Lapho ikati liphuma emnyango wendlu yalo, umuntu uhlala enokungabaza ukuthi uzobuya noma cha. Nami uqobo ngingakusho lokho Ngiyazi lapho esehambile, kepha anginaso isiqiniseko sokuthi uzobuya ngasiphi isikhathi. Uma ephuzile, uqala ngokushesha ukucabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi kukhona okumehlele, kepha iqiniso livame ukudlula inganekwane. Eqinisweni, kungenzeka ukuthi wayezijabulisa nabangane bakhe, ngoba naye, njengathi, unezidingo zomphakathi.
Noma kunjalo, lowo muzwa wokungakhululeki uhlala uvela, ukukhathazeka ngabathandekayo bethu abanoboya, ngoba vele, ukungabi naye asazi ukuthi ukuphi noma ubani amakati aqondiswe kahle.
Ukuphendula lowo mbuzo kufanele sikhulume ngezinto ezimbili: ama-pheromones nobuhlakani. I- pheromones Yizinto ezikhiqizwa ezihlathini zakho (ezinhlangothini zombili zomlomo wakho), kumaphakethe nakumchamo wakho. Ngalezi zinto isilwane ingazisa umhlaba wonke ngezinto eziningana, njengokuthi "le ndawo ingeyami", "ngiyakwethemba", futhi ibuye isebenzise lapho iseshushu, phakathi kwezinye izimo.
Umuzwa wokuhogela ukhule kakhulu kunokwethu, kuze kube sezingeni lokuthi bezwe ama-pheromones ezinye izilwane amamitha ambalwa ukusuka lapho, lapho-ke thina singaboni lutho 🙂. Ngale ndlela, angakwazi ukuxhumana kalula nezinye ezinoboya, futhi futhi aziqondise ngoba njengoba sazi ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esiningi ehlikihla izinto. Ngokwenza kanjalo, ulahla ama-pheromones akho. (Uneminye imininingwane ngale ndaba ku Lesi sihloko).
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ikati liyisilwane esihlakaniphile, yize ubuhlakani obungaphezu kokukusiza ukuthi uziqondise buwusizo kakhulu ekunqumeni ukuthi uzobuya noma cha. Ake ngichaze: uma enganakekelwa kahle ekhaya, uma enganakwa noma ephathwa kabi, uma ekwazi ukungena ngaphandle, kungenzeka angabuyi nangelilodwa ilanga. Ngalo mqondo, bafana kakhulu nabantu kunalokho esicabanga, ngakho-ke Kubalulekile - kufanele kuze kuphoqeleke - ukuthi ngaphambi kokuthola noma ukwamukela isilwane sazi kahle ukuthi singasinakekela nokuthi sinesifiso sangempela sokuba nalowo mthwalo.
Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho singenza khona isinqumo esifanele, ngoba noma singamkhipha, uma azi ukuthi uyanikezwa uthando ekhaya, singaqiniseka impela ukuthi uzobuya usuku nosuku.
Sawubona Monica, ngokusho kwakho, uma ubathanda futhi ubanakekela, babuyela ekhaya…. Nginolwazi lwabantwana bami ababili abangabahloli ngokuphelele. UBastet, omdala, waya endlini lapho sasivame ukuhlala khona cishe kathathu noma kane, kufanele siwele umfula njalonjalo ... ekuqaleni kwathatha isonto ukufika endlini yethu yangaphambilini ... ngokushesha nje lapho wasitshela ukuthi kukhona lapho esasizobheka khona, sagcina ukumkhumbula entathakusa nasemini umamezala wangishayela ucingo wangitshela ukuthi kukhona umuntu wami omnyama wamkhuza wamtshela ukuthi akusiyo indlu yakhe le ukuthi abazali bakhe babemlindile kwenye indlu futhi ebusuku wayesebuyile nathi .... kusukela lapho akaphumanga. Omunye uBambú omnyama uphume endlini ngeSonto ekuseni wangabe esabonakala kuze kube uLwesibili emini ... ngicishe ngafa ngoba bengingakaze ngikwenze ... kodwa wafika ephephile futhi ngicabanga ukuthi uzobe ezingela noma, njengoba usho , ubungazwe nabangani bakhe hahaha .... ihug yakho
Amakati ahlakaniphe kakhulu. Bazi kahle lapho bathandwa khona, futhi kulapho abazofuna ukuya khona. Ukwanga 🙂