Lowo ngumbuzo okade wazama ukunikeza impendulo enengqondo isikhathi eside. Futhi yilokho, Ngubani ongakaze ayibuze? Futhi ngubani ongayiphendulanga? Ngiyabona ukuthi ngingomunye wabantu abanemizwa, hhayi lokho kuphela, kodwa futhi ngiyayiqonda imizwa yethu.
Kepha-ke, ukwazi ngokuqinisekile kuyadingeka ukuyiphenya, okuyilokho kanye okwenziwa iqembu lososayensi abavela e-Oakland University (eRochester, eMichigan). Ngakho-ke ake sibheke ukuthi amakati anemizwa yini ... noma cha.
Ochwepheshe ababili be-psychology engqondweni, ukuhlolwa kwengqondo nokuziphatha okuthiwa uMoriah Galvan noJennifer Vonk, bafake iqembu lamakati esenzweni esifanayo: isenzo senjabulo nentukuthelo, kokubili ebusweni nasolimini lomzimba; ngokuthula nangamazwi. Ngakho-ke bathole umphumela ofanayo: Lapho ikati libona ukumamatheka kwalo kobuntu, likhombisa isimilo esihle.
Ukhombisa kanjani? Yebo, kuya ngocingo ngalunye. Ingahle ihlanze, ize kuwe ifune i-caress, noma ikhuphukele ethangeni lakho. Kepha, yebo, izosondela kuphela uma ungumnakekeli wayo ngempelangaphandle kwalokho kuzobe kungenandaba.
Noma kunjalo, akusona isizathu sokujabula, hhayi ngandlela thile. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, ikati lihlobanisa ukumamatheka nokwenelisa ... kepha kwabo, ngoba abantu bathambekele ekutotobheni abanoboya bethu kakhulu lapho sijabule, ngakho-ke uma simomotheka ikati lizokwazi ukuthi lizobhekelwa kakhulu.
Noma kunjalo, lokhu akushintshi lutho. Lesi yisilwane esizenza sithandwe, esivumela ukuthandwa, futhi esaziyo ukuthi kufanele siziphathe kanjani ukuqinisekisa ukuthi thina bantu sigcina sisinakekela njengenkosi noma indlovukazi 🙂.
Ungasifunda isifundo lapha (ngesiNgisi).