Xa sikhetha isilwanyana esinokwabelana naye iminyaka emininzi yobomi bethu, ngokungazi sityhila inxalenye yobuntu bethu. Kwaye ke, ukhathalelo olufunwa ziikati kunye neempawu zazo zahluke kancinane kwezo izinja zifuna kwaye zinazo.
Ke, ukuba ngokomzekelo sikhetha i-feline, kuya kufuneka sazi ukuba kuya kufuneka sifumane uthando kunye nentembeko yabo, ngomonde. Ke, Banjani abantu abathanda iikati?
Banjani abantu abathanda iikati?
Iikati zizilwanyana ezinokuhlala ekhaya imini yonke, ukuba nje zifumana zonke uyakhathala Kuyimfuneko (amanzi, ukutya, uthando, ewe, ukwenza umthambo). Kwelinye icala, inja kufuneka ihambehamba, kungenjalo iya kuziva ikhathazekile kwaye inokutshabalalisa ifanitshala kunye / okanye iithoyi zayo. Ke, Ukuba ungumntu othanda ukuba sekhaya, uya kukhetha ikati kunenja.
Ukongeza, xa siza kwamkela isilwanyana enye yezinto esizithathela ingqalelo luphawu oluqhelekileyo umntu ngamnye analo. Ngelixa inja isondela kuwe kwangoko, ichithela ulonwabo kwimbobo nganye yolusu lwayo, ikati ineentloni ngakumbi, iyakrokra ngakumbi. Ngokuba fumana intembeko yekati Kuya kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu, uyihloniphe indawo yabo ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye uthathe ixesha lokuqonda ulwimi lwabo lomzimba. Ngaba sinje ngabantu abakhetha iikati? Ngaba sinamahloni kwaye singenisa?
Ewe kwimeko yam ewe ewe. Kodwa ukuba ube nombono ongaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi wehlabathi kufuneka ujonge kwi kufunda eyayipapashwe kwiSayensi ePhilayo. Kuyo, kutyhilwa ukuba Abantu abathanda iikati abanamdla kangako, banovakalelo ngakumbi kwaye abayonwabisi imithambo yomzimba. Ngokuchasene noko kunandipha ngakumbi ukuhlala nenja.
Bunjani ubuntu bomfazi ohlala neekati?
Iikati kudala zinxulunyaniswa nento esinokuthi "amandla ababhinqileyo." Ezi izilwanyana bezinqulwa, kodwa zitshiswa nasemthini. Abafazi, nabo. Imbali yonke ihambe kakhulu: kwi-Egypt yamandulo, ngexesha lamaharahara, abantu basetyhini banamalungelo amaninzi kunanamhlanje kumazwe ahlukeneyo. Kodwa, kwelinye icala, kumaxesha aphakathi, xa iYurophu yahlaselwa sisibetho se-bubonic esabulala izigidi zabantu, babulawa, ngakumbi ukuba babenekati.
Amakati ahlala engaqondakali ebantwini. Indlela yakhe yobuntu, ubuqu bakhe, indlela yakhe yokunxibelelana nabanye, indlela aziphethe ngayo kunye nobuhle, kunye nokujonga kwakhe okomfazi, kwenza ukuba nanamhlanje bakho abo bacinga izinto ezingeyonyani, ezinje ngokufumana ikati emnyama ebusuku izakuzisa ububi. Inyani yile yokuba ukuwela iindlela nge-feline akuthethi nto, okanye akukho nto imbi ubuncinci.
Nangona kunjalo, abasetyhini kunye neekati baye babandezeleka kakhulu kwimbali. Ngaba yiloo nto unobudlelwane obukhetheke ngakumbi?
Andiyi kukholwa
Ewe kuyinyani oko ilizwi lomfazi lihlala liphezulu, kwaye indlela yakhe yokuthamba ngakumbi. Ezi kati zithanda kakhulu, kuba zibakhumbuza ngobuntwana babo, xa babekunye nomama wabo kunye nabantakwabo. Umama wekati usebenzisa isandi esiphakamileyo ukubiza umntwana wakhe, kwaye uziphatha kakuhle. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba indoda ayinakuba ngumhlobo osenyongweni wekati.
