I-Feline inoluvo oluninzi oluphucukileyo lwevumba kunelethu, ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba bakwazi ukuliva ivumba ezinye izilwanyana ezinalo kwaye bazi, ngenxa yoko, ukuba bayinxalenye yeqela labo lezinto ezithembakeleyo okanye hayi. Yinkqubo ethembekileyo kakhulu nesebenzayo ethintela iingxaki ezininzi, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha isebenza kakuhle kwaye inokukubhida.
Yinto eyenzekayo xa sithatha enye yezilwanyana zethu ezinoboya siye kwindawo engaziwayo iiyure okanye iintsuku ezimbalwa, emva koko simse ekhaya kwakhona. Kwenzekani? Intoni ikati yam ihlasela enye ikati yam, ngequbuliso. Banokuba sele bengabantakwabo okanye sele bekhulile kunye, kodwa kuhlala kwenzeka ukuba, ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, omnye waba babini uyala enye. Ngoba? Masifumanise.
Ukuqala kwam ukuba enye yeekati zam zivundiswe, ndandingacingi ukuba udade wabo angaziphatha njani emva koko. Uye wagoduka kwangoko waqala wamrhona, ngokungathi akamazi kwaphela. Inyani yile, babengamaxesha amabi kakhulu, bengonwabanga kwaye bebuhlungu, kuba kude kube ngaloo mhla babesondele kakhulu. Ukuba yile nto ikwehleleyo, awunakukhathazeka, ukusukela oko yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye inesisombululo.
Unobangela wotshintsho ngequbuliso kwisimo sengqondo sekati ebesisekhaya ngu Kunuka "kuziswe" yikati ebikade ingaphandle. Yiloo nto into ayithandayo engathandekiyo kangangokuba engaphumi.
Ukwenza? Akukho khetho ngaphandle kokubonisa, ngokungathi abazani kwaphela. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka uthathe ikati ebikhe yaya egumbini, inebhedi, isondli kunye nomkhombe wamanzi, kunye nebhokisi yenkunkuma. Iintsuku ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3, Iibhedi ziya kutshintshaniswa ukuze bamkele ivumba lomnye nomnye, kwaye baya kunikwa amabhaso ngalo lonke ixesha besondela okanye bejoja.
Ngosuku lwesine, ungavumela ukuba babonane, umzekelo kwiglasi. Ukuba akukho kugungqa okanye ukukhupha, zinokudityaniswa. Kodwa, ewe, ukuba uyabona ukuba omnye kwaba babini unovalo, oko kukuthi, ubeka iindlebe zakhe ngasemva, uyabhomboloza, uyarhona okanye uzama ukukrwitsha enye, umgcine egumbini iintsuku ezimbalwa, kwaye uzame kwakhona emva Imozulu. Ungathenga nokusasaza i- Kude kude kwaye uyibeke kwindawo apho iikati zenza ubomi obungaphezulu.
Ngapha koko, ukuba emva kweeveki ezimbini awuqapheli kuphuculwa, musa ukuthandabuza ukucela uncedo kwisazi se-feline.
Unobangela ngakumbi wokubanjwa phakathi kweekati
Izilwanyana azenzi zinto ngaphandle kwesizathu, kwaye iikati azikho ngaphandle. Ukuba umhlobo wakho ongumlingane ngequbuliso ujika abe ngumsondlo, ukukrwela kunye nokugcuma kwe-broiler, kukho izizathu zolu tshintsho ekuziphatheni.
Ubundlongondlongo buchazwa njengenjongo yokoyikisa okanye yokulawula, kwaye yingxaki yokuziphatha komfazi oqhelekileyo. Ngelishwa, ikati enoburharha isemngciphekweni wokujikwa kwindawo yokuhlala okanye ishiywe ngumnini onxungupheleyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo inokudideka xa ikati icaphukisa ngesiquphe abantu abamthandayo. Nangona kunjalo, kuhlala kukho isizathu kwaye umceli mngeni kukufumanisa ukuba yintoni ekhathaza ikati. Funda ukuze ufunde ukuba kutheni ikati eliqhelekileyo linokuthi ngokukhawuleza libe ndlongondlongo kunye nento onokuyenza ukunceda ikati enomsindo.
Uloyiko / uxinzelelo
Ngelixa iikati zihlala zingamalolo, ziyadibana kwaye ziyakwazi ukwenza ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nabantu ababathandayo. Nangona kunjalo, ikati ingaba ndlongondlongo xa iziva isoyikiswa, ngethuku lemvelo ukukhawuleza ukuzikhusela. Kwiikati ezihlanguliweyo, yintoni ebangela ukuba abantu basabele gwenxa kunokunxulumana namava amabi njengokulwa esitratweni, okanye uhlengahlengiso ebomini kwindawo yokuhlala. Awunakuyiqonda ngokupheleleyo into ebangela uloyiko okanye uxinzelelo. Ikati yakho inokusabela kwezinye izilwanyana zasekhaya okanye kwimozulu apho abantu bengavaniyo kwaye besilwa.
Ezinye zezona zinto zibangela uloyiko okanye uxinzelelo kubomi bekati zibandakanya izilwanyana zasekhaya, izilwanyana ezininzi ekhaya, ukuhamba ngesiquphe, ukuzimela, ingxolo enkulu, impatho gadalala okanye ukohlwaywa ngokungafanelekanga ophetheyo, ukukhwela emotweni, ukunqongophala kwezixhobo (ukutya, amanzi, iithoyi, ukukrwela iposti), utshintsho kwindlela yesiqhelo okanye akukho siqhelo kwaphela.
Isiporho
Nangaliphi na ixesha ikati enobubele kwaye ithambile ibonisa ubundlongondlongo, lixesha lokuba undwendwele ugqirha wezilwanyana. Iikati ziyi-stoic kwaye zizama ukufihla iintlungu okanye ukugula. I-feline ingabonisa ubundlobongela ukukhusela ukulimala okanye ukuphepha ukuthintela indawo ebuthathaka.
Izizathu eziqhelekileyo zentlungu zibandakanya isifo samazinyo, iintlungu zesisu, isifo samathambo, ukonzakala kwezihlunu ezithambileyo, okanye usulelo. Ubundlongondlongo ngesiquphe bunokubangelwa ziingxaki zemithambo-luvo, ukwehla kwengqondo, kunye nelahleko levumba, ukuva, okanye umbono.
Ubundlongondlongo obangelwa sisibetho
Olu luhlobo lobundlongondlongo oludidayo olwenzekayo xa uyiphulula ngokuzolileyo ikati yakho kwaye ngequbuliso ijikele kuwe, ibambe isandla sakho ngeenzipho zayo zangaphambili ngelixa uzama ukukrazula ulusu lwakho kunye neenzipho zalo namazinyo angasemva.
Inokwenzeka ukuba ikati yakho igqithisile kwaye uluvo olumnandi lokutsalwa luye lube kukucaphuka. Ingabonakala ngathi ayivelanga ndawo ngaphandle kwesizathu, kodwa ikati yakho ibikunika imiqondiso yokuba ifuna ukuba iseshoni yokuphela iphele, ezinje ngeendlebe ezibuyayo, abafundi abaxineneyo, ukuqina komzimba, ukugquma, kunye nokushukumisa umsila. Xa ungaziboni imiqondiso kwaye uqhubeke nemivumbo, ukuhlasela yindlela yokugqibela yekati yokukunqanda.
Imiba yobume
Iikati azoyiki ukusebenzisa ubundlobongela ukukhusela umhlaba wazo. Ukujonga ngefestile kwaye ubone enye ikati ihamba ngaphandle kunokubangela ubundlongondlongo. Ezinye izinto ezinokubangela ukongezwa kwekati okanye inja entsha ekhaya, umntu ongaziwayo ekhaya, okanye intshukumo. Ngamanye amaxesha ikati iba ngumhlaba xa uhoye esinye isilwanyana endlini kwaye ngesiquphe sihlasele wena okanye esinye isilwanyana sasekhaya.
Ukuhanjiswa kwakhona koxinzelelo / ubundlongondlongo
Uhlaselo oluqondiswe ngokutsha yenye yezona zinto zixhaphakileyo nezingalindelwanga zenzondo yeekati. Kulapho ikati iba ne-hyperaroused, icaphukiswe, okanye ixinzelelwe sisikhuthazo esingafikelelekiyo.
Ezi zizizathu nje ezimbalwa zokuba ikatana eyonwabileyo ngesiquphe ibe ndlongondlongo. Into yokuqala ekufuneka yenziwe kukwenza ishedyuli yokulandelelana kunye nogqirha wezilwanyana ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho sizathu sonyango sokuziphatha gwenxa. Ukuba akukho namnye ufumanekayo, inyathelo elilandelayo kukuthetha neengcali malunga nokuziphatha kwezilwanyana ezinokukunceda ufike emazantsi obundlongondlongo bekatana yakho ... okanye uqale ngokulandela ingcebiso esikunika yona apha ngezantsi.
Ungayisombulula njani ingxaki yokuhlaselwa kweekati
Zininzi izizathu ezinokubangela ukuba ikati yakho ihlasele enye ikati, kubandakanya ukungabikho kwendawo, ukukhula ngokwasentlalweni, ingxaki yezonyango, okanye utshintsho kwezendalo. Ngethamsanqa, ngokubanzi Izisombululo zinokufunyanwa ezivumela iikati ukuba ziqhubeke nokuhlala kunye kwaye zoyise ubundlongondlongo bazo.
