Kutheni ikati yam ilele ezingubeni zam

Ikati ineendlela ezininzi zokusixelela ukuba usikhathalele kangakanani kwaye enye yazo kukuma ezingubeni zethu ukuze ulale. Akakhathali kangako ukuba siyifuna kanye loo bhatyi, ulala kuyo kwaye ukuba sizama ukuyisusa ... ngokunokwenzeka uya kuziphatha njengoboya obonakeleyo 🙂.

Kodwa wakhe wazibuza ukuba kutheni ikati yam ilele phantsi kweempahla zam? Inebhedi yayo, isofa, kunye nezinye iikona ezininzi zokulala. Kutheni ukhetha iimpahla zomntu wakho?

Ivumba lomfazi, ngaphezulu kakhulu kunengqondo

Impendulo yalo mbuzo inokwenza okuninzi noluvo lwefeline. Iphuculwe ngakumbi kunelethu-ngakumbi, ibona amavumba ahlukeneyo ali-14 ngcono-ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba kungabinzima kuwo ukubona ivumba lomzimba elikhutshwa zizo zonke izilwanyana. Ukususela ngosuku lokuqala ufika ekhaya, uyaliqhela ivumba lethu, kwaye xa ekugqibeleni eziva ekhuselekile xa ekunye nathi, uyayinxibelelanisa loo vumba kunye nokhuseleko kunye nentembelo.

Ke, xa sitshintsha iimpahla zethu, uboya buthatha ithuba elincinci lokuhlala kuwo. Yintoni egqithisile, Ukuba kufuneka simshiye iintsuku ezimbalwa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba simshiyele iingubo esizisebenzisileyo ukuze azole side sibuye.

Ilungu likaJacobson, ikati "impumlo yesibini"

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhe wayibona ikati yakho yenza ubuso obungaqhelekanga ngomlomo wayo, uyivule kancinci, unuka nje into entsha (umzekelo, isandla sakho emva kokubetha enye ikati). Oku kungenxa yokuba kanye emlonyeni wakho, ngasemva kwamazinyo akho angaphakathi, unento eyaziwa ngokuba lilungu likaJacobson okanye ilungu lomhlanzo, zizikhwama ezibini ezigcwaliswe lulwelo ezidityaniswe kwisisu.

Izilwanyana ezininzi zinazo, ezinjengeenyoka, kwaye ziluncedo kuzo kuba siyabulela ngazo ungaziva kakuhle kwaye uchonge amavumba ahlukeneyo. Njengamarhamncwa, kubalulekile ukuba ube nevumba eligqibeleleyo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iifeline ngokubanzi kunye neekati esabelana nazo iminyaka eliqela yobomi bethu ngokukodwa zinomdla okhangayo.

Iipheromones, "zinevumba" ezenza imiyalezo

Iikati, njengezinye izilwanyana, zivelisa ii-pheromones, eziyimichiza eziyikhupha kwezinye iinxalenye zemizimba yazo kwaye xa sele zikhutshiwe zichaphazela indlela yokuziphatha kwezinye ezinoboya. Kwimeko yabaphambili bethu, bahlelwa ngokweendidi ezininzi:

• Iipheromones zothando: zezi zibanceda babe nokuzola ngakumbi kwaye baphumle. Bayakhululwa ebusweni, yiyo loo nto behlala behlikihla ubuso nxamnye nabantu ababathandayo.
• Indawo / ukumakisha iipheromones: zezi zivumela ukuba zichonge indawo yekati. Ziyakhutshwa emchameni, kodwa nangemilenze xa zikrwela, umzekelo, imiboko yemithi.
• Uxinzelelo lweepheromones: zezabo ezifihlakeleyo xa ziziva zixinekile okanye zixakekile, njengaxa sisiya kugqirha wezilwanyana umzekelo.
• Iipheromones zesini: ziyakhutshwa kumchamo ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Banxulumana nenzondelelo. Xa ikati ithenwa, oko kukuthi, xa kususwa amadlala okuzala, isilwanyana siyayeka ukufihla ezi pheromones kuba ishiywe ingenamadlala azivelisayo.

