Njengoko sixoxile kwi Oku kubhaliwe, ukuzivocavoca iikati kubaluleke kakhulu, kungekuphela kwempilo yomzimba, kodwa nakwimpilo yengqondo. Kwaye kukuba nabo ekhaya ngaphandle kokwenza nantoni na imini yonke, kubuhlungu kakhulu kuba bayadikwa ngoko nangoko, bayadana kwaye kulapho baqala khona ukuba nokuziphatha esingakulindelanga, njengokuluma kunye / okanye ukukrwela kuthi, okanye ukuzikhulula ngaphandle kwetreyi.
Ngoku, singadlala njani nabo? Ukuba unamathandabuzo, ndiza kukuxelela malunga ukuzilolonga iikati zasekhaya ukuze nobabini nibe nexesha elimyoli kunye noboya bakho.
Ikati »ngaphakathi»
Iikati ezihlala ezindlwini ubomi babo bonke, ngaphandle kokuphuma ngaphandle kwayo nantoni na ngaphandle kokuya kugqirha wezilwanyana, ziya kufuna ukuba sibancede bonwabe, kuba inkuthazo enokufumaneka ngaphandle ayinakufunyanwa ngaphakathi. Ngoku, oko akuthethi ukuba abanako ukonwaba ngokufanayo, kodwa baya kuyenza ngokwahlukileyo. Njani? Umzekelo:
- Siza kubeka amashalofu ahlukeneyo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, Eminye isongelwe ngentambo yeraffia, abanye ngamalaphu agxothiweyo, abanye abananto. Ezi zilwanyana ziyakuthanda ukusibona sivela phezulu, ke ezi shelufu ziya kuba luncedo kakhulu, kuba sinokuzisebenzisa ukubeka i-feeder yazo kwaye ke sizinyanzele ukuba senze umthambo omncinci.
- Siza kukubonelela ngesikratshi esinye okanye nangaphezulu. Enye yazo icetyiswa kakhulu ukuba ibe ngumthi okrwemayo, oko kukuthi, ukufikelela eluphahleni. Ngale ndlela, banokutsiba, babukhali iinzipho zabo kwaye badlale kunye ngokulula ngakumbi.
- Siza kubanika izinto zokudlala. Kodwa lumka, ezi zinto zokudlala akufuneki zilele phantsi, kufuneka sizichonge kwaye sidlale ngazo: ziphose ukuze zikwazi ukuzichola, zihambise ukuze zikwazi "ukuzingela" intambo okanye isilwanyana esifakiwe , zifihle ndaweni ithile kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba bazikhangele… Siya kuyenza kathathu ngemini (kusasa, emini nasemalanga). Kwimeko apho umntu etyebe kakhulu, iiseshini zomdlalo ziya kuba zinde kodwa zibe mfutshane (malunga nemizuzu emi-5).
Ikati »ngaphandle»
Amakati aphuma ngaphandle, nasegadini, Isidingo sokuphonononga banelisekile. Ngoku, kubalulekile ukuba, kuqala, babe njalo utheniwe phambi kokuba baphume okokuqala, kwaye okwesibini banxibe intsimbi yomqala enepleyiti yokuchonga into enokwenzeka.
Ngokunjalo, ngalo lonke ixesha begoduka, nangona kunokwenzeka ukuba bafike bediniwe, ukuba sibona ukuba bayoyika kancinci okanye bakufutshane nezinto zabo zokudlala, kufuneka sibamemele ukuba badlale, kwimeko efanelekileyo.
Siyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe 🙂.