Sonke thina sihlala neekati (okanye uninzi) sifuna okona kulungileyo kubo, ukuba bahlala ngoxolo ngaphandle kokukhathazeka nangaliphi na ixesha ngalo lonke ixesha abalichitha nathi. Siyayazi loo nto ngelishwa sinethuba lokuphila elifutshane kakhulu kuneli lethu, kwaye oko kufuneka bayonwabele iminyaka yabo konke abanako, nangaphezulu.
Ke ngoko, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba sihlale sizibuza ukuba yintoni ekufuneka siyenzile ukufezekisa loo njongo. Ke ndiza kukuxelela uyonwabisa njani ikati yakho.
Ngaphambi kokuba siqale, makhe ndikuxelele ukuba ikati nganye, isilwanyana ngasinye, lihlabathi. Asinguye wonke umntu othanda izinto ezifanayo. Kodwa kukho ezinye ekufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo xa ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba i-feline izolile kwaye iyonwabile, eyi:
1.- Awunakuze umbethe okanye umngxolise
Oku, nangona kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kusekho abantu abakholelwa ukuba ukuyiphatha ngale ndlela kuya kuyenza ikati iziphathe kakuhle, xa inyani yahlukile. Ngala manyathelo, ngezi zihlangu, Ekuphela kwento eza kufezekiswa kukuba i-feline iyakoyika.
Chitha ixesha kunye nayo kwaye uyonwabele ngokupheleleyo
Kuyatshiwo ukuba zizilwanyana ezizimeleyo, ezingakuthandi ukuhlala nabantu kakhulu, kodwa inyani kukuba ukuba uchitha ixesha kunye nekati yakho ukusuka kusuku lokuqala, uya kufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nawe. Kodwa lumka Kuya kufuneka usebenzise loo mathuba; Oko kukuthi, kuya kufuneka unxibelelane naye, kufuneka udlale naye, umphulule, umthobise, njl.
3. - Yinyamekele
Ikati ayifuni kuphela ukutya, amanzi nendawo yokulala, kodwa ifuna okungakumbi: indawo yokuziva uthandwa, ukhuselekile kwaye uzolile. Yintoni egqithisile, kubalulekile ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ngalo lonke ixesha egula.
Kungokufumana kuphela ikati eyonwabileyo ngokuhloniphana kunye nokuba nomonde.