Kuba awungekhe ubuze nje iikati zakho ukuba yintoni engalunganga omnye komnye, ukufumanisa isizathu sobundlongondlongo kuya kuba yinkqubo yokuphelisa ebandakanya ukuzama izisombululo ezahlukeneyo.
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ukuba isimilo siqale emva kokuba iikati zidibene okwethutyana, ingxaki yezonyango inokuba ngunobangela. Xa ikati isezintlungwini okanye ingonwabanga, inokubonisa iimpawu zobundlongondlongo, nokuba ihlala ilungile. Nje ukuba imiba yezonyango ikhutshwe ngaphandle, kukho ezinye izinto ukuzama ukunciphisa ubukrakra bekati ukuya kwikati.
Vumela iikati zibe nendawo yazo
Iikati zithanda ukuba nendawo yazo kwaye zinokuba yindawo enkulu. Ukwabelana ngendawo encinci, izitya zokutya, kunye neebhokisi zenkunkuma sisizathu esiqhelekileyo sobundlongondlongo. Ngelixa unganakho ukwandisa ikhaya lakho, ungongeza indawo yeekati ngokubonelela ngeendawo zokuhlala, Iikati zekati okanye utyalo-mali kwindawo yangaphandle yekati evumela iikati ukuba zichithe ixesha ngaphandle ngaphandle.
Beka ukutya nezitya zamanzi kunye neebhokisi zenkunkuma (ibhokisi enye yenkunkuma nganye kunye nebhokisi enye yenkunkuma zisebenza kakuhle!) Kwisilwanyana ngasinye, ke iikati akufuneki zabelane. Ungathenga izinto ezintsha ozifunayo kwesi sixhobo.
Inika ukubaleka kweekati
Ukuba ikati ithanda ukungabi nanto, fakela ikhola okanye umnyango wekati olawulwayo okhokelela kwigumbi elithe cwaka. Mane ubeke ikhola kwikati exhatshazwayo okanye evumela ikati ukuba lingene. Myeke omnye ngaphandle. Oku kuyakuvumela ukuba ubaleke umhlaseli kwaye unike ikati elandela ixesha lokuphola..
Iipheromones
Abanini beekati abaninzi baye baphumelela kakhulu besebenzisa iipheromones ukunqanda ikati enye ekuhlaseleni enye ikati. Ezi mveliso, eziza ziifom zokutshiza kunye neefayidi, iikati ezizolileyo kwaye, kwezinye iimeko, yindlela esebenzayo yokuphelisa umlo. Kuya kufuneka ubuze ugqirha wezilwanyana ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwemveliso olulungele ukuba ulusebenzise.
Ixesha lokulinda
Ngaba ukungabikho kwenza uthando lukhule? Mhlawumbi hayi, kodwa iya kukunika ithuba lokuphinda uzise iikati ngokufanelekileyo nangokuthe chu. Lindela iikati ukuba ziqale ukubona ivumba lakho ngaphambi kokuzibeka kwigumbi elinye. Ngale ndlela baya kuzola xa behlangana kwaye abazukuziva ngathi bayisoyikiso..
Ukuba ezi ndlela zingasentla aziphumelelanga, funa uncedo lwengcali malunga nokuziphatha kwezilwanyana. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba, kwiimeko ezininzi, ngexesha kunye nomonde, ingxaki inokusonjululwa ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba iikati ziya kuba nakho ukuhlala kunye ngoxolo, nokuba ayingabo abahlobo abalungileyo.
Umnqweno omhle.
Molo, ndiphawula ukuba ikati yam ayifakwanga neutri, kwiintsuku ezi-4 ezidlulileyo uye wahlupheka ngaphakathi endlwini inja endinayo kwindlu yenja kwaye lo wasinda ngethamsanqa andizange ndimfikele, kodwa kwiintsuku ezi-3 ezidlulileyo uzimela encinci barn kwaye ayiphumeli kwaphela imini yonke, ebusuku ndiyokumkhangela ndize naye ekhaya, nceda, kule meko ndingenza ntoni? Enkosi
Molo orosman.
Ingcebiso yam kukuba ube nomonde. Ikati yakho isenokungaziva ikhuselekile ekhaya ngenxa yento eyenzekileyo kuye.
Mnike imiqondiso emininzi yothando kunye nokuthembela, kunye nexesha elinokubakho leekati (ngaphakathi endlwini).
Kancinci kancinci uloyiko luya kususwa.
Tyhila.
Molweni, molweni ekuseni, ndineekati ezi-6 ekhaya kwaye zimbini ezithi xa sibuya eholideyini, ikati ayikwazi ukumela ikati kwaye ayiyivumeli ingene endlwini, ihlala ilindile kwaye xa iyibona iyayihlasela.
Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndingenza ntoni.
Ndiyabonga
Molo Cintia.
Bondle bonke ngaxeshanye, kwaye ubanike uthando olufanayo.
Dlala nabo, nawo wonke umntu, yonke imihla, kwaye uyakubona ukuba kancinci kancinci uza kulubuyisela njani uxolo lwengqondo.
Ukubulisa
Ikati yam isandula ukubeleka, nangona kunjalo ibonakalisile ubundlobongela komnye wabantwana bayo abadala, andiqinisekanga ukuba uyibalisa notata wekati lakhe lakutshanje, kodwa uyambetha ngolonwabo kwaye enye ikati endala ayenzi njalo.
Ndingenza ntoni? Ndiyoyika ukuba ikati yam izakushiya indlu ngenxa yokuhlaselwa ngunina
Molo uKarla.
Kungenzeka ukuba le nto uzama ukuyenza kukususa kuye. Mhlawumbi ikati ifikelele ekuvuthweni ngokwesondo (ngaba ineenyanga ezintandathu okanye ngaphezulu?) Kwaye ifuna ukudibana nonina, kuba ayisayiboni njengekati-yomama, kodwa njengekati yezilwanyana.
Ke ngoko, icebo lam kukuba umthathe ayokuthena. Oku kuyamthomalalisa kwaye kushiye umama yedwa kwinkqubo.
Nibuliso!
Molo, ikati yam ineminyaka eli-9 ubudala kwaye ine-neutered kwaye ndinekati eneenyanga ezili-11 ubudala kwaye inenzalo, de kwiveki ephelileyo bebevana kakuhle, bebedlala kwaye bebendawonye nangona ngamanye amaxesha ikati endala ibiza kumgquma, kodwa ngoku akakwazi ukumelana naye, akafuni ukuwela ngaphaya, ambhatale kwaye amgqume. Ikati iphuma iqala kwaye ayisalali nathi. Ayizukuba yonke le nto iqale ukusukela ukuba bekukho ikati ngaphandle kwaye ngoku iphuncuka ibe yikati enkulu kwaye iyabhomboloza kuthi de singayivumeli ukuba iyithathe ... andazi ukuba benze ntoni bebesiya phambili kwaye ngequbuliso bonke oku kuyenzeka. Ndiyabulela kakhulu ukuba uyandinceda
Molo Katherine.
Ndikucebisa ukuba ube nomonde omninzi. Yiya kwindlela yakho yemihla ngemihla, kwaye unike ingqalelo elinganayo kuzo zombini iikati. Dlala nabo, ngakumbi kunye nomncinci, kwaye ubanike ukuphatha amaxesha ngamaxesha (ukuphatha ikati).
Ngokwamava am, ukubaluleka koku kunikwa kolu hlobo lweengxaki phakathi kweekati, kokukhona kubiza ukuhlala kwakhona nokuzola.
Lumka, anditsho ukuba kufuneka ungayihoyi, kodwa kungcono ukuba, ube nomonde, kwaye ubanike uthando olufanayo.
Ukubulisa kunye nenkuthazo.
Ahh sisiqabu njani ukufumana le ngxelo. Ndithathe ikati yam ndayisa kugqirha wezilwanyana kwaye xa udadewabo ebuyile waziphatha ngendlela ochaza ngayo. Ikati yam elihlwempuzekileyo iyabhideka, isondela kuye ukuze ibenaye kwaye iyamlahla = (ndiyayazi indlela yokubaphatha ide yenzeke kwenye ikati. Enkosi!
Ndonwabile ukuba eli nqaku liyakusebenzela. 🙂
Mholo! Inqaku lindincede kakhulu ukuba ndiqonde imeko phakathi kweekati zam.
Kuyavela ukuba bayimazi kunye neminyaka emibini eyindoda, zombini zine-neutered. Babenobudlelwane obuhle, babelala kunye 'befunene', bezilungisa kwaye bedlala rhoqo.
Ikati yanyamalala iintsuku ezimbini kwaye ngoku ikati xa iyiphunga iyabetha kwaye iyibethe.
Ngaphandle kwezindululo ozinike ngeposi, yintoni enye endinokuyenza ukuphucula imeko?
Gracias!
Molo uVictoria.
Into ekufuneka yenziwe ngaphezulu… yiba nomonde.
Banike uthando nobabini ngokulinganayo, nilinde.
I sibindi!
Molo, molo, iyenzeka lento kum, izolo ikati yam inyamalale ixesha elide, inenyanga eziyi-6 ubudala kwaye xa ivelayo yabonakala ukuba ilele phezu kophahla kwaye akukho nto ibonwayo kuba bekukho iintsimbi Ndingabamelwane bam !!! Ewe inqaku kukuba xa wayevela walala ethe cwaka kakhulu kwaye ukusuka apho akazange aphume imini yonke, walala kakhulu kwaye ebusuku sele ndibonile ukuba kunjani ukungahambi kakuhle, umntakwabo omncinci kunye nomama wakhe ukuba benza isandi kwaye bayilahla ngaphandle, abamfuni kufutshane nabo, kwaye wayelele kakhulu ebusuku, kwaye namhlanje uvuke ngcono kodwa iikati ziyaqhubeka zenza kwa ezo azimfuni kufutshane nabo, njengoko bemala kakhulu kangangokuba u-Abel ikatana yam walala nam ngobuqhetseba kwaye abanye ababini khange bavele ebhedini ubusuku bonke, kuba uMilo noNina, umama, bahlala kufutshane nam, balala yonke imihla !!! !
