Ikati belihlala nabantu cishe iminyaka eyizinkulungwane eziyishumi, kepha muva nje sesiqale ukuba nalo endlini usuku lonke, ngaphandle kokulidedela. Ngokungaxhumani nabangaphandle, kufanele ajwayele futhi ajwayele impilo yakhe nathi. Kwenza kahle kodwa kwesinye isikhathi ungadideka kakhulu ngoba asihlali sikuqonda kahle lokho afuna ukusitshela khona.
Yize abantu abaningi bezokwenza umzamo wokuqonda ulimi lwakho, kukhona abanye abangaluqondi. Lezi zokugcina yizo ezivame ukugcina zilimaze uboya, noma zibushiye. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi yini amaphutha enziwa lapho kuqeqeshwa ikati ukuzigwema ukuze umngani wethu ajabule.
Ungamphathi kahle (memeza futhi / noma umshaye)
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi ungenza izinto okungafanele uzenze, kepha akukho lutho oluthethelela ukuhlukunyezwa, akukho lutho. Uma eshaywa futhi / noma ethethiswa, okuzotholakala ukuthi ukhula ezwa ukwesaba abantu.
Unganiki uthando
Uma wake wezwa umuntu ethi ikati lizimele kakhulu alidingi muntu ... khohlwa. Ngokuzimisela le feline idinga ukunakekelwa nothando nsuku zonke, izikhathi eziningana ngosuku. Kungenzeka abe yedwa ekhaya isikhashana ephethe ukudla, amanzi nebhokisi lodoti olingajwayelekile, kodwa nakanjani uzokukhumbula.
Yivikele ngokweqile
Kuwubuwula ukunganikeli ngothando njengokuluvikela ngokweqile. Ikati kumele likwazi ukujabulela isikhala salo siqu, okuzokunika ukuzethemba nokuvikeleka ukuze ufunde izinto ezintsha futhi uphile impilo emnandi.
Kusetshenziswa ikati esikhundleni
Asikho isilwane okufanele sisetshenziswe esikhundleni. Ukulahlekelwa othandekayo kungokuhlangenwe nakho okusenza sizizwe sibi kabi, kepha ikati esililetha elisha ngeke lifane nalelo esilahlekile.
Injabulo yomngane wethu izoncika kulokho esikwenzayo ukumnakekela. Uma simphatha ngenhlonipho, ngokubekezela nangothando, uzokwazi ukuthi angasivuza kanjani.