Kunabantu abaningi abacabanga ukuthi amakati yizilwane ezihlala zodwa, nokuthi azihlangani. Kepha iqiniso lihluka kancane kulezo zinkolelo. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi bangaba yizilwane ezizimele kepha, uma sibheka ngokucophelela ikoloni lamakati ngokwesibonelo, sizobona ukuthi basebenzisana kanjani, nokuthi bakubonisa kanjani ukuhlangana kwabo nabanye abangane.
Futhi yilokho kuseyizilwane eziyimfihlakalo kakhuluAwucabangi
Ukuxhumana kokuqala komphakathi kusungulwa nomama wakhe, okunesibopho sokumnika uthando nokumvikela, njengabo bonke omama abathwale izingane zabo esibelethweni izinyanga ezimbalwa, ukubanika ubisi oluyigugu oluzobasiza ukuthi bakhule babe namandla futhi babe nempilo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izinyane lekati liya likwazi ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe: aze akwazi ukudla, ukudlala, ngamafuphi, aphile impilo ejwayelekile ngaphandle kukamama wakhe emnikeza umlenze. Yize sazi ukuthi amazinyane azalelwa ekhaya futhi angahlala nonina impilo yonke, azohlala ebugcina lobo budlelwane obuseduze.
Njengathi ngabantu. Akumangazi ukuthi amakati asekoloni agcina ubudlelwane "peer-to-peer" nabanakekeli bawo. Bangase bangasondeli kubo, kodwa ngenxa nje yokunikeza ukudla nokuvikeleka, babahlonipha kakhulu futhi abanqeni ukubabiza uma bebona kunesidingo.
Izinyane lekati elihlukaniswe nonina lisencane, phakathi kwezinyanga ezimbili kuya kwezintathu, bangahle babe sengozini yabantu abazama "ukubenza" babe ngabantu. Kufanele wazi ukuthi ungahlukanisa kanjani phakathi kwezinto eziningana. Banemizwa futhi bayikhombisa usuku nosuku, banamandla okufunda, kepha ababona abantu. Amakati awalokothi azenzele into ehleliwe, awacabangi izinsuku eziningi ukuthi azokuya kanjani nokuthi nini, ngokwesibonelo, alwe nelinye ikati. Bahlala okwamanje, futhi lowo ngumehluko omkhulu phakathi kwabo nathi uma kukhulunywa ngokuziphatha.
Futhi ngokususelwa kulokhu kufanele senze ngokufanele, futhi singamsoli ngokuthize angenakho. Abenzi ukusilimaza.