Kutheni iikati zifihla?

Zininzi iikati apho bayathanda ukuzifihla, le Ukuziphatha kuqhelekile kuzo, nangona sinokuzibuza ukuba kutheni iikati zifihla? Iikati zintsonkothe ​​kangangokuba azisokuze ziyeke ukusothusa ngokuziphatha kwazo, esinye sezizathu zokuba zifihle kungenxa yokuba zifuna indawo kwaye indawo apho kungekho mntu ubafumanayo kwaye ebaphazamisayo.

Kungenzeka kwakhona ukuba ekhaya kukho abantu ongabaziyo okanye abantu abangaziyo kwaye bakhethe ukuzifihla kude namehlo 'abangeneleli'Kwaye bafana nabantu abathi ngamanye amaxesha bafuna ukunyamalala 'kwimephu' ukuze bangaphazamiseki. Sisenzo esiqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo, ke ngoko akufuneki sikhathazeke ukuba ikati yethu iyazifihla amaxesha ngamaxesha.

Kutheni kwaye bazifihle phi?

Kukho amaxesha apho ikati iziva ingakhuselekanga kwaye ifuna nokuzifihla. Fumana indawo yokuhlala kwaye uza kuphuma xa uziva ukhuselekile kwakhona. Kwakhona, ukuba uqaphele ukuba ikati yakho ifihlile, uya kuhlala esenza njalo kwindawo apho yena engalahli umbono wokuba akwazi ukujonga.

Iindawo onokufihla kuzo? Bayayithanda i iindawo ezithambileyo ezifana neengubo kunye neeraga. Abanye bayakwazi nokungena phakathi kwamashiti ebhedi, indawo yokufihla ngobuchule kuphela ukuba uya kusoloko ubona i-bulge. Iibhokisi, ezingena kwikhabethe phakathi kweempahla, ziindawo abaqhele ukujonga ukuzifihla kuzo.

Iikati zithanda ukuphakamaKe ngoko, ungothusi ukuba ikati yakho ikhwela ngaphezulu kwekhabethe, ukuba iyakwazi ukuyenza, okanye nakweyiphi na ifanitshala ephezulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba igcine igumbi lonke kunye nolawulo.

Kufuneka silumke nje ukuba ezo ndawo uzifihlayo uzifunayo aziyongozi kubo. Ke ngoko, ukuba ubona ukuba ikati yakho inyamalale ngenye imini, mfowunele umfune ngokungathi ubudlala umfihlelo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyifumana kwindawo engaqhelekanga ngokupheleleyo.

Kutheni iikati zifihla xa zigula?

Xa ikati igula kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba azimele ekoneni apho angenakuphazanyiswa khona. Oku kunjalo ngenxa yesimo sokuphila. Kwaye, nangona ekhaya engekho sengozini, ukuba namhlanje uqhubekile nokuhlala phesheya, kuya kufuneka enze konke okusemandleni ukuze abo bamhlaseleyo bangamboni okanye bazive bebuthathaka.

Omnye wemithetho yendalo kukuba kuphela ezona zinamandla, ezona zilungelelanisiweyo ezisindayo. Abanye bayatshabalala. Ngesi sizathu, kwakamsinya nje ukuba impilo yayo ibe buthathaka, i-feline iya kujonga indawo enokuphumla kuyo kwaye iphinde ibuye ide iphucuke.

Kutheni iikati zifihla phantsi kwebhedi?

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyoyika, Njengokuba umtsha ekhaya, okanye xa uxhatshazwa yenye ikati, inja ... okanye umntu. Kungenzeka nokuba uyagula, okanye ufuna ukuhlala apho uphumle.

Njengoko ubona, kukho izizathu ezininzi ezinokubakho, ngenxa yoko akukho yimbi ngaphandle kokwazi okwenzekileyo, kutheni kwaye, ukusuka apho, uncede ikati xa kukho imfuneko.

Ikati yoyika ngaphandle kwesizathu

Ikati ayinakothuswa ngaphandle kwesizathu, ngendlela efanayo umntu okanye nasiphi na esinye isilwanyana esingayi kuba yiyo. Kwenzeka ntoni kwezi meko kukuba usapho lomntu alwazi ukuba kutheni kunje.

Ukuba sihlala nekati enje, eyoyikisayo okanye enentloni, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ikhe yadlula kwixesha elidlulileyo, ayifumani lonke ukhathalelo oludingayo (ukongeza kwiziseko, uthando kunye nentlonipho), intsha indlu, okanye ngenxa yokuba sisilwanyana esimilo eso sikuso.