Molo Giuliana.
Ngaba zithathiwe? Iinyanga ezintandathu ikati sele ikwiminyaka yokuzala, ke umama uhlala eyala.
Ingcebiso yam kukuba uyiphose ukuze kuthintelwe inkunkuma engafunekiyo kwaye, ngethamsanqa, ukuyinqanda ingalahleki.
A ubingelele.
I-Sisis bobabini ayifakwanga, umama kunye nomntakwabo omncinci uyalijoja kwaye alihlasele ngokungathi ngumntu ongamaziyo kwaye intshontsho libuhlungu kakhulu kuba wayehlala enobuqili kwaye ehlala esondele kakhulu kunina nomntakwabo. Bandixelele ukuba inokuba ebehleli nezinye iikati okanye ikati imchamile kodwa inyani ikhala !!! Ngoku usempilweni egqibeleleyo kodwa ndimbona elusizi kuba efuna ukudlala nabo kwaye bamala lonke ixesha !!!! Inyani yile indigulisayo.
Molo Giuliana.
Zama ukuqhuba isilwanyana esimanzi xa usosula, ngokungathi uzama ukusihlamba (sukusebenzisa ukosulwa komntwana kuba oko kuya kubangela ulusu). Ngale ndlela, iya kunuka ngokwahlukileyo kodwa ingamangalisi kwaye mhlawumbi ezinye iikati azizukuyifumana ingaqhelekanga.
Nangona kunjalo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba umama akasafuni kumkhathalela. Ukuba kunjalo, ndingacebisa ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabo, nabo bonke abantu. Ukudlala nabo, ngamanye amaxesha ukuzisa iitoti zokutya kwekati emanzi, ukuzithambisa zonke ngaphezulu okanye kancinane ngaxeshanye… Ngale ndlela banokuphinda bamkelwe kwakhona.
A ubingelele.
molo ndithathe ikatana elahlekileyo ndaza ndajoyina iikati zam ezintandathu, umama kunye nenkunkuma. Baqhelana kakuhle kwaye ngoku bonke bathathiweyo. Kutshanje baqale ukuyala ikatana entsha, emva kweminyaka emi-2 ngaphandle kwengxaki, kananjalo abaphumeli ngaphandle kwendlu, sinothango olukhulu kwaye abaphumi. Ngesiquphe uyazifihla kwaye ababini kubantakwabo abamamkelayo bayamkrwempa, andazi ukuba ndenzeni
Molo Ivana.
Ndikucebisa ukuba ubabonise kwakhona, ngokungathi abazani. Uthatha ikati entsha ayise egumbini, kunye ne-feeder yakhe, isitya sokusela, ibhokisi yenkunkuma kunye nebhedi yakhe, kwaye kangangeentsuku ezintathu utshintshisa ngeebhedi zabantu bonke.
Kancinci kancinci bayakwamkela, kwakhona, ivumba lomzimba labanye. Emva kweentsuku ezintathu, mkhulule, kwaye ujonge iintshukumo ezenziwa ngumntu wonke.
Xa uphulula omnye, phatha abanye. Bondle bonke ngaxeshanye, kwaye unike ingqalelo efanayo kubo.
Kancinci kancinci baya kwamkelwa kwakhona.
Ukubulisa kunye nenkuthazo.
Ndiyabulisa! Ndidibana kuba ndinekati iminyaka emi-4. Ufumene ingozi ke ngeentsuku ezifumileyo uba nexhala xa umntu esondela kakhulu kwaye erhona. Ngaphandle koko, ndinekati yonyaka engathathi hlangothi. Babevana kakuhle nayo yonke into. Kodwa namhlanje, ikati yam enkulu ihlasele omncinci ngaphandle. Kwaye ibingengomdlalo, ibingathi ndiyatshata kwaye bendisoyika nento ebulalayo. Andazi ukuba ndenzeni nabo. Zombini ziikati zangaphandle kwaye bakhetha ukulala ngaphakathi okanye hayi. Ke ngoku andifuni ukuba umfana ahambe kodwa akukho ndlela, uyabaleka.
Molo Sofia.
Ukuba yayilixesha elinye kuphela, ungakhathazeki. Into inokuba yoyika okanye ikhathaze ikati endala, yiyo loo nto wasabela ngoluhlobo.
Ingcebiso yam kukuba ube nomonde. Banike uthando olufanayo kubo bobabini, kwaye wenze into efanayo kubo. Kukwacetyiswa kakhulu ukuthena omncinci, kuba oko kuya kunceda ukuthomalalisa imithambo-luvo.
Ukubulisa kunye nonyaka omtsha onwabile.
Ndineekati ezisi-8 kwaye kukho ikati engeyoyam kodwa iza phantse ngalo lonke ixesha ihlasela iikati zam kwaye ibahlasele kufuneka ndiyoyikise kuba kungenjalo ndivakalelwa kukuba ndingakwazi ukuyibulala le kati yindoda kwaye i-angora ayiloxesha lokuqala ndihlala ndineekati kwaye kwabakho ixesha lokuba ndibenengxaki efanayo nekati emnyama ehlasele iikati zam.Ndinexhala, nceda, andazi ukuba ndenzeni nale ikati.
Molo Andrea.
Kwezi meko into enokwenziwa kukoyikisa ikati, kunye nokubeka izinto ezigxothayo ngokusebenzisa indawo apho ihlala ingena khona.
Ukuba unosapho, thetha nabo ukuze ubone ukuba banako na ukuba phantsi kolawulo.
A ubingelele.
Molweni, umama uneekati ezi-4 kwaye abanye ngabantwana bakhe !! Ikati endala sele ikhulelwe kathathu! Ikati enye kuphela eyasinda ekukhulelweni kokuqala! Ukumitha kwesibini kungenxa yokuba yaphuma kwaye andizange ndiyiqonde! Kodwa ngoku umntwana wakhe wokuqala ukhulelwe! Ngokuqinisekileyo sele inamantshontsho aneeveki ezimbini ubudala! Ewe, inyani kukuba ndimthathe umntwana wakhe wokuqala ukuba ndimkrwelithe kwaye wayengekho ngenye imini ukubuya kwakhe, ikati inolaka kwaye ihlasela ikati kunye nabanye abantwana bayo! Andazi nokuba kungenxa yokuba ekhusela abantwana bakhe abatsha! Kodwa ndiphelelwe lithemba, andazi ukuba ndenzeni!
Molo Priscila.
Ewe uzama ukuba ukhusele amantshontsho akho amatsha.
Ungamnceda ngokumsa (yena kunye nabantwana bakhe) kwigumbi elahlukileyo, apho ezinye iikati zingenakumphazamisa.
Ngale ndlela, iimfazwe ezinokubakho ziya kuthintelwa.
Ngelixa ikati zikhona, ungathatha ikati endala ixesha nexesha, kodwa uhlala uyenza nganye nganye, ukuze umama angaziva enovalo.
A ubingelele.
Molo Monica,
Ndineekati ezimbini zaseBritane intombazana eneminyaka emibini enesiqingatha ubudala, emnyama kunye nekati ebhulowu yonyaka. Ndibabambe beziintsana, bobabini bayavana kakhulu, bayadlala, batya yonke into kwindawo enye.
Ingxaki iza ngoku kwinyanga ephelileyo umhlobo wam wanditsalela umnxeba esithi ngekhe abenayo ikati ngenxa yeengxaki zokuba sele ehleli ekhaya unyaka wonke kunye nemilo yekati iMaicon elwa neBritane ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha bebonana balwa ukusweleka, kwaye andifuni ukuba avalelwe egumbini ndaza ndamzisa ekhaya, intle eneminyaka emibini nesiqingatha ubudala wase-Bhritane, ulunge kakhulu, ulunge kakhulu yipasi yekati yendlela athanda ngayo.
Inyani yile yoba xa ndifika ekhaya ii-presentations zenziwa kwi-transporter zabonwa kancinci kancinci kwaye kakuhle kukho izikhohlakali zodwa.
iikati ezi-3 azithathi cala, enye inesibindi iminyaka emi-2, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka inyanga nenyanga kunye nenye entsha inyanga.
Aba bathathu bangaba kunye kwigumbi elinye kodwa unyaka (uZeus) ngalo lonke ixesha entsha (uCésar) eza kuvala kuye uqala ukukrokra, ukugquma, ukukhala, nokukhala ngaphandle kokwenza nantoni na kuye, uCesar entsha uyahamba, Uyahamba ukusuka kwimiqulu, kodwa ufike ngexesha apho ediniwe kunye noCesar uya kuye, akukhona ukuba uyalwa kodwa uya kumxelela ukuba avale ukuba andiyena ndiza kwenza nantoni na kuwe, kuba uZeus ngalo lonke ixesha ufumana uburharha kwaye ke sihamba phantse inyanga nenyanga, le intwana izolile kwaye ayikho enye into ngaphandle kokubukela into ayenzayo apho aya khona, uza kwenza ntoni kwaye ke uyasondela kuye kwaye wenza ezinye ezibonakala ngathi ziyambulala. Andisazi ukuba ndenze ntoni ndibeke abahlobo be-feliwey, i-diffuser kwaye akukho nto, enye into yokuthomalalisa kwaye akhonto ndiyinika i-calmex kwaye akukho nto ngoku ndiza kuzama ngayo umgexo opholileyo ubuncinci ukuba uphumle umncinci, ndinayo Ndizamile ngayo yonke into kwaye akukho ndlela banokuthi basondele ngayo ngaphandle kokurhola, ngaphandle kokukhala njl.
