Enye yeengxaki ezihlala zixhalabisa thina bahlala neekati, kwaye ezinokuthi zenze nzima ukuhlala kunye, kuxa isilwanyana sizikhulula kwiindawo ezingafanelekanga, ezinje ngeesofa, iibhedi, njl. Kutheni esenza oku? Ewe akaziphathi ngale ndlela ukusibeka ityala nakweyiphi na into okanye ukuziphindezela, kuba engayiqondi le micimbi.
Unobangela wale ngxaki kufuneka ufumaneke kwenye indawo, ke ukuba ikati yakho ichama ngaphandle kwetreyi, kweli nqaku ndiza kuchaza Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuze kancinci kancinci iyeke ukuyenza.
Uyamakisha okanye uyachama?
Iikati ezingamadoda, ngakumbi ukuba zishushu, zihlala ziphawula indawo yazo. Yayo, bamba umsila wabo phezulu ngokuwushukumisa kancinci, behambisa imilenze yabo, kwaye behambisa umlambo womchamo ngqo eludongeni okanye ezinye izinto. Abasetyhini banokuyenza nabo, kodwa le ndlela yokuziphatha ixhaphake kakhulu emadodeni.
Ezi kati zindawo kakhulu kwaye, ngaphandle kokuba bohlwaywa ngaphambi kobushushu bokuqala, baya kuphawula indawo yabo ngalo lonke ixesha bebona kufanelekile, oko kukuthi:
- Ukuba kukho ikati eshushu kwindawo uya kuyenza ukuze ufumane ingqalelo yakho.
- Ukuba usapho lukhulile, nokuba kukho isilwanyana esitsha okanye usana, kunokuba njalo yenze icace kwindawo entsha »umqeshi» ukuba le yintsimi yabo.
- Ukuba uziva uxinezelekile, nawe unokumakisha rhoqo ngomchamo »indawo yakho».
Kwimeko apho ikati igobile kwaye iwise umchamo ngokuthe tye, kungenxa yokuba ichama.
Kutheni ikati yam ichamela itreyi?
Zininzi izizathu ezibangela ukuba ikati ingafuni ukuya kwitreyi yayo, kwaye zezi:
- Isifo: usulelo lomchamo (umchamo unokuhamba negazi), ukuxinezeleka, uxinzelelo, uxhalaba. Kwezi meko, kulungile ukuya kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze akuhlolisise kwaye, ukuba yonke into ichanekile, cela uncedo kwi-feline ethologist esebenza ngokuqinisekileyo.
- Ukwaluphala: Ukuba ikati indala, angayeka nokuzikhulula kwitreyi. Ayibangelwa kukuba ngequbuliso bafuna ukungaziphathi kakuhle, kodwa kungenxa yokuba bengasakwazi ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza njengoko babeqhele ukwenza.
- Yala kwitreyi: sesinye sezizathu ezixhaphakileyo. Ungacinga ukuba itreyi imdaka, okanye awuyithandi isanti, okanye indawo ebekwe kuyo. Ingcebiso yam, esekwe kumava am, kukuba uyibeke kwigumbi elithe cwaka, kwaye usebenzise isanti yendalo kakhulu. Kwaye, ewe, ungalibali ukususa isitulo yonke imihla, kwaye usicoce kube kanye ngeveki.
Siyathemba ukuba sikuncedile ukuba wazi ukuba kutheni ikati yakho ichamela ngaphandle kwitreyi. Uya kubona ukuba umonde kunye nokuthamba ngokuthe ngcembe uyeke njani ukukwenza.