Yini okufanele uyenze nekati lapho lifa

Lesi mhlawumbe esinye sezihloko engingathandi ukukhuluma ngaso, kepha esimweni sebhulogi lekati, kujwayelekile ukukhuluma ngakho konke okuphathelene nalezi zilwane ezinhle kakhulu. Yini okufanele uyenze nekati lapho lifa? Yiziphi izinketho esinazo?

Ngemuva kokumthanda isikhathi eside, ngemuva kokujabulela ukuba naye kanye nothando lwakhe, ukuphela kwakhe kuvame ukufika masinyane lapho singakulungele kangako. Futhi ukuthi, akekho umuntu ongakulungiselela ngokuphelele ukufa kothandekayo, futhi okuncane ukusho ukuvalelisa kokugcina.

Okufanele ukwenze lapho kufe ikati?

Akulula ukuvalelisa kumngane wakho onoboya. Sekuyizinsuku eziyi-X (cishe noma ngaphansi, lokho akunandaba) lapho benikhona nonke, lapho nihlanganyele khona izikhathi ezimnandi kanye nezinye ebezingakabi kangako. Ukuhleka nezinyembezi, izinkumbulo oyohlala uzigcina kwimemori yakho futhi ezizokuphelekezela lapho uya khona, noma yini eyenzekayo.

Lapho wazi ukuthi ikati lingakuthanda ini, awukwazi ukulikhohlwa. Kungakho kudingekile, ikakhulukazi kuwe, ukuqinisekisa ukuphela okuhle. Kepha, Lapho udokotela wezilwane emnika amandla, wenzani? Sinezinketho ezimbili:

• Kungcwabe: kungenzeka kuphela uma sinengadi noma ipulazi esinalo. Vele, ayinazindleko futhi futhi isivumela ukuthi sithi ukuvalelisa kuye ngejubane lethu.
• Shisisa it: kuyindlela okumele siyikhethe uma singenawo umhlaba wokuyingcwaba. Lokhu kunezindleko ezingahluka ngokuya ngenkampani ephethe. Uma sinquma ukuyishisa, kufanele siyise kudokotela wezilwane futhi uzonakekela konke (khansela i-microchip uma ibifakiwe, yazisa inkampani, ilungiselele isilwane). Ngeshwa, emazweni amaningi afana neSpain amakati amaningi ayashiswa ndawonye, ​​ngakho-ke ngeke kwenzeke ukubuyisa lezo zethukazi. Kwezinye, njengeParis, kungacelwa ukushiswa komuntu ngamunye.

Ngazi kanjani ukuthi ikati lami liyafa?

Amakati angena ezimpilweni zethu ngezindlela ezimangazayo. Ukuhamba kwakhe okuhle, imvamisa ngaphandle kokwenza noma yimuphi umsindo, leyo feline ibukeka siyithanda kakhulu, imows ecela ukutotosa noma ithini lokudla okumanzi ... Yonke le mininingwane iba yingxenye yempilo yethu yansuku zonke. Le mininingwane, kanye nobuntu onabo bonke uboya obunabo, busenza sibathande, ukuthi sizwe kunesidingo sokubavikela.

Ngakho-ke, ngokuxhumana nsuku zonke, siyakwazi ukubona ukuthi izimpilo zabangane bethu sezisesimweni sokugcina. Akusona isifo esijwayelekile lapho kunezimpawu, kancane noma kancane, kepha lapho izilwane zilulama khona ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa. Akunjalo. Lapho ukufa kwakhe kusondela, izimpawu zihlukile, nokuziphatha nakho:

• Ukunganaki
• Ukuzihlukanisa
• Akafuni ukudla, noma ngabe uphikelela kangakanani
• Uchitha usuku lonke ephumule noma elele
• Ubuhlungu obukhulu kakhulu emzimbeni
• Uma uthola ukwelashwa, kungenzeka ukhathele yikho
• Akabheki ama-caresses njengakuqala, kepha uyabazisa
• Ukwehla kwesisindo okukhathazeka ngokwengeziwe
• Akajwayele ukufika uma umbiza

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​noSusty

Ku-2018 elinye lamakati ami, uSusty, langena ekhaya lakhe. Nganginakho I-feline chronic stomatitis gingivitis, phambili kakhulu. Kakhulu. Kwaba 'isikhumba namathambo'. Ngendlela ebesizama ngayo ukuthi ayidle, amakani akhe okudla amanzi awathandayo, wafika ezingeni lapho ewalahla khona. Wayehlala phambi komkhombe, awubuke imizuzwana embalwa bese ehamba.