Umbuzo wam uthi ndingenza ntoni? baya kuze babe ngabahlobo? Angagula omncinci?
Ndiye kugqirha wezilwanyana kwaye andinawo umonde kodwa ndiyabona ukuba yonke imihla bafumana ngaphezulu. Yimeko enxunguphalisayo ukuba sekhaya enje ngamadoda amabini, ikati xa ibona entsha iyarhona kuye kodwa ihamba ngemilo. Makhe sibone ukuba ungandinika na ingcebiso.
Enkosi kuwe.
Molo uSusan.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba ukusuka kolunye usuku ukuya kolandelayo baqala ukudibana ngaphandle kwesizathu. I-feliway kwi-diffuser iyakunceda, kodwa kufuneka ubenayo ubuncinci inyanga ukuze iqale ukusebenza.
Ukubenza bazole ngakumbi, ungazama ezi Iipilisi zentlungu zendalo.
Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba nomonde, udlale nabo ngaxeshanye, ubanike uthando ngaxeshanye, ubanike iinkonkxa amaxesha ngamaxesha, kwaye uchithe ixesha nabo.
Ukubulisa kunye nenkuthazo.
Ndiyabulela kakhulu uMonica ngokuphendula, ndizakuqala ngokuphumla kancinci, ukuthomalalisa umncinci ngoba ndimbona ene stress.
Ndiza kukuxelela.
Regards,
Molo uSusan.
Masibone ukuba ihamba njani 🙂.
Tyhila.
Mholweni. Ndineekati ezi-2 ezibulalayo ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-3 eyadlulayo ndihlala kwithambeka (abaze babaleke) Bayavana kwaye bayalwa amaxesha ngamaxesha -ukudlala- kodwa kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo omnye wabo (ulusu olunolusu) wayenamanxeba entloko kwaye ndaqala ukucinga ukuba omnye akasamlumi ngokuqhula ...
Ndingenza ntoni ukuthintela ikati ekhubazekileyo ekulumleni nasekutyumzeni ikati yam ecekeceke?
Molo Tony.
Ngaba uvela eSpain, akunjalo? Ukuba kunjalo, ungazama nge Kude kude, iyimveliso esebenzayo kwaye icetyiswa ukuzolisa iikati. Ithengiswa kwisasazi kunye nesitshizi.
Ungajonga ekunikezeni zombini ukutya okumanzi (iinkonkxa) ngaxeshanye, kwaye udlala ngazo.
Kancinci kancinci kuya kufuneka ubone utshintsho.
A ubingelele.
Molo! Ngenxa yesi sithuba, ndifuna ukukuxelela ngemeko yam, kuba ndinexhala. Ndineenkukhu ezimbini (oodade benkunkuma kunye nokuhlala kunye) zeenyanga ezi-6 kwaye namhlanje sizise eholideyini kwindlu esedolophini. Indlu entsha, amavumba amatsha ... sibavumele ukuba bakhawuleze baphonononge, kwaye xa baphuma baya kwipatiyo boyikiswa yingxolo. Ukusukela oko kwenzekile, omnye wabo (omkhulu kunabo bonke) akazukuyeka umlozi komnye nokukhala xa embona. Okwangoku akenzanga nzame zokumhlasela, kodwa ndiyaxolisa ngale meko kwaye ndingathanda ukwenza into ukuyiphucula ukuba kunokwenzeka.
Imibulelo emininzi!!!
Molo Clara.
Subanexhala. Iyakudlula 🙂.
Usapho kufuneka luzenze ngathi akukho nto yenzekileyo. Ke iikati ziya kubona ukuba, ewe, yonke into ilungile.
Ukuba ubona kufanelekile, oko kukuthi, ukuba bayoyika kakhulu, ndincoma indlela eyonwabileyo kwisasazi. Iya kubanceda ukuba bazole.
Dlala nabo ngaxeshanye, kwaye ubanike amabhaso (iinkonkxa zeekati, umzekelo). Baza kuyithanda kwaye kancinci kancinci bayakulibala okwenzekileyo.
A ubingelele.
Enkosi kakhulu, siyenzile lonto kwaye ngenene baphela bezolile 🙂
Enkosi kwakhona!
Kuwe 🙂
Mholweni. Ndizise ikati engondlekanga kakhulu kwaye xa iphilile ndamdibanisa nabanye. Kwakukho enye awayevana nayo kwasekuqaleni, kude kube lusuku olunye ndabona ukuba abalwi nale bendizise ngayo kwaye enye ibambise inqina lakhe kwikati endize nayo. Kungoko andazi ukuba kutheni le nto ingathi umntu obe trake ethe phithi thiki kwaye waqala ukumfekethisa emqumbisa ade amhlasele kwaye namhlanje uyaqhubeka nolo thando kwaye emhlasela ngalo lonke ixesha. Khangela apho aza kumhlasela khona. Ngaphezulu, lowo amhlaselayo yindoda endala, uneminyaka eli-13 ubudala.
Xa ndisiya emsebenzini ndiyishiya egaraji ndakufika ndiyilayishe nam. Andinayo indlela yokuzihlanganisa.
Molo Gab.
Kuya kufuneka ubazise kancinci kancinci. Gquma iibhedi zabo ngengubo okanye ngephepha, kwaye uzigcine zodwa kangangeentsuku ezintathu ukuya kwezine. Ukusuka kweyesibini, tshintshiselana ngeengubo / ngeemakhishithi ukuze ziqhelane nevumba lomnye.
Ngosuku lwesine uze uzihlanganise, kodwa ungahlukani nazo. Jonga indlela abasabela ngayo. Ukuba bayarhona, kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa ukuba emva kwethutyana abahoywa, yonke into izakulunga.
Inkuthazo enkulu.
Kulungile kusasa,
Ndinekati kunye nekati iminyaka emi-5, bangabazalwana kwaye ndibamkele ngaxeshanye. Baye baxhamla ubuncinci kanye ngemini unyaka, kuyabonakala ukuba oku kubangele uxinzelelo emfazini kwaye akayeki ukuzikhotha, eshiya imilenze yakhe ingenaboya kwaphela kwaye isikhumba siphakanyisiwe kukukhotha kakhulu. Ndibahambise koogqirha bezilwanyana abane, basempilweni, benze konke, ndibanikile kude kwaye sele bekwimithi yoxinzelelo kwaye akukho nto, kukuyeka okanye ukunciphisa idosi kwaye uqale ukukhotha. Ngokwenyani andazi ukuba ndenzeni, ndimse kwiindawo ezininzi kwaye akukho sisombululo sihlala sihleli. Enkosi
Molo Ruth.
Ngaba zithathiwe? Ngaba lukhona utshintsho olubalulekileyo ebomini bakho (ukuhamba, ilungu elitsha kusapho,…? Mhlawumbi into eniyifunayo nobabini kukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nani.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ndingakucebisa ukuba ucele uncedo kwi-ethologist okanye i-feline therapist esebenza ngokuqinisekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo unokukunceda.
A ubingelele.
Mholweni. Ndineekati ezimbini ezenzelwe inzala ezineminyaka emi-4 XNUMX/XNUMX ubudala. Bakhule ngokuhlangeneyo kwaye bahlala behamba kakuhle, kodwa kwiintsuku ezimbalwa besilwa ngokuqhubekekayo kwaye bencwina, imisila erhabaxa kunye nokukhala akuzange kuyeke ukwenzeka, kwaye kubuhlungu kwaye kungathandeki ukubona indlela iikati ezimbini esele zisebenza Abazalwana banendlela yokuziphatha. Njengezizathu ndicinga ukuba zinokubakho ezininzi kodwa ndingathanda ukuba undixelele ukuba yeyiphi ocinga ukuba inokuba yeyona ngxaki. Esinye sezizathu kukuba kude kube kutshanje eyona ndoda ibalaseleyo yayihlala indala (bahlala inyanga bodwa), kodwa kude kube ngoku umntwana uzuze ubunzima kunye nobundlobongela kwaye ngoku mkhulu kunoyena mdala kwaye unokunika inguquko kwindima eyindoda . Omnye unobangela unokuba ngumcimbi wevumba; Kwiveki ephelileyo sitshintshe uhlobo lwesanti (ukusuka kwieperile zesilica ukuya kwi-binder) kwaye unkosikazi wam uza kondla iikoloni zeekati ezilahlekileyo njengevolontiya kwaye kule veki iphelileyo uchithe ixesha elininzi kunesiqhelo apho. Ndingathanda ukuba uphawule ngento ocinga ukuba ngoyena nobangela wokuziphatha. Enkosi.
Molo uJosé Mº.
Ndiphantse ndaqiniseka ukuba oonobangela zezi zibini zibalwayo. Ikati ebe "buthathaka" ngokwasemzimbeni ayisekho, kwaye ke ngoko isebenzisa ithuba lokujongana neqabane lakhe, kuba uyazi ukuba ngoku anganakho. Inyani yokuba umfazi wakho eze namavumba amatsha ngokuqinisekileyo izenze zombini iikati zingakhululekanga, kuba zilivumba lezinye iifenitshala, abantu abangabaziyo kwaye banokuziva ngathi bayasoyikisa.
