Njengoko iminyaka ihamba, uboya bakho buya bukhula. Uyazi ukuba ukufa yinxalenye yobomi, kodwa usanqwenela ukuba loo mzuzu ungafiki, okanye ukuba ubuncinci ulibazisekile ... ixesha elide. Sonke siyayazi: abantu banethuba lokuphila ixesha elide kuneekati, kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukwahlukana nomlingane owabelana naye iminyaka eli-15, 18, okanye engama-23 yobukho bakho.
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, lo ngumbuzo esiwubuza wona kakhulu xa sihlala nesiswini. Kwaye sihlala sijonga impendulo esenza sonwabe, engqina ukuba singonwabela kakhulu izihlobo zethu. Ihlala ixesha elingakanani ikati. Umbuzo onzima esiza kuwuphendula kweli nqaku likhethekileyo.
Ndifunde kumaxesha amaninzi ukuba iikati ezihlala ngaphakathi ezindlini, ngaphandle kokungena ngaphandle, zinokuphila iminyaka engamashumi amabini, ngelixa abo banemvume yokuphuma uhambo bengadluli kwiminyaka emi-3-5. Njengakuyo yonke into, kuyaxhomekeka. Zininzi izinto eziza kugqiba ukuba ikati iphila ixesha elingakanani. Ukucinga kuphela malunga neengozi anokuhlangabezana nazo ebomini bakhe kuya kusithintela ukuba sazi ukuba singamhlala ixesha elingakanani na ecaleni kwethu, kuba ngelixa kuyinyani ukuba ikati esixekweni inethuba eliphezulu lokuqhushumba okanye ityhefu, ikati ehlala kwindawo yasemaphandleni kwaye inendlu apho inyanyekelwa khona inokuba nethemba elide.
Ke ziziphi izinto ezinempembelelo kuyo? Ndingazi njani ukuba ikati yam iya kuphila iminyaka emingaphi?
Imfuza
Ukuba namajoni omzimba aphilileyo kuya kukuvumela ukuba woyise izifo onokuthi uzive ubunzima ngaphandle kwengxaki enkulu. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye ezifa kwaye ezinokubangela ukungonwabi. Zezi zilandelayo:
- Hypertrophic cardiomyopathy: Esi sisifo esichaphazela iindonga zeentliziyo zentliziyo, ezibangela ukuba zijiye kwaye zenze kube nzima ukupompa igazi.
- Inkqubela phambili ye-retrophy atrophy: sisifo esiya sisiba mandundu esikhokelela ekungaboni kakuhle.
- I-seborrhea ephambili: Ayisiyonto imbi, kodwa iya kusinyanzela ukuba simhlambe rhoqo. Ukuba ubona ukuba ulusu lwakho luyabhabha kwaye lufihla amanqatha amaninzi, uya kujongana nemeko ye-seborrhea.
- Isifo sezintso sePolycystic: Ziyi-cysts ezibonakala esemncinci kwi-renal cortex, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha zizalisa umchamo. Bahlala bengunobangela wokusilela kwezintso, kwaye kule meko akukho lunyango.
Naliphi na ikati lalo naluphi na uhlobo-kubandakanya ii-mongrels- linokuba ngamaxhoba ezi zifo, kodwa kuyinyani ukuba iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zofuzo ezikhoyo, baya kuba nakho ukubasokola.
Unonophelo lwezilwanyana
Xa ekugqibeleni sizisa isilwanyana esitsha ebomini bethu, kuya kufuneka simse kugqirha wezilwanyana amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuqinisekisa ukuba impilo yakhe intle. Nokuba awusoze uphume endlwini, kuyacetyiswa kakhulu (enyanisweni, kunyanzelekile) ukufumana izitofu, ezizizo feline wegazi, panleukopenia, rhinotracheitis y ikhalicivirosis. Ezi zifo zingabulala, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuba zigonywe, okungenani, ngokuchasene nazo.
