile, kubaluleke kakhulu ukungamlandeli ngokushesha okukhulu, ngoba besizomethusa kuphela futhi ngokunokwenzeka angagcina eshiye indawo. Futhi ngeke kudingeke ukuthi sikhulume naye (akuvamile ukusebenza, ngoba amakati akuleso simo angajwayele ukusilalela), kepha uma ufuna ukusho okuthile kuye nganoma yisiphi isizathu, sebenzisa ithoni ephansi yezwi , futhi ukhulume cishe ngokuhleba: ngale ndlela kuphela ongathola ukuthula.
Elinye iphuzu okufanele libhekwe ukuthi asikwazi ukwenza ukunyakaza okungazelelwe, ingasaphathwa eyokumthethisa. Lokhu kuziphatha kuzodala ukuthi ikati lisuke kude nathi. Manje ulibamba kanjani ikati elahlekile?
Ukufeza lokhu, sizokubuka imizuzu embalwa. Uma sikwazi, kunconywa kakhulu ukuthi usibone nokudla, esizokusabalalisa noma ngabe ukuphi. Ngale ndlela, kuzoba lula kakhulu ukuthi usithembe. Manje uma ugula, sizobeka ngqo umgibe wamakheji wamakati eduze kwawo, lapho sizobe sibeke khona ithini elivulekile lokudla ukuze akhangwe iphunga, bese sihamba.
Uma ukwazile ukuyibamba, vala ikheji ngendwangu ukuze ezolile futhi amyise kudokotela wezilwane ayohlolwa.
Ukubamba ikati elahlekile kungathatha isikhathi, kodwa ngokubekezela ungakuthola 😉.
Kunezikhathi ezi-2 ukuthi ngesikhathi esifushane ngihlangane namakati amabili, ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene zabantu.
Babecishe bashiywa, bobabili babengabesilisa, futhi bekushisa. Ngangizisola kakhulu, ngoba omunye wayeqala ukubanda, wawungabona ukuthi usekhaya, wayenakekelwa kahle, weza kimi ehlaba, wayethandana, empofu.
Njengoba sengineminyaka engu-9 manje, angikwazanga ukumhlenga, ngakho-ke ngayibika emotweni yokugada engayibona endaweni.
Esinye naso besifudumele, ubengaphansi kwemoto ngoba belina, ubebukeka futhi enakekelwa kahle.
Ngikushilo lokhu kumvikeli we-El Prat.
Indawo abangisize ngayo ukubamba ikati enginayo kwakuyindawo lapho amaloli amaningi avela endaweni yokwakha adlula khona. Kunamakati amaningi lapho, asuka ensimini aye kwezinye izivande.
Sasibalethele ukudla ngasikhathi sinye, sasizizwa sinokwethuka njalo lapho kudlula elinye lalawo maloli, ngisho nomhlaba wawuzamazama lapho bedlula, ngangifulathela uma kwenzeka ngigijimela ikati, elinye lacishe labanjwa yimoto, lajika isondo libe yingxenye yalo. Angikaze ngiqonde ukuthi kungani abanye abantu beshesha lapho bebona ikati.
Amanye amadoda athi maningi, kwesinye isikhathi abawanika ukudla uma bengena egcekeni labo. Ngabacela ukuthi bangisize ngitholele indodakazi yami eyodwa. Bafaka i-ham ebhokisini lezithelo njengogibe yawela leli kati, ebengivele ngilibonile lidliwa. Unomfowethu ocishe afane (nguyena owacishe wagijima ngaphezulu kwemoto), ezinyangeni ezithile ezedlule bengisambona lapho. Umvikeli usevele usesikhathini, kepha yilokho okwenzekayo, amakati asendle, amanye angathanjiswa kanti amanye akunjalo. Lokhu akuthembi, kepha uvumela yena ukuthi acindezelwe, abhululwe, okuyinto ayithandayo, kepha engabanjwanga ezingalweni zakhe.
Enye yamadodana akhe, i- "Balinese" injalo, izolile, kangangoba simbiza ngokuthi ikati lenjoloba, indodakazi yami iyalithatha, ilisondeze ngesikhafu sayo futhi ayikhanyi. Umgona kanjena noma kanjena futhi uhlala ezolile. Into ehlekisayo ukuthi phambi kwabantu angabazi uyazivumela ukuthi abanjwe.
Kwenye indawo kwakukhona umama onezinyane lamakati angu-4, abantu abaningi babebavakashela ukuzobondla, kwakubuhlungu ukubona amazinyane amancane, kodwa babesaba, futhi lapho abantu ababezondla bevame ukusondela kubo, babecasha.
Ngathinta owayengumvikeli wangaphambili, ngamtshela ukuthi eduze kweDecathlon yaseVillanova i la Geltrú, kunesitolo esikhulu kakhulu sezilwane, lapho banekheji elinamazinyane okufanele bawamukele. Babengathathwa balethwe lapho. Angazi ukuthi kwenziwa yini ekugcineni.
Okucacayo ukuthi ukubanika ukudla kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuba babe ngabangane bakho futhi bafuna ukuza nawe. Ngemuva kwalokho kufanele ubayise kudokotela wezilwane ukuze babuyekeze nakho konke okudingayo. Ngafaka i-chip kweyami, wayeka ukuba ngumfazi wasemgwaqweni 😉 usevele unekhaya, ikhaya elimnandi.
Uma lina, ngiyambuka bese ngiyamtshela; Muhle kanjani lapha huh? Futhi uvale amehlo akho ngokunqekuzisa ikhanda.
Yebo, kungaba yinto enkulu ukubamba ikati, noma ngabe ngumuntu omdala odukile noma usengumdlwane. Kepha ekugcineni, uma lelo kati kufanele libe lakho, kuzoba yisikhathi nje ngaphambi kokuba libanjwe. 🙂