Kungani amakati ethimula

Monica Sanchez

Imizuzu ye-2

Ukufutheka ikati

Amakati, njengathi, nawo angazizwa engakhululekile kakhulu. Abakwazi ukukhuluma, kepha bangadlulisela umyalezo kithi ngolimi lwabo lomzimba, futhi leyo yinto abayenza kaningi, hhayi kuphela lapho bezolile, kodwa futhi lapho kukhona okuthile okubaphazamisayo.

Kuyo yonke imilayezo abasithumelela yona, kukhona owodwa ogqame kakhulu: ukuhogela. Wake wazibuza ukuthi kungani amakati ethimula? 

Lezi zilwane badinga ukulawula yonke imvelo yaboNgokushesha nje lapho okuthile kuvela ngokungazelelwe, bangazizwa bengakhululekile noma bethimula, ngoba kubo leyo "nto" entsha engavelanga ndawo imele usongo. Kepha baphinde bahayize kwezinye izimo, njengalapho kunekati elincane eliphikelela ngokudlala kepha alifuni, mhlawumbe ngoba likhathele noma nganoma yisiphi esinye isizathu.

Ngabe basithimula? Yebo kulungile. Bangakwenza uma bezwa ukuthi bavalekile, noma uma "sibaphoqelela" emathangeni ethu noma bengafuni. Umbuzo uthi, kungani? Kungani bethimula?

Ikati elithukuthele

Ukuthimula uhlobo lwezexwayiso. Amakati yizilwane ezidla ezinye ezimnandi, kepha iqiniso ukuthi noma kunini lapho bekwazi khona, bayakugwema ukungqubuzana, ikakhulukazi lapho »umphikisi wabo» kungumuntu abamthandayo (noma ngabe banemilenze emibili noma imilenze emine). Kuyindlela yabo yokuthi "ngiyeke", "hlala kude". Uma singakunaki, kungenzeka ukuthi sithathe isenzo, okungukuthi, ukuklwebha noma ukuluma.

Qaphela, ukuthi ikati bufe alisho ukuthi linolaka, ngoba ulaka lwe-feline alukho, ngoba kufanele ucabange ukuthi ngemuva kokuziphatha okunolaka kufihla ukwesaba, ukungavikeleki, ukwesaba ukuthi kukhona okuzokwenzeka kuye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuhlale kunesizathu sokuthi kungani enza kanjena, noma ngabe kungokwengqondo noma ngokomzimba (izinkinga zempilo), ngakho-ke uma uboya bakho bukuklolodela, kubalulekile ukuthi uthole ukuthi kungani ekwenza. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho ungamvimba khona ukuthi angaphinde akwenze, kulapho kuphela lapho ungamjabulisa khona.


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  1.   UMonica sanchez kusho
    kwenza iminyaka 8

    Kuhle 🙂

    Phendula uMonica Sanchez
  2.   Laura kusho
    kwenza iminyaka 7

    Ngisanda kuthatha amakati amabili ehlathini, abekhona ekhaya ngosuku kuphela, lapho ngizama ukusondela bangithakatha, angazi ukuthi ngenzeni, ngingajabulela noma isiphi iseluleko onganginika sona. Ngiyabonga.

    Phendula uLaura
    1.    UMonica sanchez kusho
      kwenza iminyaka 7

      Sawubona Laura.
      Ngincoma ukuthi ubekezele. Dlala nabo, ngokwesibonelo ngentambo, bese ubanikeza ukudla okumanzi kwekati. Ngokuqinisekile maduze bazokwethemba wena.
      A ukubingelela.

      Phendula uMonica Sanchez