Esinye isihloko esingenakuyeka ukuthetha ngaso zenzakalise izilwanyana. Ngokukodwa ukuba uza kuba nokufikelela ngaphandle, kuya kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba indawo yeekati 'ezipheleleyo' inkulu kakhulu kunaleyo sele ityandiwe. Ukongeza, ukuthintela ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kunye nokuthintela umhlobo wethu ekubeni abandakanyeke kumlo oshushu, kufuneka simse kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze enze utyando.
Ukutya
Ukutya kubalulekile ukuze sikwazi ukuphila. Amakati, ekuqaleni, atya ezo zilwanyana azizingelayo: iimpuku, iintaka, izinambuzane ezithile ... Namhlanje, nabani na ofuna ukuhlala nenye yezi zilwanyana ezinoboya ujongene nale ngxaki ilandelayo: Ngaba ndimnika ukutya okanye ukutya okuluhlaza?
Ndiyacinga
Ukusukela ukuphela kwenkulungwane ephelileyo, ukutya kwaqala ukuthengiswa, okunokuthi komile okanye kumanzi. Iikati kuye kwafuneka ziqhelane nokutya olu hlobo lokutya, kuba kulungile kwaye kuyasebenza kuthi, kuba kufuneka sivule ingxowa kwaye sisebenzise. Kodwa ... Ngaba yinto yendalo kuye? Ewe, indalo, indalo ... ayisiyiyo, kuba akukho mntu uza kuzondla, umzekelo, iikati ezinkulu zaseAfrika, kodwa ewe Siza kufumana iimveliso zokutya okunesondlo kwaye kulula ukwetyisa isisu sabo.
Ngenxa yoku, kufuneka sazi ukuba zizidlo ezingqongqo, oko kuthetha ukuba batya inyama kuphela. Abakwazi ukwetyisa ukutya okuziinkozo, kwaye bahlafuna nje ingca ukuze bakhuphe into ebenze babi. Ukuqala koku, Singaqinisekisa ukuba umhlobo wethu utya ukutya okumnandi ukuba unepesenti ephezulu yenyama, hayi ngaphantsi kwe-70%. Eminye kufuneka ibe luhlaza kunye nemifuno, kodwa hayi ingqolowa okanye ingqolowa.
Ukuba asinakukwazi ukuyifumana, ukhetho olunye kukuba banike enye enepesenti encinci yerayisi Oko kukuthi, ngokuthetha, eyona nto incinci imbi kakhulu. Oku kutya kutshiphu kancinci (kunokuba malunga ne-35 ukuya kwi-40 ye-euro ngengxowa ye-10kg), kwaye zezona zilungileyo xa singenakho ukuchitha imali eninzi ekutyeni kwabo.
Ukutya okuluhlaza
Olunye ukhetho, olucetyiswa ngakumbi, kukumnika ukutya okuluhlaza. Olu hlobo lokutya lwaziwa njenge-BARF, esisigama segama Ukutya okuTyiwayo okungafanelekanga ngokwebhayiloji kwaye, ngelixa kuyabiza kakhulu, kunjalo eyona inezibonelelo ezininzi, phakathi kwabo:
- Iinwele ezimenyezelayo
- Amazinyo acocekileyo kwaye omelele
- Amajoni omzimba asempilweni
- Isimo esingcono
Iikati zingatya zonke iintlobo zenyama, kucetyiswa ngakumbi ukuba zinikwe amaphiko enkukhu kunye nenyama yomzimba. Unako ukumnika amathambo, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba zingavundlulwa kwaye zinobungakanani obungenakuginywa.
Nasekhaya?
Ubume apho isilwanyana sihlala khona bunokuba nefuthe elibonakalayo kwimpilo yaso. Ukuba ikhathazekile, iyaphathwa gadalala, okanye ayikhathalelwa, loo kati ingaphulukana nomnqweno wokuphila. Ngokuchasene noko, ukuba uyikhathalele njengoko kufanelekile, uyinika uthando oluninzi noxolo, uzinikezela kuyo, ntsasa nganye uya kuvuka ufuna ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi i-adventure ekulindele namhlanje.
