Ngaba ungathanda ukuba ngumhlobo osenyongweni wekati yakho? Ukuba kunjalo, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba, nangona ingumsebenzi onokuba lula, ifuna ixesha kunye nomonde. Awunakulindela ukufumana ukuthembela komfazi ngeentsuku ezimbini.
Okwangoku, ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba emva kwawo wonke umzamo, amabhaso aya kuza. Ngesi sizathu, ndiza kukucacisela indlela yokufumana ithemba lekati.
Mnike ukhuseleko
Ngaphambi kokuthetha malunga nokuphulula, kubalulekile ukuba uqiniseke ukuba uboya buya kuhlala kwindawo ezolileyo nekhuselekileyo. Kufuneke ukwazi ukukhempisha kumxholo wentliziyo yakho, ubone kwaye uphonononge yonke into ekhayeni lakho elitsha (ngaphandle kwezinto eziyingozi kunye neentambo, kunjalo) ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa ngabanye abantu abanobushushu okanye abantu. Ngokunjalo, awusoze umnyanzele kuyo nantoni na, kodwa into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuvumela umntu osiswini ukuba abe nguye oseta isingqisho sobudlelwane.
Kwakhona, Kuyimfuneko kakhulu ukuba aye egumbini lakhe yedwa nanini na xa efuna. Kuyo kufuneka kubekho izinto eziyimfuneko zokudlala, isikratshi, ibhedi, ukutya namanzi, kodwa kunye nesiqwenga sesambatho sethu esiphethe ivumba lethu.
Chitha ixesha
Ukuze sikwazi ukufumana ukuthembela kwakho, kubalulekile ukuba uchithe ixesha elininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwaye ube nomonde. Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukutolika eyakho ulwimi lomzimba Ewe iya kuba yindlela apho u-furry eya kusixelela khona ukuba ufuna ntoni kwaye uziva njani ngalo lonke ixesha.
Nsuku zonke kufuneka sidlale naye, nokuba ngentambo okanye ngebhola, kwaye makasondele kuthi. Amaxesha ambalwa okuqala kunokwenzeka ukuba ayizukusondela kakhulu, kodwa akukho nto yenzekayo, siya kulinda. Kungekudala kunokuba siqiniseke ukuba uya kufuna ukuba simthembise.
Sukungxola
Amakati ayakwazi ukuva isandi sempuku ukusuka kwiimitha ezisi-7. Ukuba siyamngxolisa kwaye / okanye senze ingxolo enkulu, siya kumoyikisa kwaye isilwanyana asiyi konwaba. Ukuba wenze into engalunganga, akunyanzelekanga ukuba simphathe kakubi (Ngokwenyani, ukuphatha kakubi isilwanyana akuvumelekanga ngumthetho nokuba kungasiphi na isizathu esikhokelela ekubeni umntu aphathe esakhe, kufanele ukuba yintoni, umhlobo onemilenze emine ngoluhlobo), Endaweni yoko, kufuneka sithi "HAYI" ngokuqinileyo kodwa ngaphandle kokukhwaza ngalo mzuzu, linda imizuzwana emi-4 kwaye uqondise indlela yokuziphatha kwabo ngokuphatha okanye iithoyi.
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwekati lomntu kufuneka lube bubudlelwane phakathi kwabalinganayo. Kungelo xesha kuphela apho sobabini sinokubanakho ukuhlala kunye.