Ukuxhatshazwa kwiikati

Ngokubanzi, ndiyathanda ukudibanisa izinto zempilo yomqolo kunye nezinto zokufuna ukwazi; Nokuba kunini apho ndinakho kuba ndiyathanda ukuthetha ngezihloko ezinokusenza sincume. Kodwa ayizukuba yibhlog epheleleyo ukuba khange ithethe nangokuphathwa kakubi kwiikati.

Kwaye kukuba, ngendlela efanayo endizama ngayo ukunika ingxelo ngayo, umzekelo, impilo yesi silwanyana, kubalulekile ukuba sichithe ixesha elincinci sikhumbula ukuphathwa gadalala kwekati (okanye inja, okanye ihashe, okanye ... njl.) akuvumelekanga ngumthetho. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ungalinceda njani ixhoba elisisisulu sesi sibetho, ndiza kukuxelela yonke into onokumenzela yona.

Yintoni ukuxhatshazwa?

Ukuphathwa gadalala indlela yokuziphatha enogonyamelo ebangela ukwenzakala emzimbeni okanye ekuziphatheni. Kukho iindidi ezine kwimeko yeekati:

• Ngokwasemzimbeni: mbethe, umkhabe ...
• Ivesi: ndimngxolise. Khumbula ukuba Indlebe yekati iphuculwe kakhulu: Uyakwazi ukuva isandi sempuku ukusuka kwiimitha ezi-7.
• Ukuphathwa gadalala: umzekelo, ukumbombozela ekoneni kwaye ungashiyi ndlela yokubaleka.
• Ungayihoyi: igcine ekhaya kwaye ungayiniki ukuba itye, okanye isele, okanye uyihambise kugqirha wezilwanyana xa uyidinga, okanye udlale ngayo, okanye nantoni na.

Sonke kufuneka sicace ukuba nayiphi na kwezi zinto yenza lukhulu, umonakalo omkhulu kwisilwanyana.

Kutheni bebaphatha kakubi nje?

Kubo nabaphi na kuthi, abathanda ubukrelekrele bethu kwaye bafune okona kulungileyo kubo, kunzima kakhulu kuthi ukufumana impendulo kulo mbuzo, nokuba abanye bethu banokuqiniseka ukuba akukho sizathu sokuphatha kakubi iikati. Kwaye kuyinyani, akukho sizathu sokuqiqa okanye sokuziphatha sokuthethelela esi senzo.

Kodwa abantu zizinto ezintsonkothileyo. Kwaye kukho abathile abanolwazelelelo ngokugqithisileyo, abangakwaziyo ukulawula iminqweno yabo okanye, ewe, abangakhathaliyo nantoni na okanye nabani na.

Ndinyanzelisa ukuba, kunzima kakhulu ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi izizathu zokungaphathwa kakuhle kwiikati, kuba andinguye ugqirha wezengqondo okanye ugqirha wengqondo. Mnye kuphela umntu obekhathalele ezi feline ixesha elide. Kodwa wow, ndiza kuzama:

• Lo mntu waxhatshazwa njengomntwana. Kuyaziwa ukuba abantwana babaxhaphazi bathambekele ekulingiseni isimilo sabazali babo xa sele bebadala.
• Abazali bakhe zange bamxelele ukuba kufuneka aziphathe kakuhle izilwanyana.
• Wayenabazali abangamnanzanga.
• Usebenzisa iziyobisi ezikwenza ubundlobongela.
• Utshintshe uloyiko lwakhe lweekati ukuba lonyanye nomsindo.

Sazi njani ukuba samkele ikati ebethiweyo?

Ngoku siza kugxila kungoku nakwikamva lekati esandula ukuyamkela. Indawo yokuhlala okanye indawo yokuhlala inokuba sele isixelele ibali lakhe, kodwa ukuba akunjalo ... singazi njani ukuba uphethwe kakubi okanye hayi? Yintoni ekufuneka siyijonge?

• Uya kugcinwa kakhulu. Ukususela ngomhla wokuqala efika ekhaya, siza kubona ukuba kunzima kakhulu, ukuba azifihle nakweyiphi na ikona kwakamsinya nje xa esibona sithatha umtshayelo okanye imopu, okanye ukuba uyangcangcazela xa eziva ngathi ubotshiwe.
• Ukuba ngempazamo siwisa into phantsi kwaye yenza ingxolo eninzi, iyakwazi ukungena phantsi kwebhedi, ngasemva kweesofa yomsila okanye phantsi kweengubo.
• Uyazi kakuhle iifestile neengcango, ngokungathi ulinde elona thuba lincinci lokushiya indlu.
• Unokoyika kakhulu uhlobo oluthile lomntu (inkwenkwe okanye intombazana, umfazi okanye indoda).

Ungenza ntoni ukukunceda?

Ukuba sikrokrela ukuba uxhatshaziwe, kuyakufuneka senze konke okusemandleni ethu ukubuyisa ulonwabo (okanye siqale ukuziva, ukuba khange abekho). Into yokuqala neyona ibalulekileyo yile gcina iingcango kunye neefestile zivaliwe, zombini ukhuseleko lwakho kunye noxolo lwethu lwengqondo. Kananjalo ayingombono mhle ukumyeka aphume aye kwi balcony, kuba nakweyiphi na imeko yoxinzelelo unokulibala apho akhoyo kwaye awele kwisithuba.

Inqanaba elilandelayo Qinisekisa ukuba umoya ozolileyo ekhaya uzolile. Oku kuthetha ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba udlale umculo ngevolumu epheleleyo (enyanisweni, eyona nto ayifaneleyo kukuwudlala), chazela abantwana ukuba kufuneka bahloniphe ikati kwaye, ewe, banganyanzeli ubushushu yenza nantoni na angayifuniyo.

Ngoku lixesha lokuba uzithembe. Njani? Ngeelekese neetoti zokutya okumanzi. Kuya kufuneka umoyise ngesisu! Yeyona ilungileyo. Ewe, siza kuyenza kuphela xa sibona ukuba izolile, kuba ikati evakalelwa kukuba ixinene kakhulu ayizukufuna ukutya, koko ibaleke. Ke ngoko, siza kusebenzisa la maxesha apho kubonakala ngathi izolile, ayifuni okanye igwebe, ukuyinika ukutya. Asifanele silinde ukuba aphume aze kudla; eneneni, amathuba okuba, amaxesha ambalwa okuqala ayizukuyenza. Kodwa kancinci kancinci siza kubona ukuphucuka. 🙂

nayo, Kufuneka simmeme ukuba adlale, ngeebhola, ngeentambo okanye ngezilwanyana ezifakiweyo. Ngale nto siyabona ukuba kunzima kuye ukusondela, kodwa konke kungumonde.

Ngolwazi oluthe kratya ndincoma ukufunda Oku kubhaliwe.

Kwaye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ayikho enye into. Ukuba sibona ukuba ikati inengxaki yokuziqhelanisa nekhaya layo elitsha, singabeka amathontsi ali-10 esixhobo sokuhlangula (asuka kwiBach's Flowers) kukutya kwawo - kumanzi - yonke imihla, kwaye uthethe nomgqirha osebenza ngokuqinisekileyo.

Ukusuka Noti Gatos, sithetha i-HAYI eqinile kunye ne-HAYI kukuxhatshazwa kwezilwanyana.