Iikati zizilwanyana, ngokungafaniyo nathi, ikakhulu ezisebenzisa ulwimi lomzimba ukunxibelelana. Inyaniso, basebenzisa kuphela ulwimi oluthethwayo (meows) xa befuna ukuhoywa, umzekelo, xa befuna sibanike banako.
Nabani na ofuna ukuhlala nomnye wabo kufuneka akulungele ukunxibelelana nabo ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunendlela abaya kwenza ngayo nomnye umntu, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ukunika ubomi obumnandi ubomi, into eya kuba lula kuthi ukuyiphumeza ukuba siyazi ukuqonda njani ukuthambisa kwekati.
Ukuqonda ikati kufuneka sinike ingqalelo ngaphezu kwayo yonke imsila wayo, iindlebe zayo namehlo ayo.
Amakati umsila
Umsila lilungu lomzimba elinokuthi lisixelele okuninzi malunga nomoya womhlobo wethu. Kwelinye icala, ukuba isezantsi, kungenxa yokuba iphulukene nomdla. Kodwa kusekho okungakumbi: ukuba iphantsi kwaye icofa emhlabeni, okanye ihambisa kuphela incam yomsila wayo, kungenxa yokuba iziva ixinene okanye ingonwabanga.
Iindlebe zekati
Iindlebe zekati ezolileyo ziya kuhlala zikwindawo yesiqhelo, ekhululekile. Ukuba ubabiza okanye ubonakalisa umdla kwinto ethile, baya kubajikela phambili, nangona ukuba baziva bexinekile bazakubabuyisela umva, ngokungathi ulungiselela umlo onokubakho.
Amehlo ekati
Ukuba ikati yakho icela ukutofotwa, uyakubona ukuba amehlo ayo atshazekile kancinci, kodwa ukuba uwavule ngokubanzi, ajongisisile kwaye uneenwele ezinwele kunye / okanye ubonakalisa amazinyo, Ndincoma ukuba umshiye yedwa kwigumbi elinomnyango ovulekileyo njengoko evakalelwa ngumsindo kwaye angakukhathaza.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba uvule ngeendlebe zakho kwindawo ekhululekile, kungenxa yokuba ulula Ukujonga okungqonge yena.
Siyathemba ukuba sikuncedile ukuba uqonde izijekulo zoboya bakho 🙂.