Ke, sithathela ingqalelo yonke into esele sithethile ngayo, kwaye ngokusekwe kumava am okhathalelo lweekati, ndingatsho ukuba zizilwanyana eziya kuphila ixesha elide ukuba ziphile. Ndiyacacisa: Imfuza, uhlobo lokutya alunikwayo, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke, uhlobo lobomi alukhokelayo, luya kuthi ekugqibeleni luthathe isigqibo xa lifikile ixesha lokuba kuthi ndlela-ntle kuye.
Kukho iikati ezihamba ngaphandle kwaye zihlala ngaphezulu kweminyaka eyi-10, kwaye kukho ezinye, ngokuchaseneyo, ezisekhaya kwaye ngenxa yeengxaki zempilo, ziyafa emva kweminyaka emi-2. Ngoku, ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ikati ihlala ixesha elingakanani, ndiza kukuxelela ukuba ukuba nje isempilweni kwaye iyazikhathalela, ingadlula kwiminyaka engama-20. Ngokuqinisekileyo 🙂.
Yonwabela ukuba kunye naye logama nje ekunye nawe. Mnike uthando oluninzi kwaye uza kubona ukuba uya kuphila njani iminyaka emininzi.
Njengabantu, isitshixo sokuphila ixesha elide kukwimfuza yakho, ukutya, umsebenzi kunye nemeko yeemvakalelo.
Unokuba nemfuza elungileyo, kodwa ukutya okungalunganga, umthambo omncinci kunye neengxaki zovakalelo, unokuwuguqula ube ngumhlaza (olutshintsho lweeseli), ngokufutshane ukuba siqokelela ityhefu ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo kwaye ukuba asizisusi emizimbeni yethu, baya kugqiba basibangele isifo.
Abantu bafuna ukutya impilo, neekati. Ukuba siyabanyanzela ukuba batye esikubeka kubo, sichasene nobulumko bendalo bekati.
Bazingela iintaka, amahobe, iimpuku, njl. Akukho nasinye kwezi zilwanyana esinamafutha amaninzi "amabi" anokuthi iphiko lenkuku likhuliswe kwikheyiji ngaphandle kokuhamba kunye nokutya okungalunganga.
Ndiyeke iikati zam ukuba zikhethe okona kutya bakuthandayo, kuba ngabo abayiqondayo kwaye bayazi ukuba yeyiphi eya kubafanela.
Luluvo lwam, kodwa andizukuyinika ikati ityebile, namathambo.
Ukuhlonipha inyama engama-70% ekutyeni kwakho, okuseleyo kunokuba yimifuno kunye nokutya okuziinkozo. Ukuba iimveliso zexabiso lokutya zibalulekile kwaye zibiza kakhulu, kungenxa yokuba zichanekile.
Imeko yeemvakalelo ibaluleke kakhulu. Amakati abuthathaka kakhulu. Naluphi na utshintsho luyabachaphazela.
Ndiphawule ukuba ikati yam inengxaki emlonyeni wayo, khange itye, iginye amathe, ikhuphe ulwimi ... njl.
Ewe, andinakumnika ipilisi yokubulala iintsholongwane. Ndizamile ukuyixuba ngeendlela ezahlukileyo ngokutya okwahlukileyo kwaye xa ndinuka iyeza liza kubuyela umva ngathi, uyayitya le nto.
Ndandifuna ukumnika ngesirinji kodwa ndamnika kube kanye, kwaye umyeni wam wafumana ukukrwela okuhle, okulandelayo yayikukuba; Awusandithathi. Uyikati eqokelelwe esitalatweni, kwaye yomelele kakhulu, senditshilo ukuba ufuna imithamo emibini yokuphelisa iintlungu ukujonga emlonyeni wakhe.
Ewe, bendicinga ukuba amazinyo akhe ebengekho phambi kokuba ndimzise ekhaya kwaye akukho nto igwenxa, kutshintshe ntoni? imeko yakhe phambi "komhlambi" ukuba emva koko bonke ngabantwana bakhe.
