Kungani ikati lami lilele ezingutsheni zami

Ikati linezindlela eziningi zokusitshela ukuthi usikhathalela kangakanani futhi enye yazo ukuma ngezingubo zethu ukuze ulale kancane. Akakhathaleli kangako ukuthi silidinga ngqo lelo bhantshi, ulala phezu kwalo futhi uma sizama ukulisusa ... ngokunokwenzeka uzoziphatha njengoboya obonakele 🙂.

Kepha wake wazibuza ukuthi kungani ikati lami lilele ezingutsheni zami? Inombhede wayo, usofa, namanye amakhona amaningi ukuthatha isihlwathi. Kungani ukhetha izingubo zomuntu wakho?

Iphunga le-feline, kakhulu kunomqondo

Impendulo yalowo mbuzo ihlobene kakhulu nomuzwa we-feline wephunga. Ithuthukiswe kakhulu kunokwethu - ikakhulukazi, ibona amaphunga ahlukile izikhathi eziphindwe kayi-14 kangcono - kuze kube yilapho kungekho nzima ukuthi ithole iphunga lomzimba elikhishwa yizo zonke izilwane. Kusukela ngosuku lokuqala ufika ekhaya, uyajwayela iphunga lethu, futhi lapho ekugcineni ezizwa ephephile phakathi kwethu, uhlanganisa lelo phunga nezokuphepha nokwethembana.

Ngakho-ke, lapho sishintsha izingubo zethu, uboya buthatha ithuba elincane lokuhlala kulo. Yini enye, Uma kufanele simshiye izinsuku ezimbalwa kuphela, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi simshiyele izingcezu zezingubo esizisebenzisile ukuze ezwe ukuthula size sibuye.

Isitho sikaJacobson, "ikhala lesibili" lekati

Kungenzeka ukuthi wake walibona ikati lakho lenza ubuso obungajwayelekile ngomlomo walo, belivula kancane, linuka okuthile okusha (ngokwesibonelo, isandla sakho ngemuva kokuphulula elinye ikati). Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ngqo emlonyeni wakho, ngemuva kwamazinyo akho angaphakathi, unalokho okwaziwa ngokuthi isitho sikaJacobson noma isitho somhlanzo, zingamasaka amabili agcwele uketshezi axhunywe emgodini wamakhala.

Izilwane eziningi zinazo, njengezinyoka, futhi ziwusizo olukhulu kuzo ngoba ngenxa yazo ungezwa kangcono futhi ukhombe amakha ahlukene. Njengezilwane ezidla ezinye, kubalulekile ukuthi sibe nephunga elicishe liphelele, futhi ama-feline ngokujwayelekile namakati esihlanganyela nawo iminyaka eminingana yezimpilo zethu abe nokuziphendukela kwemvelo okuthakazelisa kakhulu.

Ama-Pheromones, "anuka" abe imilayezo

Amakati, njengezinye izilwane, akhiqiza ama-pheromones, okuyizinto zamakhemikhali azikhipha kwezinye izingxenye zomzimba wawo futhi uma esekhishiwe, anomthelela ekuziphatheni kwezinye ezinoboya. Endabeni yabaphikisi bethu, bahlukaniswa ngezinhlobo eziningana:

• Ama-pheromones okuthandana: yilezo ezibasiza ukuthi babe nokuzola nokukhululeka. Ziyakhululwa ebusweni, yingakho zihlala zihlikihla ubuso kobuso kwabathandekayo.
• Ama-pheromone wesifunda / wokumaka: yilezo ezibavumela ukuthi babone indawo yekati. Zikhishwa emchameni, kodwa nangemilenze yazo lapho ziklwebha, ngokwesibonelo, iziqu zezihlahla.
• Ukucindezela ama-pheromones: yizona ezifihlayo lapho zizizwa zinengcindezi noma zishubile, njengalapho ziya kudokotela wezilwane ngokwesibonelo.
• Ama-pheromones ezocansi: zikhishwe emchameni ngaphezu kwakho konke. Zihlangene nentshiseko. Lapho ikati lithenwa, okungukuthi, lapho kususwa izindlala zalo zokuzala, isilwane siyayeka ukufihla lawa ma-pheromone ngoba ashiywe ngaphandle kwezindlala eziwakhiqizayo.

