Kungani sithanda amakati

Lowo ngumbuzo umuntu owake wazibuza wona ... futhi nanamuhla usazibuza, kwesinye isikhathi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, yisilwane esizimele, nesinesizungu esingafuni ukuba nabantu. Lokhu yilokhu obekushiwo njalo, akunjalo? Kepha, labo bethu abathole ithuba lokuba yingxenye yomndeni wabanye babo, futhi nabethu, Siyazi ukuthi akunjalo. Lutho neze.

Uma namanje ungenayo i-feline encane, lapha uzothola kungani sithanda amakati.

Kungani sibathanda kangaka?

Amakati nabantu bebengeke bahluke kakhulu: amanye, avame ukuba nzima, abe nesizungu, athanda ukungabonwa futhi asebenzise ingxenye enhle yezimpilo zawo elele; abanye ngakolunye uhlangothi, sinenhlalo, sithanda ukuba wedwa kepha ngemithamo emincane (ngokujwayelekile), futhi imvamisa sijabulela ukuphuma ngaphandle kakhulu.

Kodwa-ke, iningi lethu lithandana nokubukeka kwakhe okumnandi, ukunyakaza kwakhe okushesha, lokho kuyisibhakela okuthi, noma kungabonakala njengokunye, yabelana okuningi kofuzo lwayo nezilwane ezinjengamahlosi, amabhubesi noma ama-cougars.

Ngabe kunjalo, ekugcineni, yini okusimangazayo ngamakati? Yebo, awafuywanga, noma cha. Abafani nezinja, lezo ezinoboya ezimangalisa ngendlela efanayo kepha ezingafani namakati, zihlala zikulungele ukujabulisa abantu. Amakati ahamba ngendlela yawo.

Ungabafundisa amaqhinga, kepha bazofunda kuphela uma befuna; uma bethola okuthile ngokubuyisela (ukwelashwa, isikhathi sokutotosa kanye / noma iseshini yomdlalo).

Ngokubona kwami, sithanda izilwane ezinoboya ngoba…:

Banomlingiswa ofana nowethu

Iqiniso. Kuyaziwa ukuthi izilwane, nabantu, sisebenzisana kangcono nezinye izidalwa eziphilayo ezinomlingiswa ofana nowethu. Yize amakati kuseyizilwane ezizingelayo, okuthi kusukela ekuzalweni kuze kube sekupheleni kwezinsuku zazo ziphelelisa izindlela zazo zokuzingela ngokudlala, ziyefana kakhulu nathi kwezinye izinto. Mhlawumbe, okubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nokuhlalisana okuhle. Ngokwesibonelo:

• Uma ubanika uthando, uzokunika nawe. Futhi uma ungamnaki, uzokwenza konke okusemandleni ukuthola ukunakwa kwakho.
• Uyakubingelela lapho ekubona ufika, futhi kwesinye isikhathi uze athi "usale kahle" - meowing - uma uhamba.
• Ujabula kakhulu uma umnikeza ukwelashwa-kwamakati-, futhi i-mucho más lapho umnika ucezu lwesalmon ebhemayo, noma i-ham.
• Lapho umphatha kabi kanye, ubuhlobo buba buthakathaka, futhi ukwethemba kulahlekile. Ukusuka lapho, kungathatha izinyanga ukuthi ikati lizizwe likuthokozela futhi.

Ngabe uyazibona ezinye zalezi zimilo kubantu?

Bangumngane wethu omkhulu onoboya

Zimnandi, ziyajwayeleka, ziyathandana, ziyasihlekisa ... Futhi konke, ukuze sibe nophahla lokuzivikela esimweni sezulu esibi, nakuma-feeder agcwele. Yebo, namathoyizi, ama-scratcher, amathreyitha kadoti ... Kepha sibafunela okungcono kakhulu, ngakho izindleko zezimali ezihilelekile ... akuyona nje into ekhathazayo.