Ukwenza? Ewe, kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu. Ndigqithile kuloo nto kwaye ekugqibeleni eyona nto indinike esona siphumo sihle, xa ndifika ekhaya, ndinuka ezinye iikati, ndihambisa isandla sam phezu kwejezi kunye neebhlukhwe (yile ndlela isandla similiselwa ngayo ivumba) kwaye kwangoko emva kweekati zam. Ingabonakala isisiyatha, kodwa iyasebenza. Ewe awuyi kuqaphela ukuphuculwa kosuku lokuqala, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha uyakujonga.
Ndiyakucebisa ukuba wazi iikati ezimbini, into engaphaya kwesiqhelo. Yenza okufanayo kubo, udlale nabo ngaxeshanye, ubanike ukutya kwekati emanzi (iinkonkxa), ... Kancinci kancinci uza kubona ukuba indlela abaziphethe ngayo iphucuka njani.
A ubingelele.
Molweni, ndicela uncedo, ndinekati eneminyaka emi-4 ubudala nekati eneminyaka emi-2 ubudala, ingxaki iqale ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ... Ikati yam ifike iiveki ezimbini kuphela ubudala, ke bonke ubomi bayo ndihleli nekati yam, khange kubekho ngxaki, naye wayiphatha ikati yam njengomama wakhe ... Balala kunye bonke kodwa ngenye imini sasisesofeni baqala ukulwa kwaye ukusukela ngalamzuzu iingxaki zaqala apho ndimbone ndimhlasele okanye ngokumbona nje uyabhomboloza kuye kodwa akaze enze kwanto uhlala ezolile ndingenza ntoni? Nceda uncede!
Molo Guisel.
Ndikucebisa ukuba ugcine ukwahluka iintsuku ezimbalwa. Ngelo xesha, batshintsha iibhedi zabo. Xa uphulula enye, kwaye ungakhange uhlambe izandla, phatha enye ngokukhawuleza. Ke, kancinci kancinci, baya kuliqhela ivumba lenye.
Xa iintsuku ezi-3-4 zidlulile, mababuye bakhululeke kwakhona endlini. Chitha ixesha elifanayo, zombini ukudlala imidlalo kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Linda. Kancinci kancinci uza kubona iziphumo.
Phendula nge quote
Sawubona Monica.
Sineekati zombini ezahlulwe iintsuku ezimbalwa, kusetyenziswa inkqubo entsha yokwazisa ikati. Okwangoku sinezithuba ezibini ezikude (enye kwiyunithi nganye). Sithethile nogqirha wezilwanyana kwaye wasixelela ukuba, emva kweentsuku ezintathu, kufuneka sizibeke ndawonye. kuphela xa sasiphambili. Izolo siphinde sabahlanganisa kwakhona. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, ikati endala ayamkeli enye. Uyamngxolisa, amgqume, amlandele apho akhoyo kwaye azame ukumkhuphela. Ngale ntsasa bahlasele kwaye bekukho intombazana yam phakathi (engakhange izame nokubahlula) kwaye omnye wabo ubethe kakhulu.
Asazi ukuba masenze ntoni. Yinkqubo enzima kakhulu. Bakhulile njengabazalwana, bahlala behamba kakuhle, kwaye ukususela ngomhla omnye ukuya kolandelayo abayi kunyamezelana. Kuyakhathaza kwaye andazi ukuba ndenzeni. Eyona nto ndiyithethayo kukuba ikati encinci iye yakhathaza indala kwaye yambangela ukuba afumane umonzakalo kwaye ngoku uyayamanisa ikati encinci nobungozi okanye ingozi kwaye woyikiswa kukubakufutshane naye. Siza kuzama ukubiza i-feline ethologist kule veki. Ndiphelelwe lithemba. Naliphi na ingcebiso okanye uncedo lwamkelekile. Enkosi.
Molo uJosé Mª.
Ndiyaxolisa ukuba imeko ayiphucuki 🙁
Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu, ngakumbi kunesiqhelo, kunye neekati.
Njengengcebiso ukuba ndiqinisekile ukuba kunokuba luncedo kukuthambisa enye nangoko enye. Ukuba nevumba lomzimba elifanayo kuya kukunceda uzive ungcono.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ndincoma ukuba ubonane noLaura Trillo Carmona, iwebhusayithi yakhe ithi therapyfelina.com Ungugqirha osisifo, kwaye uphendula kuthethwano olwenziwa kwi-Intanethi, ukongeza ekwenzeni iikhosi kunye neenkomfa.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iikati zakho ziyavana kwakhona kungekudala.
Inkuthazo enkulu.
Ndineekati ezintathu zabasetyhini, enye ikhulelwe okwethutyana ngoku, enye ihlasela umfazi okhulelweyo kakhulu, ndingenza ntoni?
Sawubona, uNancy.
Kule meko, ungazama ukubafumana kunye namabhaso, ukuphatha ikati, kunye nothando oluninzi; Kodwa ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba banokumenzakalisa, kungcono ukuba ubahlukanise, ubuncinci xa ungekho.
Inokukunceda ukuthena kwabo bangazinzanga.
A ubingelele.
Ndisusa nje iikati zam ezimbini ezimalunga neenyanga ezisixhenxe ubudala kwaye bevana kakhulu kodwa emva kotyando omnye uhlasela omnye kwaye omnye uzimele kwaye andazi ukuba kutheni, andazi ukuba ndenzeni
Molo Suna.
Yonke imiba yevumba 🙂. Iikati ebezise kugqirha wezilwanyana zithatha amavumba ekliniki okanye esibhedlele apho bebekhona Ngokukodwa ukuba bangenelelwe, xa befika ekhaya ezinye iikati zinokubala, kuba belahlekelwe livumba lomzimba wabo.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni kwezi meko? Ewe, yenza intetho kwakhona. Gcina ikati ezolileyo egumbini iintsuku ezi-3. Ngexesha lesibini nelesithathu, utshintshela iibhedi zabo. Ukusuka kweyesine, mayikhuphe. Musa ukubashiya bodwa. Qaphela indlela abasabela ngayo kwaye ukuba bafuna ukuhlasela (Oko kukuthi, bayarhona, bayakhaba, kwaye iinwele zabo ziyama) yenza ingxolo enkulu njengokuqhwaba umoya ukubaphazamisa. Bondle ngokutya okumanzi kwaye ubanike zombini uthando oluninzi.
Ngexesha kunye nomonde baya kuzola.
A ubingelele.
Mholweni!!! Ndivele ndavala inzalo ikati yesibini kwaye ngoku akayeki ukugquma kwenye ikati, akazundivumela nokuba ndithinte udadewabo, uba ndlongondlongo, yinto eqhelekileyo? Babefudula bethandana, kodwa ngoku abasaboni.
Molo Inma.
Ewe kuqhelekile. Ikati eyenziweyo "izisa" kunye namavumba ayo avela kwikliniki yezilwanyana. Ivumba lokuba enye ikati ayithandi kwaphela kwaye iyamenza angamthembi.
Kungcono ukuyigcina ikati eyenziweyo egumbini ade achache.
Un saludo
Molo, ndinguMargarita, ndifunde nje lo mbhalo, unomdla kakhulu, uMonica ndifuna ukubonisana nawe, ndineekati ezi-2 ezingamadoda, inzalo, ngabazalwana, ndibamkele kunye, baneminyaka emi-2 nesiqingatha ubudala, bona Besivana kakhulu, bekhotha, bedlala, belala kunye, yonke into ibinoxolo nothando, kude kube ngoDisemba ophelileyo besinombono wokuqasha umntu oza kubagcina ukuba acoce isanti yabo kwaye abanike ukutya, besele sibashiye bodwa nobhuti wayezobakhathalela kwaye akukho nto yenzekileyo, kodwa kwinyanga ephelileyo siqeshe lo mgcini mntwana, asazi ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kwaye okokuqala ebomini babo balwa kakhulu, emva koko, siqaphele ukuba omnye kwaba babini ngoyena ubalaseleyo kwaye ujongane nomntakwabo, ngokuqondakalayo xa kusondela umntu ambulise, nditsho nam, izolo ndifike kwi-apt, ndabulisa, kuqala kulowo uphetheyo kwaza emva koko kwafika omnye umntu wajongana naye balwa ... lo uhlaselweyo uchama abaleke, uyoyika kakhulu, xa kusenzeka lonto siyabahlula sashiya omnye kwi balcony kwaye omnye kwigumbi lokuhlala kwaye babonwa ngeglasi, esiyishiya ivulekile ivumba, emva kwemizuzu eli-10 umhlaseli ezolile, ethetha nomnye ngeglasi aze alale ngomqolo, siyabavumela ukuba baqokelele, uyanuka, kodwa Banoxinzelelo kwaye bahlaselwe boyika kakhulu, andiyazi le nto kuba kungenzeka ukuba yenzekile, sele benemilo eqinileyo eyi-4 kwaye andinabuganga bokubulisa abathobelayo ukuze umntakwabo angamhlaseli, bayathandana, xelela into enokwenzeka kwaye yintoni enokwenziwa ukunqanda loo milo nceda. Siyaqonda ukuba ngelixa bebodwa akukho nto yenzekayo, kuxa abahambi behamba okanye xa ndisondela kubo ndibaphulula, ndicela undincede ndiyeke le indixhele kakhulu, enkosi. Andazi ukuba bazokulwa nini, akucingeleki kwaye ngaphambili babenobudlelwane obuhle nazo zonke iindwendwe.
