Ungawubonisa njani uthando kwikati? Esi sisilwanyana esinobuntu obukhethekileyo. Ngokungafaniyo nenja, ehlala ihleli, nantoni na esiyenzayo, iya kufuna ukusikholisa, ifeline ayifuni. Ngoboya esinabo ekhaya, kuya kufuneka sisebenze ukuze asithembe. Kwaye yinto eyenziwa ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba lixesha lokuqala ukuhlala nomnye sinokubanamathandabuzo malunga nendlela yokuqhubeka, ke ukuba kunjalo, ungakhathazeki. Emva koko ndiza kukuxelela ungayibonisa njani ikati yakho ukuba uyayithanda.
Hlonipha indawo yabo
Yonke ikati, kwaye enyanisweni, sonke isidalwa esiphilayo, sifuna indawo yaso ukuba iphile. Ukuba kukho umntu ohlala ekuchola, okanye okuqhula, okanye okuhlukumezayo, isilwanyana asizukuvuya. Kunjalo ngoba soze, ungaze umenze enze into angayifuniyo. Ukuba, umzekelo, umbambe ngeengalo zakho kwaye ubona ukuba uyafuna ukuhamba okanye uyoyika, myeke ahambe. Sukulinda ukuba agqume kuwe, kuba ukuba uyakwenza oko, inyathelo elilandelayo athe wagqiba ekubeni alithathe kukuhlasela wena kuba awumvumeli ahambe ngokukhululekileyo.
Nika amabhaso
Ayisiyonto yokunika ukutya kwekati yonke imihla, kodwa amaxesha ngamaxesha. Ngendlela efanayo ukuba akukho mntu ukrakra malunga neswiti, i-feline iyakonwabela ukuphatha okumbalwa. Ungabanika nokuba bafumane into, umzekelo, ukuze abe sekhaya ngexesha elithile xa kunokwenzeka aphume phandle (ngenxa yoko, kufuneka umnike yena kanye xa efika), okanye xa usazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba usekoneni elifihliweyo le ugoduke kodwa awukwazi ukumfumana.
Mayiphile njenge kati
Nokuba yikati "yangaphakathi" okanye "yangaphandle", isilwanyana kufuneka sikwazi ukuhlala ubomi bekati, eyile nto iyiyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba Kuya kufuneka uyilibale imbono yokumbeka iimpahla okanye isinxibo kuye, kwaye umenze abe ngumntu. Ikati ayingomntu. Abanazo iindlela ezifanayo zokuphila okanye zokwenza izinto esizenzayo, le yinto ekufuneka sonke icace ngayo.
Dlala naye
Ikati ayifuni nje kuphela amanzi, ukutya okusemgangathweni (ngaphandle kokutya okuziinkozo) kunye nendawo ekhuselekileyo, kodwa kuyafuneka ukuba sidlale nayo yonke imihla. Inkqubo ye- iigwegwe ukuba siyakuthengela kufuneka sizisebenzise ukuze sonwabe. Ke, Kuya kufuneka unikezele malunga neeseshoni ezintathu zemizuzu eli-10 nganye ukuyonwabisa; Ndinyanzelisa, yonke imihla, ngaphandle kokuba ndiyagula.
Mthabathe kwaye uthethe naye
Kwaye le yindlela egqibeleleyo yokubonisa uthando. Nangona yeyokugqibela kuluhlu, yenye yezona zibaluleke kakhulu. Ukwenza uzive uthandwa akukho nto njengokuphulula intloko yakhe umzekelo ngobunono ngelixa uthetha ngelizwi elimnandi nelithambileyo lelizwi. Ukuba awunayo ukungalungelelaniKukwacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba umange. Uya kuyithanda 🙂.
Kwaye wena, uyibonisa njani ikati yakho ukuba uyayithanda?