Kuxhomekeka kwisizathu, kuya kufuneka ukuba wenze ngendlela eyahlukileyo okanye enye. Umzekelo:

• Ubunzima bexesha elidlulileyo: iikati eziphethwe kakubi, ezilahliweyo, ... ke, ziye zanexesha elibi, nokuba ziya kudlula kwizandla ezilungileyo kakhulu, zihlala zifuna ixesha elide ukuze ziphinde zichache. Kodwa ngentlonipho enkulu, umonde nothando (kunye nokunye ukuphatha ikati 😉) iziphumo ezintle ziyafezekiswa.
• Awufumani lonke unonophelo olufunekayo: Iikati zizinto eziphilayo, kungoko ke zidinga amanzi kunye nokutya, kodwa nendawo ekhuselekileyo nefanelekileyo yokuhlala. Ukuba indawo yakho ayihlonitshwanga, ukuba ulwimi lomzimba wakho aluhoywanga, ukuba awuhoywa, okanye ukuba unyanzelwe ukuba wenze into ongayifuniyo, unokuba ngumkhenkce, ke masikuphephe
• Intsha ekhaya: ukuba yamkelwe kutshanje, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ifihle nakweyiphi na ikona yendlu. Kancinci kancinci, njengoko ufumana ukuzithemba, kuya kuphuma. Masikhe siyinike ixesha.
• Kuyothusa kukodwa: Ngamanye amaxesha sidibana neekati ezinyanyekelwa kakuhle kodwa zineentloni okanye zityhafile. Umzekelo, iikati zam ezimbini zinje. Bazimela xa kufika umntu ongaziwayo, kwaye akukho nto yenzekayo. Into kuphela kukuba kwezi kati kufuneka ulumke ngakumbi ngeengcango kunye neefestile; bayeke bavalwe ngci.

Ikati yam eyamkelweyo iyafihla, yinto eqhelekileyo?

Ngokupheleleyo. Ude ashiye ngasemva ivumba lomzimba wakhe (elihlikihla emzimbeni wakhe nakwifenitshala njalo njalo) kwaye ade aqale azive ekhuselekile kwikhaya lakhe elitsha nakwintsapho yakhe entsha, uya kuhlala ezifihlile.

Njengoko iintsuku okanye iiveki zihamba, uya kumbona ezithemba ngakumbi.

Ikati yam ifihla kwaye andiyifumani, ndenza ntoni?

Ngubani ongazange angene ekhayeni lakho elindele ukufumana ikati emva komnyango kodwa edanile? Eyona nto imbi kukuba xa umbiza ephindaphinda akayiphenduli. Emva koko uqala ukukhangela yonke into: phantsi kwefanitshala, ezitulweni, ngaphakathi ekhabhathini, ... kodwa akukho ndlela yakuyifumana.

Ukwenza? Ngala matyala eyona nto ikhawulezayo kukuthatha itoti yokutya kwekati emanzi, kwaye umbize ngelizwi elichwayitileyo. Into endiyenzayo ithi: »itoti encinci, ngubani ofuna itoti encinci? Ewe, »latita» ligama lomlingo 😉. Ukusuka ekuthetheni okungako, khange kube nzima kubo ukudibanisa elo gama nokutya okumanzi endibanika kona.

Kwaye bemka kwangoko, bahlala kwiindawo ezingalindelekanga okanye kwiindawo apho bekufanele ukuba sele bejonge khona.

Kodwa ukuba awunathamsanqa ngoluhlobo, nyani jonga kwiikhabhathi xa kunokwenzeka, okanye ngaphakathi esofeni. Kunqabile ukuba zingahambi xa kunikezelwa ukutya okumanzi.

Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba akekho endlwini, kuqala kwezolile. Fumana into enokwenzeka, kwaye kuphela ukuba uqinisekile ukuba ikwelinye ilizwe, yiya kukhangela. Ndikuxelela oku kuba enye yeekati zam, uSasha, ayisiyikati eguqulwayo (kuphela xa enomdla wokuba ndimnike into). Nokuba ungambiza kangakanani, akakuhoyi. Ngaphezu kwesihlandlo esinye undikhathazile, ndicinga ukuba ndiza kuba sesitalatweni, kodwa ke, sele kumzuzu wokugqibela xa ithemba liqala ukuvela, kubonakala kwizinyuko ngokungathi khange kwenzeke nto, bejonge kum ngobuso » yintoni leyo? ».

Lo nto, ungakhathazeki ... de ucace ukuba zikhona izizathu zokukhathazeka 🙂. Amakati ziingcali zokufihla, nasekwenzeni usapho lusokola ngokunjalo. Njengoko uhlala nabo uya kubazi ngakumbi nangakumbi; nangona kufuneka uyazi ukuba eyona nto ikhuselekileyo kukuba abayeki ukumangaza.

Inqaku elidibeneyo:

Uyikhupha njani ikati kwindawo efihliweyo?

Kutheni ikati yam ifihla ukutya?

Usenokuba ukhe wabona okanye weva ukuba izinja zikufihla ukutya kwazo ukuze zikutye kamva. Ewe, ayingabo bodwa. Amakati anokuyifihla nayo, ngakumbi xa behlala neekati.

Nangona bevana kakhulu, kuqhelekile ukuba bayifihle. Bayenzela yona, kwakhona, inyulu. Ukuba abenzanga njalo, omnye umntu angatya ukutya kwabo, nto leyo abayi kuyivumela.

Ngaba iikati zidlala ukufihla nokufuna?

Ayikuko ukuba bayadlala, yile nto ngootitshala. Ziyabiwa, zilungele, zinomzimba omncinci ... Nokuba kunjalo, unokuba nazo phambi kwakho kwaye ungazi nokwazi.

Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe 🙂.