Molo Margie okanye Molo Margarite.
Kuyamangalisa ukuba kwenzeke ntoni. Into ecace gca kukuba kumele ukuba ikhona into eyenzekileyo kubo ngelaxesha lohamba nomntwana. Inyaniso yokuba? Andazi.
Ndikucebisa ukuba ubaphathe bobabini kakhulu. Kuqala uye kwelinye, kwaye kwangoko emva komnye. Amakati akhokelwa kakhulu livumba: ukuba ivumba lomzimba wabo "lixubekile" kunye nelomntakwabo, kancinci kancinci baya kwamkelwa. Usenokunika iinkonkxa zekati (ukutya okumanzi) kuni nobabini ngaxeshanye ukuze niphinde nibe ngabahlobo.
Sekunjalo, kufuneka ube nomonde. Kungathatha iintsuku okanye iiveki ezininzi ukuba yonke into ibuyele esiqhelweni.
Inkuthazo enkulu.
Ndineekati ezimbini, sizise elona khaya lincinci (unenyanga ezisixhenxe ubudala, ngelo xesha wayenenyanga ezi-7 ubudala) kwaye bebevana kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala kodwa ukusuka komnye umzuzu ukuya komnye ikati enkulu ihlala imhlasela, Batya ndawonye kodwa abanakuba kunye kuba uhlala emhlasela kwaye emleqa apha endlwini, kufuneka bohlukene.
Molo rosa.
Ngaba zithathiwe? Ukuba azikho, ndincoma ukuthatha ukuba ziphoswe (Oko kukuthi, ukuba zisuswe ii-ovari) ukusukela emva kolu tyando iikati zihlala zithambile.
Enye into onokuyenza kukwazisa kwakhona, ngokungathi abazani. Beka intombazana encinci kwigumbi kwaye utshintshe iibhedi iintsuku ezintathu. Ngosuku lwesine mabayekise omnye nomnye, kwaye ukuba uyabona ukuba imeko iya isiba nzima, ngokurhabula, ukugquma, njalo njalo, buyisela ikatana egumbini.
Kubalulekile ukuba, nanini na unakho, phatha enye ikati kwaye kwangoko emva koko enye, kuba ngale ndlela umithisa ivumba lelinye ukuya kwelinye. Oku kubonakala kusisiyatha, kodwa iikati zikhokelwa kakhulu livumba, kwaye ukuba zibona ukuba zinuka kancinane njengezinye, nje ukuba ziphambi kwazo azisayi kufuna ukulwa nazo.
Kwaye nomonde omninzi. Ukuba ubona ukuba izinto aziphucuki, ndincoma ukubonisana nonyango lwe-feline okanye utitshala wekati osebenza ngokuqinisekileyo.
Tyhila.
Mholweni!!! Kwiintsuku ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndamkele ikati eneenyanga ezi-2 ubudala kwaye namhlanje ndamkela enye iinyanga ezine! Lo ufike namhlanje warhona kwaye waphosa iindlebe zakhe ngasemva ngenjongo yokuba izakuphuma kuye.Inyani kukuba andiqondi indlela aziphethe ngayo ukuba ungandinceda, enkosi !!!!
Molo uIvanna.
Ndikucebisa ukuba ulandele ingcebiso ka Oku kubhaliwe.
Ukubulisa 🙂
Molweni, ndineekati ezimbini ezingamadoda, enye inenyanga ezimbini ubudala kwaye enye inonyaka ubudala, abangobhuti kodwa bakhule kunye, phambi kokuba bathandane, babelala kunye, behlamba kwaye bedlala, emva koko baqala ukulwa Kuninzi apho sibateketise bobabini, Kodwa imilo iyaqhubeka, bayatsiba bahlasele omnye ngqo entanyeni kwaye andazi ukuba ndenzeni nabo ukuze baphinde bahlangane, bahlala besilwa xa ndikhona, kuba xa bebodwa okanye nabanye abantu abajonganga nokujongana.
Molo Yesenia.
Zama ukunika uthando kunye nembuyekezo kuni nobabini ngaxeshanye.
Ukwenza okufanayo kubo kuya kubanceda bahlalisane ngcono, kodwa kufuneka ube nomonde.
Ukuba izinto aziphucuki, ndingacebisa ukubonisana ne-feline ethologist.
A ubingelele.
Molo!
Ndineekati ezimbini i-9 ne-8 yeminyaka ubudala. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo oyena mdala wahlinzwa, kwaye xa ebuya kugqirha wezilwanyana, nangona sizamile ukubagcina behlukene kwaye siphinde sazivelisa kancinci kancinci, ikati ayiyeki ukumncwina. Uye wehla ezantsi, kodwa namhlanje, emva kokuba bekunye, edlala, kwaye wanyamezela ukukhothwa kwakhe, ngequbuliso wamhlasela, wamleqa wazama ukundiluma kwaye waphantse wandiluma nam xa ndizama ukwahlulahlula. Sinendlu egcwele oFeliway, siyamtshiza, sitshintshisana ngengubo phakathi kwabo ukuze baqhele ivumba ... kodwa akukho ndlela. Ndingenza ntoni?
Molweni lin.
Kufuneka ube nomonde. Ukubanika uthando olufanayo- zombini ngaxeshanye-, iitoti zokutya okumanzi, kunye nokudlala nabo kunokubanceda kakhulu ukuba baphinde bahlangane.
Ngapha koko, ukuba uyabona ukuba inyanga idlulile kwaye awuluboni naluphi na utshintsho, okanye ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, imeko iya isiba mandundu, ndincoma ukuba ubonane nonyango, njengoLaura Trillo (from therapyfelina.com) .
A ubingelele.
Molo, ndineekati ezi-4. Ababini ngabasetyhini kwaye ababini bayindoda, kodwa sele bechithiwe. Kutshanje ndiye ndahamba ndathatha iikati zam ndaya nazo kwindlu yam entsha… Into kukuba iintsuku zokuqala iikati ziqhelekile kwaye ngequbuliso ukusuka kolunye usuku ukuya kolunye lweekati zaqala ukwala ezinye iikati. Andazi ukuba ndenzeni kwaye ndinoloyiko lokuba ndingonzakalisa ezinye iikati zam. Ndidinga uncedo. Ndiyacela!
Molo Karen.
Ndincoma ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kangangoko unako kunye nabo. Dlala nabo, ubatofele.
Ukuba unako, zama ukufumana iFeliway okanye enye into yokuhlaziya ikati okanye isasaze.
Nomonde. Kancinci kancinci bazokuqhela 🙂
A ubingelele.
Mholo! Ndinekati eneminyaka emi-5 ubudala, inkulu kakhulu ngobukhulu, kwaye ibihlala yodwa nam oko ndamthabathayo. Inqaku lelokuba kule veki ndizise intshontsho (bobabini bangena), kwaye yeyona nto intle onokuyicela, ngaphezulu kakhulu kunaye; inqaku kukuba mncinci kakhulu ngobukhulu, kwaye uhlala emrhalela, kwaye uyazifihla, ndicinga ukuba uyamoyika, unobukho bakhe kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uyayiphawula indawo ngokunjalo.
Ndiye ndamgcina egumbini kwiveki e-1 kwaye ndiyamkhupha bobabini bahlala kufutshane nam, emva koko ndimbuyisele egumbini. Kodwa namhlanje ngelinye ixesha ndambiza owayezifihlile ukuba ambambe, kwaye wamtsibela, wabaleka wayongena egumbini kwaye kwakucocekile kakhulu kwaye kulwa, kwaye bendisoyika kakhulu, lixesha lokuqala ndibona Ikati yenza ngoluhlobo, bendicinga ukuba ndiza kuyenzakalisa yonke.
Andisenabuganga bokumkhupha egumbini. Ndiyoyika ukuba bazokwenzakala. Ndiphelelwe lithemba kwaye le meko iyandikhathaza !!! Into endiyenzayo? Kuyandikhathaza kakhulu ukuba kuye kufuneke ukuba yedwa egumbini imini yonke. Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukuba bahlengahlengise?
Molo uGabriela.
Isingqisho sibekwe ngabo. Akunakwenzeka ukwazi ukuba baya kuqala nini ukunyamezela.
Ndingacebisa ukuba kusetyenziswe i-Bach Flowers, ngakumbi i-Rescue Remedy (bayayithengisa kwii-herbalists). Amaconsi ali-10 kukutya kwekati, yonke imihla. Oku kuya kumnceda ukuba azive ngcono nekati.
Mse ngaphandle kwegumbi emva kwemizuzu engama-30 ityile ikati, kwaye uzijonge. Ukuba ubona ukuba bayarhona kuyinto eqhelekileyo, okanye nokuba bayakhabana.
Kuya kufuneka uzolile, kuba bayakuqaphela oko.
Ukuba ubona ukuba le meko ayiphucuki, ndingacebisa ukuba uqhakamshelane noLaura, ukusuka ku-therapyfelina.com
Tyhila.
Molweni! Sinenjana eneminyaka emine nekati nekati eneminyaka emibini ubudala.Bahlala bevana kakuhle okoko bekhule kunye.Ikati yamitha yamitha yazala abantwana abane, samshiya ngamadoda amabini. ndamnika ezinye ezimbini.Iintsana ngoku zineenyanga ezintlanu ubudala, bonke balala kunye ebhokisini enkulu eneengubo zabo eyadini.
