Ingabe amakati amabili abantu abadala angazwana?

Monica Sanchez

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Amakati abangane

Kuthiwa amakati ayizilwane ezihlala ezindaweni ezithile nokuthi, uma bekulokhu kungukuphela koboya obuhlala ekhaya, ngeke bamukele olunye uhlobo lwazo. Kodwa ingabe lokho kuyiqiniso? Lutho neze. Yebo, basendaweni enkulu kakhulu, kangangokuba kubo, indlu yakho empeleni iyikhaya labo, okufanele balivikele ngazo zonke izindlela kunoma ngubani ongena ngaphakathi, kepha ngokubekezela komuntu, bangenza ubungani namanye amakatikungakhathalekile ukuthi abesilisa noma abesifazane.

Uma kwenzeka ukuthi bobabili bangabesilisa noma bobabili besifazane, ngeke ngikukhohlise, kubiza okungaphezulu, kepha bangazwana.

Kunzima ukuthi "abesilisa banalo mlingiswa nabesifazane lokhu okunye", ngoba isilwane ngasinye sihlukile, sinobuntu nobunjalo baso. Kepha ngingakutshela lokho abesilisa bavame ukuba nokuthula kunabesifazane. Bayisifunda, futhi ngeke banqikaze ukuhlasela uma bebona kunesidingo sokuvikela okungokwabo, kepha yibo abavame ukwamukela elinye ikati kangcono.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amakati, yize ejwayele ukusebenza kakhulu, Futhi yibo abavame ukunika uthando olukhulu kulabo ababanakekelayo. Kepha kubiza kancane ukwamukela elinye ikati elidala, okuningi kakhulu kunalokho uma kungumdlwane.

Ikati labadala

Kunoma ikuphi, kufanele kulandelwe imihlahlandlela efanayo yokuxhumana nabantu, elandelayo:

  • Phakathi nezinsuku zokuqala - kungabi ngaphezu kwe-7, sizoba nekati elisha ekamelweni, ne-feeder yayo, isiphuzo sayo, umbhede, ibhokisi lodoti kanye nomata noma i-scraper.
  • Ngaleso sikhathi, sizobe sishintshana ngemibhede nsuku zonke, ukuze ngale ndlela bakwazi ukubona nokwamukela iphunga lomunye.
  • Ngemuva kwalesi sikhathi, sizokhipha ikati "elisha" futhi Sizoyibeka endaweni lapho enye ingabona futhi ihogele khona, kodwa ngaphandle kokuyithinta empeleni.
  • Uma konke kuhamba kahle, sizobayeka babe ndawonye egumbini lapho singakulawula khona. Uma kwenzeka kungahambi kahle, sizoqhubeka nokubavumela bahlangane kodwa singathinti isikhashana, baze bakhombise ilukuluku futhi bangakhali noma babhonge.

Kufanele ubekezele, kodwa ekugcineni sizobenza bazwane, uzobona 😉.


Shiya umbono wakho

Ikheli lakho le ngeke ishicilelwe. Ezidingekayo ibhalwe nge *

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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.

  1.   xavier kusho
    kwenza iminyaka 8

    Nginekati elinezinyanga eziyi-10 ubudala lekati elifishane laseRoma / laseYurophu elihlale nami kusukela linezinyanga ezimbili,
    futhi njengoba esehlanganise iminyaka engu-6 senginikeze amakati ayisithupha ikhaya kuze kube yilapho sengibathola ikhaya elihlala njalo,
    Okusho ukuthi, bahlala nami isikhathi esingangenyanga engu-1, abane kwakungabesifazane kuthi abangu-4 besilisa.
    Noma nini lapho ngangilandela umthetho olandelwayo ochazwe kule ndatshana, ukuzihlanganisa nabantu kwenzeka ezinsukwini ezingama-10 futhi kusukela lapho kuqhubeka baba ngabangane bokugembula, kanye ngezinsuku ezi-4 nje base bevele bengabangani, kepha ikati lami lisabaphendula njenge-reflex ye izinsuku ezimbalwa ezengeziwe.
    Lapho beya ekhaya labo lokugcina, inhliziyo yakhe idabuka, ubabheka yonke indawo, "angibuze" ngabo.
    Manje nginezinyane lekati elilahlekile elifike ezinsukwini ezi-3 ezedlule, ngambeka kuvulandi futhi bobabili bayanuka ngaphansi komnyango futhi bayabonakala ngengilazi, njengoba ehlala emqhweba ... kodwa ngabona kahle ukuthi wayejabule, ngoba uyazi ukuthi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa uzoba nomunye umngani azomluma, amkhahlele, aqabule yonke indawo, njll.
    Ngicabanga ukuthi kulokhu ngizohlala nomphathi omusha.

    Phendula xavier
    1.    UMonica sanchez kusho
      kwenza iminyaka 8

      Impela uzomjabulisa kakhulu 🙂

      Phendula uMonica Sanchez