Nokuba luphi uhlobo lwe-pheromone oyifihlayo ngalo mzuzu, nasiphi na esinye isilwanyana esazalwa sinoJacobson Organ siya kuba nakho ukusibona. Unolwazi oluthe kratya malunga nokumakisha kwe-feline kule khonkco:

Inqaku elidibeneyo:

Konke malunga nokumakisha

Ukuba unomdla, kwaye okomzuzwana, abantu abakwazi ukuzibona ezi "vumba", ubuncinci bengazi (sinelungu lomhlanzo, kodwa iyancitshiswa kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ngokuhamba kwendalo kuya kuthi shwaka, okanye bothusa oososayensi bexesha kwaye babe luncedo.

Kutheni ikati yam iba ndlongondlongo okanye ibe ndlongondlongo xa ndibuya kugqirha wezilwanyana ndikunye nolunye usana lwam?

Oku kukuphendula okuqhelekileyo. Uhlala neekati ezimbini (okanye nangaphezulu), uthatha enye uye kugqirha wezilwanyana kwaye xa ubuya abanye baba ndlongondlongo kancinci okanye, kwimeko embi, banogonyamelo olukhulu kuye. Ngoba? Ngenxa yoko besikuthethile ngaphambili malunga neepheromones. Ngexesha lotyelelo kwingcali Ikati iya kuba noxinzelelo kwaye ixinekile, kwaye umzimba wayo awuzukukhupha nje kuphela iipheromones zoxinzelelo, kodwa neepheromones zezinye izilwanyana ziya kuba 'zincamathele' kuboya ukuba bebelapho, ngaphandle kokubala ivumba leeklinikhi zonyango okanye ezibhedlele (amayeza nabanye).

Xa ndifika ekhaya ivumba lomzimba lale kati lahlukile; Ayisiyo eyabo, kodwa ngumxube wamavumba ezinye iikati ezisendlwini abangazazi. Ewe, ungatsho ukuba ikati ebikhe yasekliniki ayaziwa kwaphela kwabo basekhaya. Kwaye xa iikati ezimbini ezingazaniyo (ngokomgaqo) zihlangana endaweni evaliweyo, kwenzeka ntoni? Ewe, zininzi izinto ezinokwenzeka:

• Inye, ukuba emva kokunukelana baba ngabahlobo.
• Isibini, ukuba emva kokunukelana bayacaphuka balwe.
• Okanye ezintathu, ukuba umntu ngamnye ahambe indlela yakhe.

Ukuba enye okanye ezintathu zenzekile ngekhe kubekho ngxaki, kodwa kuba ezimbini zimbi kakhulu, into endikucebisa kakhulu ukuba ndiyenze kukushiya ikati ebisezilwanyana kwigumbi kude kube lusuku olulandelayo. Ngale ndlela, ungasusa lonke uxinzelelo, lonke elovumba lingathandekiyo, kwaye ungabuyela kunye namaqabane akho ekati ngaphandle kwengxaki.

Kwaye ukuba ngekhe ubanqande ekulweni, bazise kwakhona, ngokungathi abazani kwaphela, bathatha elinye baya nalo kwigumbi lokulala, belishiya apho kangangeentsuku ezintathu kwaye betshintshiselana ngeebhedi. Ewe kubalulekile, zama ukunika inani elifanayo lothando kubo bonke abantu ukuze bazive bonwabile.

Ikati sisilwanyana esinomtsalane kwaye sinobuhlobo ngakumbi kunokuba kubonakala. Awuluthandi utshintsho, kodwa uyathanda ukuba umnakekeli wakho akunike ingqalelo nothando olukufaneleyo. Basixelele ukuba uzimele geqe, kodwa thina sihlala naye siyayazi into ayonwabisayo xa ekunye nosapho.

Ukuhlala nenye yazo ngamava amangalisayo, apho sinokufunda okuninzi malunga nathi nangobomi. Yintoni engaphantsi kokumhlonipha nokumvumela ukuba onwabe.