Ingxaki sele iqalile ukuvela ngoku.Umama wabantwana uyoyika, kwaye akafuni ukubala iintsana zakhe, umntakwabo okanye inja.Ude abarhwaphilize kwaye azicaphukele kakhulu kubo.Utya kuphela xa ndibuya ekhaya. ndabeka ukutya ekhitshini xa ehleli yedwa andiqondi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuye? ingaba ukhona umntu onokundinika ingcebiso okanye achaze ukuba kungenzeka ntoni kuye?
Enkosi kuwe.
Molo Rachel.
Kungenzeka ukuba ubuye waya kubushushu kwakhona, kwaye yiyo loo nto esenza ngale ndlela.
Ingcebiso yam kukuba umthathe athenwe, ukuze angabinayo inzondelelo kwaye (nawe) uphinde ubuyele esiqhelweni.
Ngendlela, abantwana bakho abayi kuba lide ukufikelela kwinqanaba lokuziphatha ngokwesini. Phakathi kweenyanga ezi-5 ukuya kwezi-6 ubudala, amantshontsho angaba ngabazali okokuqala ngqa. Kuya kucetyiswa kwakhona ukuba bathenwe.
Nibuliso!
Molo unjani? Ityala lam lilandelayo; Ndineekati ezimbini zamadoda (enye inonyaka ubudala kunye nezinye iinyanga ezi-6 ubudala) njengoko ndingasenakuhlala nazo ekhaya, ndikhangele elinye ikhaya, kodwa ndafumana indlu YONYAKA OMNYE, kodwa emva kweeveki ezimbini bayibuyisile kum kuba banikwe ikati enye yabasetyhini. Ingxaki kukuba ngoku ikati endala ibuyile ekhaya, ihlasela encinci, iyilume kwaye yenza into engaqhelekanga, ayifuni nokuba icinezelwe (yayithandeka kakhulu phambi koku). Ndixhalabile ukuba ungene kushushu kwikati yabasetyhini yendlu eyamkelekileyo. Ndingenza ntoni?
Molo uGuille.
Ukuba bobabini abathathi hlangothi, iya kuba ilungile.
Emva koko beka lowo ubesendlwini ixesha elincinci kwigumbi, kunye nokutya kwabo, ibhedi, amanzi kunye nebhokisi yokulahla inkunkuma. Hamba uyokutshintsha iibhedi zabo iintsuku ezintathu. Ngale ndlela baya kuluqhela ivumba lalo.
Emva koko, thabathani lonke ithuba lokunika uthando kunye nengqwalaselo efanayo nobabini ngexesha elinye. Banike ukuphatha (ukuphatha ikati).
Kuya kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu, kodwa kancinci kancinci, njengoko iiveki zihamba, uza kubona utshintsho.
Molweni ndicela uncedo ndinekati ezintathu enye about 8 months ago ndamhlinza ebesele ena 2years ndihlala ndivana nekati enonyaka kodwa ndiva ngathi ikhona into etshintshileyo phakathi kwabo. ubudlelwane emva kotyando, kwelinye ibhinqa ikati eliduna liyamamkela, kodwa ngequbuliso liyamhlasela kwaye akukho mntu unokulisusa, akukho kuthethiswa okanye akukho nto isebenzayo, ifuna nje ukumluma kungakhathaliseki ukuba ndiphikisana nesenzo sakhe. kwaye kufuneka ndiyisuse, kukho into endinokuyenza? Kutheni siyamkele nje? Ingcebiso ethile kutheni ukumthethisa kungasebenzi kwaye andazi ukuba ndenze ntoni?kodwa incinci kakhulu. Ndicela uncedo ndinithanda kakhulu, uyandithanda kakhulu kwaye ngoyena bandifuna kakhulu kwaba bathathu andifuni nocinga ukuba banomona kuba ndizama ukubapha uthando olufanayo, kodwa iyahlupha. yena xa ndimphulula kwaye ndiye ndabona ukuba uyamhlasela kamva
Molo uCristina.
Ndikucebisa ukuba ubabonise kwakhona, ngokungathi abazani. Thatha ikati yakho uyise egumbini elinokutya, amanzi kunye nebhokisi yenkunkuma, kwaye utshintshe inkunkuma yazo iintsuku ezintathu.
Emva koko, mkhulule, mabaphunga bodwa kwaye babuyelane.
Ngokuqinisekileyo okwenzekileyo kukuba xa kubuyiswa ikati kugqirha wezilwanyana, iikati ziye zaziva amavumba okuba kufuneka 'abambe' ekliniki, kwaye loo nto yenze ukuba omnye kwaba babini ambone eyikati engaqhelekanga. Kungenxa yoko kucetyiswa ukuba uphinde ubonise.
Nibuliso!
Molo, kwiinyanga ezi-4 ezidlulileyo samkela ikati elitsha. Sinekati yethu iminyaka emi-4 kwaye uhlala ehleli kakuhle nenja yethu, kodwa xa wayibona intshontsho elitsha lavutha ngumsindo kwaye ukusukela ngoko libaleka likhwaza. Ngoku intshontsho lethu linenyanga ezintlanu ubudala kwaye lafumana ubuchule bokuqhuba ikati yam ngokuzijula phezu kwayo (ayifakwanga). Ikati yethu ihlupheka kakhulu kwaye asisazi ukuba senze ntoni ukuze sihlale kunye ngcono. Ndidinga uncedo!!!
Molo ChanetonR.
Kuqhelekile ukuba intshontsho lekati lifune ukudlala, lilandele ikati. Iikati zithanda ukubacaphukisa abantu abadala, kodwa abantu abadala bazibeka umda kuzo (ngokugquma kunye / okanye ngempama).
Ingcebiso yam kukuba udlale nekatana yakho. Yidinise. Thatha intambo ende (malunga ne-50cm) uyihambise okwentaka. Yenza ibhola -ubungakanani begalufa enye eyenziwe ngefoyile yealuminiyam kwaye uyilahle kuye ukuze ayilande, amaxesha amaninzi kangangoko ufuna de umbone ukuba uyakhefuzela (Oko kukuthi, uyakube ediniwe).
Ngale ndlela, ikati iyakwazi ukuzola.
Nibuliso!
Molo, ndingathanda ukukubuza into endothuse kakhulu, ndineekati ezimbini, i-Siamese kunye ne-hawksbill, bobabini beze ekhaya benenyanga enesiqingatha ngemini enye, enye kusasa enye emva kwemini, Ndiyathandana kodwa xa i-neura behlasela abanye ngogonyamelo, ngakumbi amaSiamese kwi-hawksbill. Siyakholelwa ukuba kungenxa yokuba i-hawksbill iyala ukuqhubeka nokuncancisa (ngaphandle kobisi kunjalo, bayiminyaka efanayo) kodwa yinto elibi abayithathileyo kwaye kubonakala ngathi i-hawksbill iyidinile kwaye yiyo loo nto ihlasela ngomsindo. Yintoni enokwenziwa? inyani kukuba bayavana kakhulu, ngaphandle kwaxa amaSiamese efuna into. Enkosi ngempendulo yakho
Molo Julia.
Kuqhelekile ukuba kubekhona 'ukulwa' okanye iimpikiswano. Zenzeka nakwiintsapho ezilungileyo 😉
Subanexhala. Kancinci kancinci baya kuyenza icace imida yabo.
Ewe kunjalo, dlala nabo bobabini okwethutyana yonke imihla ukuze bakhuphe amandla kwaye bazole.
Nibuliso!
Molo, suku olungileyo, ndineminyaka esi-7 ubudala ndinamakati amabini namabhinqa angamadoda, ibhinqa liyi-castre kwiinyanga ezimbalwa emva kokumkhulisa kunye nendoda endiyenzileyo kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, oko ndabuya imbombo yam eyindoda kakhulu kwikati yam , phambi kokuba bayichithe kunye kwaye balala phantsi bebesondelelene kakhulu, andazi ukuba isimilo sendoda yam singenxa yantoni, andazi nokuba kungenxa yokuba usalulama na kusenziwa utyando, bafuna ukwazi ukuba mabenze ntoni ukuze baphinde bamanyane!
Molo uCitlali.
Ewe, into oyithethayo idla ngokwenzeka kakhulu. Emva kotyando, eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukuthatha ikati eqhutyiweyo uyise egumbini uyishiye apho de ichache. Ngale ndlela, xa kuzilungisa, amavumba aziswe kugqirha wezilwanyana ayasuswa, esenza ezinye iikati ezihlala nazo ziziva zizolile.
Kodwa ke, ukuba oku akukwenziwanga, kuya kufuneka ube nomonde. Ninike nobabini ikati ukuphatha rhoqo ngoku, kwaye baya kuphinda balunge kwakhona kungekudala.
Ukubulisa
Molo, ndineminyaka eyi-10 ubudala yasePersi kunye neBritane esize nayo kwinyanga eyi-1 yeenyanga ezintathu ezidlulileyo. Sele sizikhuphile iveki, emva kokugqiba umthetho olandelwayo. Iintsuku zokuqala ezi-3, inkulu yenza uphawu olukhulu kulowo mncinci, ukumlandela naphina apho aya khona, uninzi lwee-snorts, iigrunts kunye nokuzama ukubetha kodwa kungabi nabundlobongela ekuqaleni. Emva kweveki, andiqapheli ukuba kubekho inkqubela phambili, enkulu iyaqhubeka nokuthimla nokugquma komncinci. omncinci akayeki ukudlala, omkhulu uyasindwa kwaye azame ukusondela kuye kodwa omkhulu akamvumeli, uhlala emrhona kwaye xa embona ejonge kude okanye elele phantsi, uyahamba. Enkosi Thixo, akukho zintlungu, kwaye ukuba zikhona, ziinzipho ezincinci ezingabangeli ntombazana encinci naluphi na uhlobo lwentlungu. Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuze umntu omkhulu avumele omncinci asondele, okanye ngaba simnika ixesha nexesha?
