Cishe kunoma yiliphi idolobha nedolobha sithola amakoloni amaningana amakati alahlekile. Izilwane, ngasizathu simbe, ezigcine zihlala emgwaqeni noma lezo, ngqo, zikhuliswe kuwo. Kepha ababodwa: Bahlala bezungezwe ngabantu, abaningi, futhi hhayi bonke ababahloniphayo abesilisa, ingasaphathwa eyokufuna ukubabophezela kubo ngendlela ezolunga.
Ngalesi sizathu, ngezikhathi ezithile kuba nokulwa kwamakati alahlekile anama-meows amakhulu kangangokuba avusa ngisho nomuntu olala ngokuthula embhedeni phansi kwabo. Futhi njengoba lezi zilwane zisebenza ebusuku, ukulwa kwazo kuba yinkinga komakhelwane. Kepha, masingakhohlwa: futhi nabo. Ngemuva kwalokho, Ungakugwema kanjani ukulwa?
Kungani ikati lilwa?
Ikati lilwa ngezizathu ezimbili eziyinhloko: ngoba ufuna ukuvikela indawo yakhe futhi ngoba kuyisikhathi sokuhlangana. Yize ehlala emgwaqweni okuyindawo engathathi hlangothi, umuntu ngamunye we-feline unezizinda zakhe ezingahlanganisa izingadi ezimbili noma ezintathu zendawo, noma amabhulokhi amathathu noma amane.
Lapho elinye ikati lingena endaweni yalo, elizokwenza likuphonse ngaphandle, kuqala ngokuthimula nokugquma, bese kuthi uma lokhu kungasebenzi ngokulwa nalo. Futhi isimo sizoba nzima kakhulu uma kukhona owesifazane oshisayo endaweni, okungadala ukulimala okubi kakhulu.
Ungakugwema kanjani ukulwa kwekati elahlekile?
Bengilokhu nginakekela amakati alahlekile kusukela ngo-2009, futhi ngokususelwa kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami kunezinto eziningana ezingenziwa ukuvimbela ukulwa kwamakati alahlekile:
- Bulala inzalo wonke amakati: ngokususa izindlala zocansi zabo bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane, ukushiswa kwabo kuyasuswa, ngaphezu kokuvimbela ukuthi bangazali.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi ikati ngalinye liyakwazi ukuthola ukudla namanzi: uma ngamunye wabo engazondla nsuku zonke izinkinga zizoncipha.
- Ungalahli amakati: ikati lingaphila isilinganiso seminyaka engama-20. Uma singazimisele ukuyinakekela ngaleso sikhathi, kungcono ukungabi nayo.
Ukugcwala kwamakati kuyinkinga esiyidalile futhi okufanele siyixazulule, hhayi ngokuyidela, kepha ngokuyiqeda inzalo.
Ikati lami lineminyaka emithathu ubudala futhi lenziwe inzalo, noma kunjalo lilwa nelomakhelwane nalo elibonakala lingathathi hlangothi, uKitty uyamzonda futhi angazi ukuthi ngingakugwema kanjani lokho kuhlangana.
Sawubona Soraya.
Yebo, into yokuqala: amakati awazondi 🙂. Benza kuphela ngokwemvelo.
Uma ikati lakho licabanga ukuthi elinye ikati lihlasela insimu yalo, lizomazisa ukuthi lisendaweni yalo. Angavele ambambe, kepha uma lokho kungasebenzi, angakhetha ukulwa naye.
Ungakugwema kanjani? Indlela ephumelela kunazo zonke ukuzama ukubekezelela bobabili. Akuyona indaba yokuba ngabangane uma bengafuni, kepha okungenani ukuthi bayakwamukela ukuba khona komunye.
Ukwenza kanjani lokho? Ngokubekezela okukhulu, ukutotosa nokuphatha amakati. Futhi ngokubambisana kwabanikazi belinye ikati.
Bobabili abantu - wena nomuntu wekati elingumakhelwane - kufanele nisondele ezilwaneni zenu nibanikeze imiklomelo eminingi phambi kwelinye ikati. Ngalokhu, bazohlobanisa ukuba khona kwelinye ikati nokuthile okuhle: imiklomelo.
Kuthatha isikhathi, futhi kufanele ukwenze nsuku zonke, kepha ekugcineni kuzotholakala.
Enye indlela ukubeka ikhola elithobayo ekati lakho, njengeCalming's noma iFelisept.
A ukubingelela.
Hola
ikati lami lisekhaya kodwa muva nje belilokhu lilwa emgwaqweni namakati amaningi futhi lilethe amanxeba, hhayi ajulile, kunalokho ukuklwebheka kanye namanxeba angaphezulu kodwa angazi ukuthi ngenzeni ukuze ngiyeke ukulwa, ikati lami alinanxa anginalo wazi okumele akwenze ukuze angabe esalwa kakhulu nokuthi afike elimele
Sawubona Nicolas.
Ingabe u-neutered?
Ngenkathi yokukhwelana, amakati abesilisa alwa nabesifazane. Akuzona izimpi ezibucayi kakhulu, kepha ukuklwebheka kwesinye isikhathi abakuthathayo. Ngakho-ke, uma engathathi hlangothi, ngincoma ukuthi umyise kudokotela wezilwane ukuze akwenze; ngale ndlela bazoba namathuba amancane okulwa naye.
Futhi uma esevele engathathi hlangothi, isixazululo esisebenza kahle kakhulu ukumvimbela ukuthi aphume endlini ebusuku, okuyilapho amakati esebenza kakhulu.