Sibe nesikhathi esinzima ukusamukela, kepha uSusty wayesesithathile isinqumo: wayengafuni ukuphila. Ngaphandle kokutotosa, imfudumalo yekhaya nokudla, lelo kati lalihlupheka kakhulu kangangokuba lalifuna ukuliqeda nje.

NgoMeyi 30 walowo nyaka, ngamyisa kudokotela wezilwane. Ngemuva kokuyihlola, nokukhuluma naye, nginqume. Wamhlabela. Ngemuva nje kokumjova, uSusty wangibuka emehlweni, wahlanza. Ngisola ukuthi bekuyindlela yakhe yokungibonga, ngoba yize amakati ehlanza lapho ezizwa esongelwa noma esezinhlungwini, nawo ayahlanza lapho ezwa kahle.

Yilapho i-duel yami yaqala khona.

Ungakunqoba kanjani ukufa kwekati?

Iqiniso ngukuthi, sengidlule kaningi kule duel, kepha akunakwenzeka ukwazi ukuthi le "duel" ezoba njani kuwe. Umuntu ngamunye ngumhlaba, futhi ngamunye wethu uyawunqoba ngendlela ehlukile. Ngakho-ke, ngingakutshela kuphela ukuthi yini engisebenzelayo, nengikufundile:

• Zama ukunamathela esimisweni sakho sansuku zonke: Ekuqaleni kungakubizela izinto ezishaqisayo, kodwa ngikholwe, ezikhathini ezinjengalezi, udinga ukuzinza ... futhi ukuqhubeka nemisebenzi yansuku zonke yinto ezinze kakhulu umuntu angaba nayo.
• Ivalelise ikati: kukhona labo abatshala okuthile engadini, noma bathenga isitshalo enkumbulweni yabo; abanye babanikeza umkhosi wokuvalelisa; abanye bathatha izithombe zabo, baye egumbini bodwa, babatshele konke okudingeka bakusho.
• Uma uyidinga, khala: susa leso sigaxa emphinjeni wakho uma usidinga. Khala konke onakho ukukhala. Lokhu kuzokwenza kube lula kuwe ukuthi udlulele phambili.
• Khuluma ngemizwa yakho nekati lakho: futhi cha, ngeke ube yisizungu. Abantu badinga ukukhuluma ngezinto ezisikhathazayo kanye / noma ukuthi, kulokhu, zisilimaze. Khuluma nabathandekayo bakho obathembayo; Bangase bangakuqondi, kepha okungenani bazobe bekhona lapho nawe.
• Zama ukungabi wedwa isikhathi eside kuze kube yilapho usugqamile: Ukunqoba usizi lapho indlu ingenamuntu, futhi / noma lapho ungaze uhambe ukuhlangabeza umndeni noma abangane, kungaba yinto ebuhlungu kakhulu.

Nginamakati amabili kanti eyodwa isishonile, ngenzenjani ngayo?

Lapho behlala ngaphezu kwekati elilodwa bese kufa eyodwa, okunye kuzoqonda kancane kancane. Ngokuqondile, ngo-2019 ikati lami uBenji lagijinyiswa (kusukela ngalolo suku kuqhubeke angivumeli noyedwa kulaba abathathu abasaphila ngaphandle, yize behlala endaweni ethule yedolobha). Wayeneminyaka emihlanu.

Bonke abanye basheshe bazi ukuthi kukhona okwenzekile. Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi la ma-fining ayakwazi ukubona igama lawo nelabo abahlala nabo endlini. Ngaphandle kwalokho, bazi kahle lapho singekho isikhathi esimnandi.

Ngobusuku bukaMashi 30 walowo nyaka, isimo ekhaya sashintsha. Amakati ahlala eceleni kwami, angigcoba emilenzeni yami, awu, ayenami. I-Bug, evame ukuba novalo kakhulu, ayingicelanga ukuthi ngidlale. Kwakungesona isikhathi. Futhi ngosuku olulandelayo akukho, noma okulandelayo.

Nginitshela konke lokhu ngoba elinye ikati noma amakati akho azolila nawe. Ngendlela yabo. Bangase bahoxe kancane, bayeke ukudlala, noma balahlekelwe ukuthanda ukudla kancane. Kuyinto evamile. Kumele uqhubeke nenqubo, bese uqinisekisa ukuthi bayadla. Amakati angahamba izinsuku ezimbili engadlanga (akuyona into yawo, kepha bekungeke kube kubi kakhulu uma ephuza amanzi okungenani), kepha uma usuku lwesithathu lufika futhi bengakhombisi isifiso sokondla, unganqikazi ukubonisana udokotela wezilwane.

Ngiyethemba ukuthi le ndatshana ikusizile wazi ukuthi yini ongayenza lapho ikati lifa nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nokulahlekelwa kwalo.

Isikhuthazo esikhulu.