Xa sijonga ukwamkela uboya besibini Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sizibuze ukuba ukuhlala kunye kweekati ezimbini ekhaya kunokwenzeka, kuba nangona kungekho zingxaki ngokubanzi, oku akuthethi ukuba asinakuba nazo thina.
Zininzi izinto ekufuneka sizithathele ingqalelo ngaphambi kokwenza into. Ke ngoko, kweli nqaku ndiza kukunika iingcebiso ukuze uzenzele esona sigqibo sihle.
Ngaba iikati ezimbini zingahlala kunye endlwini enye?
Impendulo ithi… hambisa. Kwaye kuxhomekeke entwenini? Ewe, kuko konke oku:
- Iminyaka yekati xa yahlulwe kunina: iimazi ezisebenzisa iinyanga ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu kunye noomama zihlala zilunge ngakumbi kunalezo zilunyulwe kwangethuba, kuba umama wazo ukwazile ukubafundisa yonke into abayifunayo ukuze babe zizilwanyana ezizolileyo.
Kwelinye icala, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba okukhona bebadala, kokukhona kuya kubanzima ngakumbi ukubenza babanyamezele. - Ixesha lentlalontle lekati: ukuba iikati bezinxibelelana nabantu kunye nezinye iikati ngokufanelekileyo ukusuka kwiinyanga ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu ubudala, ngekhe zibenangxaki nazo kwixa elizayo.
- Ikati: kukho ii-feline ezizolile kakhulu kwaye zinesithukuthezi, kwaye kukho ezinye ezothusayo kunye nokudlala. Abokuqala baya kuphila ngcono ekubeni ziikati ezizodwa, le yokugqibela iya kukuxabisa ukuba nomhlobo oza kudlala nayo.
- Casa: indlu kunye nosapho oluhlala kuyo kufuneka zilungiselelwe iikati. Oku kuthetha ukuba i-feline kufuneka ibe nokukrwela iiposti, iithoyi, igumbi elisebenza njengendawo yokuhlala, iibhokisi zesanti ezahlukeneyo, kwaye ke abanye abantu abadlala nabo mihla le nabakhathalele impilo yabo.
Ungabenza njani ukuba bamkelwe?
Kule nto kufuneka ube nomonde omninzi, kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke uzolile kwaye wonwabe. Iikati ziyazi kakuhle indlela esivakalelwa ngayo, kwaye ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa zikwabamba iimvakalelo zethu ngokulula. Ke Kuya kufuneka uzame ukuba sere, kwaye ulandele eli nyathelo ngenyathelo:
- Into yokuqala yokwenza kukusa ikati "entsha" kwigumbi apho unokutya khona, amanzi, ibhedi kunye nebhokisi yakhe yenkunkuma. Sizakubeka ingubo phezu kwebhedi, kwaye sizakubeka enye kwiikati "ezindala".
- Kwiintsuku ezimbini okanye ezintathu ezizayo, siza kutshintsha iingubo.
- Ngomhla wesithathu okanye wesine, siya kubazisa, ukuba kunokwenzeka ngokubeka ngaphambili isithintelo somntwana phakathi kwezi zimbini. Siza kubeka isidlo esimnandi kumntu ngamnye, kwaye siza kucela isizalwane - esihlala endlini - ukuba siphathe ikati "endala" ngelixa sisenza okufanayo "entsha." Yiyo loo nto izilwanyana ziya kudibanisa ubukho belinye ikati kunye nento elungileyo: caresses.
Sikwenza oku kangangeentsuku ezi-5 okanye ezi-6. - Ukusukela ngeveki ukuya phambili, sisusa isithintelo kwaye sibavumele baphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo. Ukuba bayarhona akukho nto ixhalabisayo. Siza kungenelela kuphela xa kukho inzame yokwenene (ukujonga ngokungaguquguqukiyo, iinwele ezigudileyo, ukugquma), kodwa oku ngekhe kwenzeke ukuba sichitha ixesha neekati zombini, sidlala nazo kathathu ngemini kangangemizuzu eli-15 ukuya kwezi-20 ixesha ngalinye kwaye ukuba sibanika isithandwa ngokufanayo.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ilungile. 🙂