Ngoba bayingxenye yomndeni wethu.

Uthini isayensi?

Lo mbhalo ubungeke uphelele ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi isayensi itholani. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi lapho befunda ngokuziphatha kwekati kanye / noma nabantu ababathandayo, sigcina sizibuza okuthile okufana nalokhu: »futhi manje sebeyabona?». Kulungile.

Kepha akumele sikhohlwe ukuthi, ngokwalokho esiyikho ngokuqonda okumsulwa, kubantu abaningi kuyinto entsha. Futhi kusenabaningi abazibuza ukuthi amakati anemizwa yini noma cha.

Ukubheka konke lokhu, ake sibone ukuthi isayensi ithini.

Abathandi bekati bavame ukungena kakhulu

Ku-2010, inani labantu abangama-4500 ligcwalise ifomu elenziwa yi-University of Texas. EMpumalanga ukutadisha Beholwa ngudokotela wezengqondo uSam Gosling, kwahlukaniswa abaphendulayo baba ngabathandi bezinja, abathandi bekati, zombili izilwane noma cha.

Le mibuzo yenziwa ngenhloso yokwazi ukuthi babejwayele kangakanani ukuba nobungane, uma babenomqondo ovulekile, uma benobungane, futhi / noma uma babevame ukukhathazeka, phakathi kwabanye. A) Yebo, Isivivinyo seGolding sichaze abathandi bekati njengabantu ababukekayo nabangenisa izethulo, abazinzile ngokomzwelo, kepha abanomcabango omkhulu kanye namandla aphezulu okuthola okuhlangenwe nakho okusha.

Ku 'amakhubibangase bathande isiko kakhulu

Ngemuva kweminyaka emine uGosling enze isifundo sakhe, uprofesa wezengqondo eCarroll University eWisconsin, ogama lakhe linguDenise Guastello, wayeziqhuba, engabheki kuphela ubuntu babathandi bezilwane, kodwa futhi nemvelo yabo.

Isibonelo, umuntu akudingeki ukuthi ahambe inja, angasebenzisa leso sikhathi samahhala afunde incwadi, noma avakashele iminyuziyamu ngokwesibonelo. Yize, ngokusobala, lokho akusho ukuthi abathandi bekati bahlakaniphile kunezithandwa zezinja, akunjalo; kodwa yebo lokho amakati-imilutha athambekele ekubeni sekhaya futhi angenise.

Mhlawumbe, futhi mhlawumbe kuphela, yingakho kukhona abaculi nababhali abaningi kangaka, abashonile noma cha, abake baphila noma abahlala namakati, njengoJorge Luis Borges noma uRay Bradbury, phakathi kwabanye.

Uma ufuna, ungafunda isifundo lapha (KungesiNgisi).

Angiwathandi amakati, kungani?

Kukhona abantu abangawathandi amakati, futhi ngoba bakhulise uhlobo oluthile lokwesaba olubhekiswe kubo, noma ngoba bathole ingozi, noma ngoba nje bengabathandi njengoba noma ngubani wethu engeke athande ama-hamsters ngokwesibonelo.

Uma kungokwakamuva, akukho okungenziwa. Kepha uma kungenxa ye-phobia noma isimo esibuhlungu esake senzeka esikhathini esidlule, kungakuhle ukuthi uthintane nochwepheshe, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, ikakhulukazi uma uzohlala nomuntu othanda amakati. Lokhu kuzokwenza ukuhlangana ngaphandle kokungabaza kube ngcono kakhulu.

Noma kunjalo, ungaziphoqi. Okungukuthi, I-Phobias ayiphulukisi kusuka osukwini olulodwa kuya kolandelayo, noma ngokuphulula noma yiliphi ikati elisondela kuwe. Kufanele uhambe kancane kancane, ngejubane lakho. Jabula baqonde, lokhu kungenzeka kukwenze uzizwe ungcono.

Ngiyethemba kube usizo kuwe to.