Ukubingelela
Sawubona Monica. Ngiyivolontiya eProtectora, ngiphethe iCat Flats. Sinamakati angama-70, amaningi awo atholakele, amanye alahlwe kudoti kanti amanye alahlwe ngabanikazi bawo. Abanye bethu banabo ezinkanjini ngoba bayelashwa kanti abanye bakhululekile ensimini enkulu, lapho bengeke babalekele khona. Ngenyanga edlule sithathe u-feline oneminyaka emibili ubudala, weza enezilonda eziningi zokulwa, samfaka ekhejini elibekwe endaweni emnyama, ngoba wafika enengcindezi enkulu. Cishe ezinsukwini ezingama-2 ezedlule besivele sikwazile ukumkhulula esibayeni futhi kwenzekile ukuthi ube nawo wonke umhlambi. Hhayi-ke, sekuphele isonto elwa nawo wonke umuntu amzungezile, kungaba abesilisa, abesifazane, abancane ..... ushaya wonke umuntu ongena phambi kwakhe futhi uma omunye ephunyuka .... lesi silwane siyamlandela . Inzalo. Ngiyazi ukuthi uyikati elibusayo kepha angazi ukuthi ngikwenze kanjani, yebo, ngiyazi ukuthi kufanele ngisebenzise kanjani ukulwa, kepha okungikhathazayo ukuthola isixazululo, ngoba ukumbuyisela esitokisini .... .. kungiphatha kabi kakhulu!. Nginovalo lokuthi labo abanomthwalo wemfanelo bazokhetha ukuyilalisa. Ungangisiza?. Ngiyabonga kakhulu Monica. Ukwanga.
Sawubona Marcia.
Siyabonga ngokusibhalela 🙂
Ngizokutshela: amakati ayindawo enkulu kakhulu. Kukhona abanye abashesha ukwamukela ubukhona nenkampani yabanye, kepha kukhona abanye abancamela ukuba bodwa (ngaphandle kwamanye ama-feline azungeze), okuyilokho engicabanga ukuthi leli kati lifuna.
Ngicabanga ukuthi kungcono ukuthi ube nayo endaweni lapho kungazola khona.
Kujwayelekile ukuthi uzisole ngawo lowo mqondo wokumbuyisela ehhokweni, kepha ngicabanga ukuthi ukumvikela ekuqhubekeni ezizwa kabi kuzoba okufanele kakhulu. Vele angisho ukuthi umshiya yedwa usuku lonke, kepha ukuthi uchitha isikhathi naye ukuze kusasa (noma namuhla he) abe nethuba lokuthola umndeni.
Ukuqabulana
Ikati lami lisekhaya kodwa omunye odukile ufika angene kuvulandi wami avikele indawo yakhe, kepha ngibonile ukuthi ikati elilahlekile limlume kaningi futhi licishe langibulala. siza uuuuudaaaaaa
Sawubona Jhoanka.
Kulezi zimo, okunconywayo ukuthi kwenziwe ukubeka izithiyo zomzimba ukuze zingangeni, noma ukhethe ukuzama ukwakha abangane ngokubanika ukudla nokwenza icala elifanayo.
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Sawubona Monica. Samukela ikati elahlekile elingaphezulu noma elingaphansi konyaka nohhafu, limnene kakhulu futhi linothando, ebelinomngane noma umfowethu, asazi; ukuqhosha nokungathembi. Umfundise kancane izinkombandlela okumele azilandele ukuze akwazi ukungena endlini, adle, alale, njll. Babezwana impela. Wayenenzalo futhi egonywe ngaphandle kwenkinga, kwakungeke kwenzeke kuye, ngoba waba nolaka ngempela, futhi ngaleso sikhathi wakhulelwa amakati amabili aphambukayo, aqala ukuletha ekhaya futhi wafuna insimu nokudla kwamakati nezinsana zakhe, iLasagna eceleni . Waqala ukuhlushwa yingcindezi futhi wazihlukanisa, ngenxa yokulahlekelwa ngumngani wakhe, owaqala ukungabunaki ubungane bakhe bangaphambilini. Manje useshintshe waba nolaka kakhulu emakati alahlekile, sicabanga ukuthi ubulale ingane. Ulwa nsuku zonke, nabesifazane, abesilisa nezinsana ezinezinyanga eziyisithupha ubudala. Asazi ukuthi senzeni futhi asazi ukuthi ngubani olungile kulesi simo. Ngiyabonga kakhulu, imikhonzo.
Sawubona Eva.
Kulezi zimo, kufanele sizame ukuthena wonke amakati, ngisho namakati (asevele eneminyaka yokuba nokushisa kokuqala ezinyangeni eziyisithupha), ngisho nangomgibe wezinja. Kungenzeka ukuthi noma iyiphi inhlangano ezinikele ekunakekeleni amakati alahlekile izokuboleka eyodwa.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuwathena, ngiyaqinisa, ngaphandle kwalokho kungaba nzima ukuthi izinto zithuthuke. Amakati aqhutshwa ngephunga kakhulu, futhi ikati elishisayo lingacasula kakhulu umuntu ongathathi hlangothi.
Kungadingeka futhi ukwenza umsebenzi onokwethenjelwa, okokuqala ngekati lakho nomfowabo / umngane wakho, bese kuthi kamuva wenze ikati namanye amakati. Umqondo ngukuthi badla ndawonye - ngokwehlukana, kepha egumbini elilodwa noma endaweni. Kepha kufanele ubekezele kakhulu, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ubukeke uzolile ukudlulisa ukuzola emakati.
A ukubingelela.