Ukunyaniseka, ngaphezu kohlobo ngokwalo, Ngokoluvo lwam, ukuba uza kuphumelela okanye ungakuphumeleli ukuthembela kwesini kuya kuxhomekeka ngakumbi kwindlela oyiphatha ngayo. Kwaye oku kundikhokelela ku ...:
Kutheni iikati zikhetha umntu?
Ubudlelwane phakathi kweekati kunye nabantu, ukuba buhlale ixesha elide kwaye bomelele, kufuneka bube luncedo kuwo omabini amaqela. Bobabini uboya kunye nabantu kufuneka bahloniphe enye. Oku kwicala lezilwanyana ezinemilenze emine kwenzeka ngaphandle kokucelwa, ke kufuneka sizame ukubashiya indawo yabo kwaye singabanyanzeli ukuba benze nantoni na abangayifuniyo.
Ewe, yinto enye ukuyihlonipha kwaye uyikhathalele, kwaye yinto eyahlukileyo ukuyivumela ukuba isikrweqe kwaye isilume. Hayi, naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko, akufuneki simvumele asivise kabuhlungu, kodwa le yinto ekufuneka ifundisiwe ngomonde nangeethoyi, ungaze ubethwe okanye ukhwaze.
Ukuqala koku, Ngubani umntu 'othandwayo' weekati?
Ewe, kuxhomekeke kwisilwanyana ngasinye 🙂. Kodwa iyonke Nguye omkhathaleleyo ngothando, omhloniphayo kwaye onomonde kuye. Umnika ukutya yonke imihla, kwaye uqinisekisa ukuba akasweli manzi nawo.
Ngaba ngumntu Akakhathali nokuba angangena kwimpahla yendlu kuba uyazi ukuba uyikati, intshontsho, kwaye ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into kufuneka aziphathe njengaye, nokuba oko kuthetha ukukhusela ifanitshala ngamalaphu akhethekileyo, okanye acoce rhoqo.
Ngaba ngumntu thatha ixesha lokuqonda ulwimi lwabo, kokubini ngokudibeneyo nangomlomo, ukuze ubudlelwane bube ngcono. Ewe ungumntu othetha nekati, nangona enokucinga ukuba kungekudala baya kumthatha ukuba baphambane.
Ngamafutshane, yinto ekhoyo feline feline yakho oyithandayo ukuba wonwabe ubomi kwaye ixesha elide kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Kodwa kuthekani ngawe, ucinga ntoni?
Ndiyazithanda iikati kodwa ndiyayithanda imisebenzi yomzimba xd yintoni umkhonyovu omkhulu kwaye nekoma imele ikati bayandikhwabanisa kwaye liqela lebhola yevoli
Ndiyazithanda iikati kuba ndiyazithanda ubuhle kwaye ndiyakwazi ukuba zizo. Ikati iziphatha kum ngendlela endiyithanda ngayo, inothando oluthambileyo kunye nohlekisayo, hayi njengokuqhushumba okungenangqondo kovuyo olungenangqondo lokuba xa ungalumkanga ndiza kuwubamba umlenze wakho, njengezinja. Ikati iyagweba kwaye iyakhetha. Uyakuthanda ukuba uyafuna. Unomntu amthandayo kwaye ayinguye lo umondlayo. Ikati kamakhulu wam ibimthanda utata kwaye ndim obeka ukutya kuye. UPocholo wam wayendithanda ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na kwaye uWilly wam wayemthanda umyeni wam ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na. Indlela yakhe yokubonisa uthando ifana neyethu.
Molo, Marina.
Kuyinyani, iikati kunye nezinja zineendlela zazo zokubonisa uthando abanalo ebantwini 🙂
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