Kwabaningi bethu abahlala noma abake bahlala nomkhuhlane omncane, kwenzekile kithi ukuthi omunye wabo wahamba wangabuya. Kungokuhlangenwe nakho okunzima kakhulu, okusenza sizibuze kungani amakati ehamba uma benakho konke abakudingayo ekhaya.
Ukukuqonda, kubalulekile ukuzama ukuqonda eyodwa yethu enoboya, ngoba ngale ndlela singakugwema ukuba nesidingo sokuhamba.
Kungani amakati ehamba?
Abazizwa bekhululekile
Lezi zilwane, yize zihlala emakhaya futhi zikwazi ukujwayela impilo yasekhaya, iqiniso ukuthi ziseyizilwane "zasendle" kancane. Bathanda ukuphuma bayoshaywa umoya, futhi ngokungakwazi ukwenza lokho, uma kungadlalwa ngabo ekhaya, bangakhungatheka kakhulu futhi babe nesithukuthezi. Ngakho-ke, lapho nje bebona umnyango ovulekile, bazophuma ngawo.
Ngokufanayo, bangashiya futhi uma isimo somndeni sishubile noma sicindezela, okubagcina besesimweni sokucindezeleka okungapheli.
Bafuna ukuyofuna umlingani
Okungaphezulu noma okuncane kusuka ezinyangeni ezi-5-6, zombili amakati abesilisa nabesifazane bazofuna ukuyofuna umlingani. Ukugwema lokhu, inhloso ukuthi kuhlanzwe bobabili, abesilisa nabesifazane; ngale ndlela, bazoba nokuzola okukhulu.
Bafuna ukuphenya indawo yabo
Yize inzalo futhi ngokuvamile iyizilwane ezihlala zodwa, nazo zinjalo bathanda ukuzihlanganisa nabanye bohlobo lwabo ngezikhathi ezithile futhi baphenye indawo yabo. Kungukuziphatha okungokwemvelo kubo, okungaholela ekutheni bafune ukuphuma endlini bahlale kude namahora ambalwa baye ezinsukwini ezintathu.
Bathanda ukuba ngaphandle
Kukhona amakati angafuni nje ukuba sekhaya. Uma unekati elinomkhuba wokushiya ikhaya njalo, ungamphoqi ukuba abe ngaphakathi, ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi ngelinye ilanga ngiyeke ukuya.
Ikati lami lihambile alibuyanga, kwenzekeni kuye?
Uma wena nekati lakho nisondelene kakhulu, kodwa ngolunye usuku uyayeka ukuza, kungenzeka ukuthi kukhona okwenzekile kuwe. Kungenzeka ukuthi udle okuthile okunoshevu, noma kungenzeka ukuthi kwebiwe noma kuyiswe endaweni yokukhosela izilwane. Kulezi zimo, uma ungayiboni ezinsukwini ezimbalwa, kufanele ubeke izimpawu ezifunwayo endaweni, wazise imitholampilo yezilwane nezitolo zezilwane, ubuze ezindlini zokukhosela futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, phuma uyoyifuna.
Uma ebuya, ubheke ukuthi unempilo enhle yini futhi umnikeze uthando oluningi.
Ngikufisela inhlanhla!
Bathi amakati, yize enekhaya, ahlala lapho aphethwe khona kakhulu. Muva nje ikati lowesilisa liza kakhulu emgodini wendlu yami (nginamakati amabili angenalutho), ngimnikeza ukudla ngezikhathi ezithile futhi ngiyamphulula. Ufika cishe nsuku zonke futhi uzama njalo ukungena endlini, kodwa angifuni ukuthi ajwayele ngoba ngiyazi ukuthi unomnikazi. Ngelinye ilanga umfana wafika nentokazi ehluphekile befuna ikati, bayithatha kude kodwa ngemuva kwemizuzu engu-5 wayesekhaya ngibuyela endlini yami. Ngicabanga ukuthi leli kati lingathanda ukuhlala lapha i-XD
Hehe, kungaba 🙂
Awunaphutha, elinye lamakati enganginawo lalivela kumakhelwane, wachitha isikhathi esithe xaxa endlini yami waze ngelinye ilanga wayeka ukuya kwamakhelwane, singabantu abathule, ngicabanga ukuthi ikati likuthokozele lokho.
Yebo, amakati akhetha izindawo ezinokuthula 🙂. Ngikufisela okuhle.
Nginamakati amabili angenalutho futhi anakekelwa kahle, ahluke kakhulu ngesimilo, eyodwa ishiyile futhi ayifuni ukubuya, ebusuku ivela ophahleni lukamakhelwane, futhi ayifuni ukwehla,
ABABILI BANGIHAMBELE ... Ngangizizwa ngingenalutho nemibuzo, ngoba bobabili banyamalala ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene, kodwa isimo esifanayo, lapho umlingani wami efika futhi kwenzeka okuthile okucindezelayo ... angiphindanga ngababona ... owokugcina ngangiyikati, ngangikhulelwe, lapho umlingani wami efika, ngambona, ngambheka futhi akazange abuye kulokhu esikhathini esidlule .. ukudabuka….