Akunandaba ukuthi hlobo luni lwe-pheromone olifihla ngaleso sikhathi, noma yisiphi esinye isilwane esazalwa sine-Jacobson Organ sizokwazi ukusibona. Uneminye imininingwane mayelana nokumaka u-feline kulesi sixhumanisi:

I-athikili ehlobene:

Konke mayelana nokumaka u-feline

Uma unesifiso sokufuna ukwazi, futhi okungenani okwamanje, abantu abakwazi ukubona la "maphunga", okungenani bengazi (sinesitho somhlanzo, kepha sincane futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ngokuziphendukela kwemvelo kuzonyamalala, noma kusimangaze ososayensi besikhathi futhi babe wusizo.

Kungani ikati lami liba nodlame noma linolaka lapho ngibuya kudokotela wezilwane nomunye u-feline wami?

Lokhu ukusabela okujwayelekile. Uhlala namakati amabili (noma ngaphezulu), uthatha eyodwa uye kudokotela wezilwane futhi lapho ubuya abanye baba nolaka kancane noma, esimweni esibi kakhulu, banodlame olukhulu kuye. Kungani? Ngenxa yalokho esikushilo ngaphambili ngama-pheromones. Ngesikhathi sokuvakashela uchwepheshe ikati lizobe lizizwe licindezeleke kakhulu futhi lishubile, futhi umzimba walo ngeke nje ukhiphe lawo ma-pheromones okucindezela, kepha nama-pheromones ezinye izilwane azobe 'enamathiselwe' ebuswini ukuthi bebelapho, ngaphandle kokubala iphunga lemitholampilo yezilwane noma izibhedlela (imithi nokunye).

Uma ufika ekhaya, iphunga lomzimba lalelo kati lihlukile; Akuzona ezabo, kodwa kuyinhlanganisela yephunga lokuthi amanye amakati asendlini awaziwa yibo. Yebo, ungasho ukuthi ikati ebelikade lisemtholampilo liyisihambi ngokuphelele kulabo abasekhaya. Futhi lapho amakati amabili angazani (ngokomthetho) ehlangana endaweni evaliwe, kwenzekani? Yebo, ziningi izinto ezingenzeka:

• Eyodwa, ukuthi ngemuva kokunukelana baba abangane.
• Ababili, ukuthi ngemuva kokunukelana bayathukuthela balwe.
• Noma ezintathu, ukuthi yilowo nalowo ahambe ngendlela yakhe.

Uma kwenzeka eyodwa noma ezintathu bekungeke kube nankinga, kepha njengoba ezimbili zimbi kakhulu, engikuncoma kakhulu ukukwenza ukushiya ikati ebelilapha udokotela wezilwane egumbini kuze kube ngakusasa. Ngale ndlela, ungasusa konke ukucindezela, konke lokho kunuka okungakhululekile, futhi ungabuyela ndawonye nabangane bakho bekati ngaphandle kwezinkinga.

Futhi uma ungeke ubavimbe ekulweni, ubazise futhi, kube sengathi abazani nhlobo, bathathe eyodwa bayise ekamelweni lokulala, balishiye lapho cishe izinsuku ezintathu bese beshintshana ngemibhede. Vele, kubalulekile, zama ukunikeza inani elifanayo lothando kuwo wonke umuntu ukuze bezwe kamnandi.

Ikati yisilwane esithandekayo futhi esinobudlelwano kakhulu kunalokho okubonakala. Awuzithandi izinguquko, kepha uyathanda ukuthi umnakekeli wakho akunikeze ukunakwa nothando olukufanele. Basitshele i-ad nauseam ukuthi uzimele kakhulu, kepha thina esihlala naye siyazi ukuthi uthokozani nokuba nomndeni wakhe.

Ukuhlala nomunye wabo kungokuhlangenwe nakho okungakholeki, lapho singafunda khona okuningi ngathi nangempilo. Yini engaphansi kokumhlonipha futhi umvumele ajabule.