Uma ufuna ukuthi uboya bakho bube nenzalo, ufuna ukuthi ibe udoti onempilo ephelele nokuthi zifane nomama ngangokunokwenzeka, akunjalo? Ngakho-ke mhlawumbe uyazibuza ukukhulisa izingane ekati lami. Into yokuqala okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi amakati angaba nokushisa kaningana ngonyaka, ikakhulukazi, amahlandla amane.
Izinsikazi ze-Feline zizala amazinyane aphakathi kuka-1 kuya ku-10, ngakho-ke kungakuhle ukuthi, uma ufuna ukuthi akhulelwe, kufanele kwenziwe ekhaya, ukuthatha ikati lowesilisa.
Isikhathi esivumayo kakhulu sisekupheleni kobusika, lapho amazinga okushisa eqala ukukhuphuka. Yize ungamyisa kudokotela wezilwane ukuthi azi ukuthi yisiphi isikhathi esihle sokumzalela. Ngendlela, ungacela ukuthi uhlolwe ukuze uhlole impilo yayo. Ikati elingaphilile kahle akufanele likhulelwe; futhi akufanele simxubanise nowesilisa uma engaphansi konyaka owodwa.
Kuphela uma kungekho nkinga, singaqala ukufuna owesilisa. Lapho siyithola sizozihlanganisa ndawonye izinsuku eziningana ukuze bazane futhi babone ukuthi ekugcineni kuyamkhulelisa yini, into esizoyizuza uma siqinisekisa ukuthi imvelo izolile.
Ukukhulelwa kwekati kuthatha cishe izinyanga ezimbili, lapho ngincoma ukuthi ngondliwe ngokudla okuseqophelweni eliphezulu kakhulu noma ngokudla kwemvelo ukuze amazinyane akhule ephilile futhi eqinile. Ngemuva kokubeletha, kufanele siqhubeke nokunakekela umama omusha ukuze akhiqize ubisi olusezingeni eliphakeme. Yini enye, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi simphathe kahle, ngokunakekela okukhulu, futhi emnika uthando oluningi, hhayi manje kuphela, kodwa nasempilweni yakhe yonke.
Ukubona amazinyane ezalwa kungokuhlangenwe nakho okungakholeki, kepha kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ikati ngalinye lingaba nezingane eziningi ngasikhathi sinye, futhi akuzona zonke ezizokwazi ukuba nomndeni. Ngakho-ke, noma nini lapho ufuna ukukhulisa uboya bakho, kuyalulekwa ukuthi uqhubeke futhi funa ikhaya kwabancane. Ngale ndlela, ungakujabulela kokubili ukukhulelwa nokubeletha ngisho nangokwengeziwe.