Enye yemicimbi exhalabisa abantu abaninzi yinto yokuba isithandwa sabo sibonisa ukungaziphathi kakuhle kubo okanye kwisalamane, kangangokuba bayazibuza wenzeni ngekati enoburharha.
Into yokuqala yokwazi kukuba zonke izizathu zibangela isiphumo, okanye kule meko sisabela. Ukuba sifuna ukuthintela uboya ekuziphatheni ngaloo ndlela, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba siyazi into ekukhathazayo.
Kutheni ikati ingaba nomsindo?
Ikati ngokubanzi inoxolo kakhulu. Iyazi amandla eenzipho zayo kunye namazinyo, kwaye izisebenzisa kuphela ngobundlobongela xa kufanelekile, oko kukuthi, kwezi meko:
- Ngexesha lokuzingela ukubulala ixhoba labo.
- Ngexesha lomlo "wokoyisa" okanye ukukhusela ummandla.
- Ngexesha lobushushu, ukuhlala nomntu obhinqileyo.
- Okanye ukuba ubomi bakho busengozini.
Kuyinyani ukuba xa ikati ihlala nabantu ngaphakathi endlwini, ayifuni kuzingela okanye ukulwa. Kodwa kuthekani ngenqaku lokugqibela? Nangona ngokuthe ngcembe siziqonda ngcono ezi zilwanyana, inyani yile Ngamanye amaxesha into yethu ngumdlalo olula, kubo isisongelo.
Makhe sicinge ngenkwenkwana encinci edlala nefeline. Banokuba nexesha elimnandi bobabini de inkwenkwe, enkulu kakhulu kwaye inzima kunesifazana, ibambe umsila wayo kwaye uyikhame. Ibuhlungu kakhulu ikati, kwaye isabela ngokuhlasela. Umntwana uyakhala, elumkisa abazali ukuba baya kukhetha ukutshiyela isilwanyana egumbini okanye, kwimeko embi, ukusishiya.
Unokwenza ntoni ngekati enobundlongondlongo?
Kubalulekile yiba nomonde kakhulu. Ukuba ikati iba ndlongondlongo, oko kukuthi, ukuba iinwele ezisemqolo nasemsila zimile, kwaye iyagquma kwaye iyarhola, kufuneka ishiywe yodwa. Awunakuze uzame ukumthoba ngokungathi ngumntu, oko kukuthi, ukumbamba ngengalo yakho kwaye umphulula, kuba kungenjalo siza kufumana ukukrola okungaphezulu kwesinye. Kuhlala kungcono ukuyivumela, emgangathweni kwaye ucango lwangaphakathi luvulekile ukuze uye naphi na apho ufuna ukuphumla khona.
Kwimeko apho unale ndlela yokuziphatha kuba uziva iintlungu, ezinjengaleyo unokuba nayo emva kwengozi, umzekelo, ukuba awukwazi ukushukuma, sizakuthatha itawuli enkulu-enkulu kakhulu esinayo-, siza kuyenza Songa kabini usonge isilwanyana kunye nayo; Kwimeko apho enokushukuma emilenzeni yakhe, siya kumtsalela kulowo uphetheyo simnike ukutya esikwaziyo kwangaphambili ukuba uyakuthanda, njengetoti yokutya kwekati emanzi, ityhuna entsha (engenkonkxiweyo) okanye inyama. Nje ukuba silawulwe, siya kwenza into ekufuneka siyenzile (simse kugqirha wezilwanyana, simnyange amanxeba kunye / okanye simnike iyeza).
Ungakuphepha njani ukungaziphathi kakuhle?
Ngomonde, intlonipho nothando. Akukho nanye kwezi zinto zintathu inokulahleka. Kuphela ngabathathu apho siya kufumana ikati ukuba ibe noxolo ngalo lonke ixesha. Njengabakhathaleli bakhe kufuneka sisebenzise ixesha esilichitha naye baqonde izijekulo zabo kwaye sizame ukuba aphile ubomi obonwabileyo nobonwabisayo ecaleni kwethu, ukunqanda ngamaxesha onke ukudlala ngezandla zethu kunye / okanye iinyawo ukuba asifuni ukuba asilume kunye / okanye asikrwempe njengomntu omkhulu. Umfanele.