Ikati yisilwane esifuywayo? Lowo mbuzo ungaba nempendulo ecacile kwabaningi, kepha kungokwemvelo ukungabaza, ngoba usagcina umlingiswa wakhe wekati wasendle noma ngabe uboniswa ngezikhathi ezithile kuphela.
Ngakho-ke, ingabe ngoboya obamukele imikhuba yabantu, noma yithina esikholwa ukuthi kwenzekile?
Umsuka wobudlelwano babantu
Kuze kube namuhla, labo abaphila nekati ngenjabulo (hhayi ngokuthanda) bazi kahle ukuthi lokhu kungokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle, ukuthi isilwane singathandana kakhulu futhi sibe mnandi, kepha futhi sinomlingiswa waso. Lapho senza okuthile ongakuthandi, njengokumphulula lapho ezizwa engavikelekile, kungenzeka ukuthi usishaye ngempama, usiklwebhe futhi / noma usilume kuya ngokuthi ushubile kangakanani ngaleso sikhathi.
Kepha naphezu kwalezi zimo, kunzima ukungamkhonzi, njengoba besilokhu sikwenza cishe iminyaka eyizinkulungwane eziyishumi. Vele, ngaleso sikhathi, behlala ngenkululeko futhi besondela kubantu ngoba babenezinqolobane lapho kwakukhona okusanhlamvu, okuheha amagundane… Ukudla kwesihlahla esincane.
Kamuva saqala ukumvulela iminyango yamakhaya ethu, kodwa kuze kube muva nje lapho samphoqa ukuba abe ngaphakathi kwezindonga ezine. Futhi kunengqondo: ukuhlala edolobheni kunezingozi eziningi, ikakhulukazi ngesilwane esinjengaye. Lolu shintsho lwenziwe nakanjani kuphakama isidingo sokumqonda ukuze sikwazi ukuxhumana kangcono naye, ngoba siyabona ukuthi ingcindezi, isithukuthezi nokukhathazeka yizinkinga ezijwayelekile kakhulu ikati elihlala nabantu elinalo.
Futhi kungani siya ezinkingeni ezingaka ukumenza aphile kahle? Kulula: ngoba sihlatshwe umxhwele ngokuziphatha kwabo, ubuntu babo. Esingahle sikwazi ukuthi ochwepheshe (izazi zokuziphatha, abelaphi) lapho bezokusiza, abakwenzayo ukubuka ukuthi ikati lihlala kanjani esimweni salo semvelo ukuze kutholakale inkinga.
Isizathu sicacile: ikati elilele kusofa alithambile. Noma hhayi njengenja, isibonelo. Ukube ubenjalo, bekungaba lula kakhulu kithi ukulungisa ukuziphatha kwakhe "okubi" (okungekubi, kepha kunokungaqondi).
Ngabe ikati lendlu ligcinani kwimvelaphi yalo yasendle?
Okungaphezu kokucabanga kwethu:
- Uhlamvu lwendawo oluqinile: ngeke uyivikele kuphela nsuku zonke, ushiye ama-pheromones ayo yonke indlu (eminye imininingwane yokumaka u-feline lapha), kepha futhi ungaba nenkinga enkulu ukwamukela ilungu lomndeni elisha.
- Ukuzingela kwemvelo: yisilwane esidlayo. Uzipho lwayo, amazinyo alo, amehlo alo, ukushesha kwalo. Konke kuklanyelwe ukucupha nokubamba inyamazane.
- Kusebusuku: okusho ukuthi iyasebenza kusihlwa.
- Yidla kaningi ngosuku: Uma unokufinyelela okungenamkhawulo ekudleni kwakho, lawula ukudla kwakho, ngoba endle ubungadla kaningana ngosuku ukuze uzenelise.
- Ufuna ukuba nobumfihlo: bobabili ukuze bazikhulule futhi bacindezeleke. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi sishiye ibhokisi lakho lodoti egumbini elinokuthula, kude namanzi akho kanye nokudla, nokuthi sibeke nombhede wakho ngokwesibonelo egumbini lethu lokulala, lapho ungaya khona noma nini lapho ukudinga.
Yebo yebo: ikati lifuyile umuntu 😉.