Imuchas Gracias
Molo marcos.
Kuqhelekile ukuba umntu omdala aziphathe ngolu hlobo. Ngapha koko, ndinokuxelela ukuba enye yeekati zam, ngoku eswelekileyo, ithathe iinyanga ezimbini ukwamkela ikati.
Kancinci kancinci, zinike ixesha.
Ukubulisa kunye nenkuthazo.
Ukugqibelela, siya kuyenza loo nto, ngomonde omninzi, ayikho enye indlela. Kuthekani ukuba siyabona kukuba kwezi ntsuku zimbini zidlulileyo uleqa omncinci ngakumbi kwaye "ngesona sandla sikhululekileyo", uthinte ngakumbi i-paw kunye nokuninzi kunye nokugcuma. Akaziphosi kuye okanye kuyo nayiphi na into, ukuba xa, nanjengokubaleka komncinci, xa edlula azame ukumbamba ngendlela engeyiyo. Andazi ukuba senze okungalunganga kodwa bachitha ubusuku ob2 bachitha ubusuku bodwa sele….
Molo marcos.
Ewe kuqhelekile. Kwaye xa intombazana encinci sele indala, banokuthi "balwe" amaxesha ngamaxesha. Subanexhala.
Ngapha koko, zinike zombini, ngaxeshanye, kwaye nangaliphi na ixesha uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lukuvumela, iinkonkxa zokutya kwekati emanzi (uphawu olunye, incasa efanayo). Inyaniso yokutya kunye kunye ngokufanayo, kwigumbi elinye, iya kuthi ngokuthe ngcembe ibenze ukuba bamkele ngakumbi.
Ukubulisa
Molo intsasa emnandi. Ndineekati ezi-2, unyaka we-5 kunye neenyanga ezisixhenxe ubudala ezihlangulwe.
Kuqale umntu omdala wagqushalaza omncinci, kodwa sibazisile nomdala wayamkela. Kodwa, iiveki ezimbalwa xa inkulu izilungisa okanye ilala, yindawo evaliweyo kwaye omncinci uya kudlala (uyaxhuma amlume emngciphekweni) omkhulu uyamrhona. Eli ayiloxesha lonke, kuba ngamanye amaxesha ukuba uyadlala naye kwaye bayavana njengento engekhoyo, kodwa rhoqo xa inkulu ikhotha okanye ilele ukuba isondela kuxa iyirhola.
Okwangoku bobabini bakunyango ngenxa ye-gastritis okanye kubangelwa kukungakhathali kukagqirha wezilwanyana, kwaye omnye ugqirha wabanika amayeza angaphantsi (inaliti ezininzi kwabadala kunale incinci)
Ndingathanda ingcebiso, enkosi.
Molo Douglas.
Subanexhala. Kuqhelekile ukuba ikati endala iye ibenye xa incinci iba nobunzima / inenkani, kwaye ngakumbi ukuba ibuhlungu. Ngethuba nje into ihlala ihleli apho (i-snorts, mhlawumbi enye impama), akukho nto eyenzekayo.
Ukubulisa
Molweni, ndicela uncedo, ndididekile, ndineekati ezi-6 kwaye nganye ifike nganye nganye, ikati yokuqala yikati, kwaye ezinye bezikunye nam iminyaka esi-7 kunye nezinye, ngokulandelelana, kodwa bebehleli kunye kangangeminyaka emi-2, kwaye bebesilwa kancinci kunqabile, kodwa ngobunye ubusuku ikati yam, ebikunye nam iminyaka esi-7, yayishushu ngaloo mihla, kwaye yayiqala ngenye yazo iikati zam ebesinazo iminyaka emi-5 kwaye bendingayiboni ngokungathi ayaziwa kodwa into eyinqaba kukuba ikati yam ayiphumanga endlini okanye nantoni na eyahlukileyo kunesiqhelo, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kuye engaqhelekanga kakhulu kodwa ulwabelwano kuphela ngomnye ngokukodwa nabanye kuyinto eqhelekileyo
Molo Aydee.
Ubushushu benza iikati, ezibhinqileyo nezamadoda, ziziphathe ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunesiqhelo.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka into oyithethayo, ukuba ikati iyacaphuka okanye ilwe nawe.
Ingcebiso yam yeyokuba, ukuba unako, hamba uyothena ikati, kuba ngalo lonke ixesha ishushu, ngoku kunokwenzeka ukuba kuphinde kulwe. Kwaye kukho umngcipheko wokukhulelwa.
Ukubulisa
Molweni, ndinengxaki endingazi ukuba ndiyisombulule njani. Ndijika ndineekati ezimbini ezamkelweyo. Enye ayifakwanga neutered kwaye enye ayiyo. Kodwa balwa kakhulu. Bendinenjongo zokumanyanisa enye kodwa kuyabonakala ukuba le ingathathi ntweni ibetha le ingekhoyo kwaye inkxalabo yam yeyokuba ukuba ndiyamtsala enye ikati iya kumbetha ngakumbi. Andazi ukuba ndenzeni, ungandicebisa ntoni. Ikati engathathi hlangothi ibetha nezona zinkulu zidlula kwisitalato sam.
Molo Brenda.
Uluvo lwam kukuba xa umthena bobabini bazokuthula. Amakati akhokelwa kakhulu livumba kunye neepheromones, kwaye ngoku ikati engafakwanga i-neutered yenza enye ingonwabi, kuba mhlawumbi lixesha lobushushu beekati -ukuba ukwi-hemisphere esemantla okanye uhlala kwindawo eshushu -.
Ngapha koko, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ukumthena nje ngekhe kusombulule ingxaki. Kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukudlala neekati ukuze zitshise amandla, kwaye ngenxa yoko bazolile. Kananjalo, amaxesha ngamaxesha ayisiyombono imbi ukunika izinto ezingaqhelekanga, ezinje ngeenkonkxa zokutya okumanzi, kuni nobabini ngaxeshanye kwindawo enye. Oku kuya kubenza ukuba baphile kakuhle.
Ukubulisa
Molo, kwiintsuku ezi-5 ezidlulileyo ndathatha enye yeekati zam ezineminyaka eli-13 ukuya kugqirha wezilwanyana ngengxaki yesisu. Kwaku malunga neeyure ezi-4, xa ibuya enye ikati eneminyaka eli-12 ubudala iyamoyika kakhulu, ikhwaza kwaye iyamngxolisa. Uyothuka. Ndenze yonke into ukuze akwazi ukuphinda aliqonde ivumba lakhe, kodwa akukho kuphucuka. Besele ndibeke kude, ndimthambisile ngengubo enye ... ndimenze wamunca ukuze abuye ivumba kodwa ... akhonto isebenza. Andisiboni isisombululo, indenza lusizi. Ebusuku ndiyabahlula. Ndilahlekile. Naliphi na ingcebiso nceda. Enkosi, ndinguElsa.
Molo uElsa.
Umonde omninzi, yile nto uyichukumisayo
Umonde nokunyamezela. Qhubeka uphulula omnye emva koko omnye utshintshise amavumba, ubanike ukutya abakuthandayo bobabini kwigumbi elinye, dlala nabo.
Tyhila!!
Molweni ngokuhlwa nje okuhle
Ndinekati eneminyaka emi-4 ubudala, inzima kancinci kwaye ikati eneenyanga ezi-8 ubudala iyahamba kakuhle, kodwa sele ilixesha okokoko omdala esoyika kwaye erhona njlnjl.
Omnye uyamhlasela kwaye kufuneka wohlule .. nditsho le indala ikukuhlasela ngamanye amaxesha ngoku omncinci umncwina ngomoyike omnye amhlasele .. xa ekhwaza bathi mandizigcine malunga neentsuku ezintathu okanye ezine. ngaphandle kwezithuba ezahlukileyo bengabonani .. ngaba ayinakuphinda ixhaswe?
Ngu-asuduo lowo olwa nokufika ngexesha kodwa undinika ukufa ngenye imini bayonzakala
Gracias
Molweni cecilia.
Ngaba bobabini bathathiweyo? Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba bekunjalo, kuba ngaloo ndlela baya kuba nokuzola.
Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuba udlale nabo, ngale ndlela baya kuziva bediniwe kwaye banyamezeleke ngakumbi.
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Molweni ndiba nekati ezimbini eziyindoda zombini zi sterilized enye ina 1 year 9months and encinci ina 9 months yonke kunye sele ina 7 months kodwa ingaphezulu kwe nyanga ezimbini ndithathe le incinci ndiyovalwa nenkulu. wayeke waphola umkhwezeli kodwa ngoku malunga neentsuku ezintathu ezine umkhulu waphinda wamfuthela efuna ukumbetha ndenzeni? Umncinci ulala kwigumbi elahlukileyo ebusuku ukuze aphephe ukulwa xa silele
Molo Clara.
Kwezi meko, kungcono ukuba nomonde.
Ukunikezela ngexesha elifanayo kuwo wonke umntu ngokulinganayo, ubanike uthando, ubafuyile-ukuba bazivumela-kwaye amaxesha ngamaxesha banikeze ukutya okukhethekileyo (iitoti zokutya kwekati). Ngokuqhelekileyo bayayithanda, kwaye oko kuya kunceda imeko ngokuthe ngcembe izolile.
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