Kutshanje ndiye ndamteketisa kakhulu, ndimtyisile ngokwahlukeneyo, okokuqala, okona kulungileyo, khange ndimgwebe ukuba unike abantwana bakhe (ngaphandle kokubenzakalisa) ukuba bayamkhathaza, njl. Ndimyekile ukuba akholelwe ukuba wayesenguye "ukumkanikazi" wendlu.
Kwaye iyasebenza. Akangxameli, akalukhuphi ngaphandle ulwimi, ubuyile wazothetha nam, njalo njalo.
Ingakholeleki inguquko yekati yakho 🙂. Banokuphuma ekubeni 'sisilo' sokwenyani baye, ubuncinci ekwamkeleni, ubukho kunye nokhathalelo lomntu. Enye yeekati ezikweli kholoni ndilikhathaleleyo ihambe 'notshintsho' olufanayo: xa ndambona okokuqala wayenenyanga ezimbini ubudala, kwaye… wayemangalisa kakhulu. Ingangxola, ifuthe, kwaye ikulume nokuba ufuna ukuyichukumisa. Ngexesha lesidlo sasemini waba ligqabi ngumsindo, de wafikelwa ngumsindo kubantakwabo.
Njengoko iintsuku zihamba, ngakumbi iinyanga, wabamkela ubukho bam, kuba wayendixelela "kulowo uphethe ukutya." Kancinci kancinci, wandiyeka ndasondela kuye. Kwaye ngolunye usuku ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba lixesha lokuba ndimthambise, kodwa njengomntu ongayifuniyo loo nto. Into eyandothusayo kukuba angacaphuki; ke kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezizayo bendiqhubeka ndimphulula ngaleya ndlela.
Ngenye imini yayinguye oweza ngapha, wandiphulula emlenzeni wam. Wayeqale ubudlelwane bobuhlobo.
Amakati akrelekrele kakhulu, kwaye ukuba uyawathanda ... ixesha lawo lokuphila liya kuba lide. Ngokuqinisekileyo.
Ikati yam kuye kwafuneka ihambe kakhulu, njengoko benditshilo ukuba inamava empumlweni nasemlonyeni. Kwaye imihlathi, engacingi ukuba iwele ngokwabo.
Kulunge kakhulu, kuba xa onwabile, uyabulisa kwaye "athethe" kakhulu ngezandi zethumbu, kwaye umhle, ngumxube ongaqhelekanga. Namhlanje sele endamkele kwaye andibulisile xa ndingena endlwini, uphucule kakhulu, kwaye kuphela ngothando olongezelelekileyo.
Amakati abuthathaka kakhulu, ezi kati ziqale zabonisa amazinyo ethu, boyika nje, kwaye ibiyindlela yokuzikhusela, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo bazifumene bekwimeko ethile eyoyikisayo.
Ndiyibonile indlela abayikhuthaza ngayo inja ukuba ihlasele ikatana abayityisayo, ndiye ndafunda ukuba babulala ikati kunye nabantwana bayo ngeentonga, bafaka ityhefu yenkukhu yam kwaye bayophula umlenze, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokukhaba (ndikwazile ukunyanga Zimbini zohlaselo, ezazikwangelo xesha linye, ilindle lakhe lalipeyintwe luhlaza kwaye linuka ikhemistri, isikhukukazi kwakufuneka singasebenzi, kwaye wasondla, wasicoca, njengale ntsuku zingama-40, kuthatha ithambo ukuphilisa) .
Kukho abantu ababi kakhulu. Ngethamsanqa, kukwakho nabantu abalunge kakhulu abahloniphayo zonke izinto eziphilayo.
Unyanisile. Kukho abantu abangazihloniphiyo izilwanyana kwaye abenza unothanda ngazo… Ngethamsanqa, izinto ziyatshintsha, nangona kucotha kancinci kunokuba besingathanda.