Ubuntu, ikakhulukazi phakathi nekhulu leminyaka elidlule, babenomkhuba wokunikeza incazelo kukho konke, ngisho nemibala. Lo mkhuba udale futhi usadala izinkinga eziningi kwezinye izilwane njengamakati amnyama, kodwa futhi usizakala nezinye.
Ngalesi sikhathi ngizokutshela kusho ukuthini ukuba nekati elimhlophe ekhaya, zombili ngokombono wendabuko kanye nowami uqobo.
Kwakusho ukuthini ukuba nekati elimhlophe ekhaya?
Umhlophe umbala ohlale uhlotshaniswa nobumsulwa, ubumsulwa, ubuhle nenhlanhla. Yingakho emazweni amaningi omhlaba kwakucatshangwa ukuthi kuletha inhlanhla yezezimali noma yemizwa. Angikwazanga ukusho ukuthi ngabe babafuna njengabangane yini noma kunalokho "njengeziphingi."
Manje, engingakutshela khona, futhi kungakumangaza, yilokho eNgilandi babenencazelo ehluke ngokuphelele. Eqinisweni, beziyizimpawu zebhadi, futhi bekukholelwa nokuthi babika inhlekelele noma ukushona uma uhlangabezana nenye. Futhi kungenxa yokuthi, uma kungenambala (umbala omhlophe ukuphakama kwayo yonke imibala, ngakho-ke akubhekwa kanjalo) babecabanga ukuthi yisipoki.
Kusho ukuthini kimi ukuba nekati elimhlophe ekhaya?
Yebo manje sengizobulala, ngoba angikaze ngibe nethuba lokuhlala neyodwa. Bonke labo abadlule empilweni yami nabo bonke enginabo manje sebekhona futhi bakhala ngokusawolintshi nampunga, abamnyama nabathethi abathathu. Kepha ngingomunye walabo abacabanga lokho umbala awenzi ikati. Ngisho, ngendlela efanayo umuntu angahlulelwa ngayo - noma akufanele ahlulelwe - ngombala wesikhumba sakhe, nawe akudingeki wahlulele amakati.
Ngakho kimi uma unekati elimhlophe ekhaya kungenxa yokuthi:
- Uthanda amakati amhlophe.
- Ukubuka kwakhe kukwenze wathandana lapho umbona okokuqala.
- Noma, icacile futhi ilula, ngoba uyayifuna.
Ukufanekiselwa kwekati elimhlophe
Ikati elimhlophe livame ukungezwa, kepha ngaphandle kwalokhu, ukuba nekati elimhlophe bekuhlale kunophawu oluthile kuwo wonke umlando. Okumhlophe umbala wokuhlanzeka nokuhlanzeka: okufanekiselwa ikati elimhlophe kuyafana. Amakati amhlophe akhombisa injabulo, ubuhle, nenhlanhla. Noma ngubani onekati elimhlophe empilweni yakhe usemathubeni amaningi okuzwa noma yiziphi zalezi zinto.
Ngokuvamile, ikati liwuphawu lokubekezela, inkululeko, ukuzimela, inkanuko, imfihlakalo, ilukuluku nokuzalwa kabusha. Amakati yisilwane esithandekayo; bachitha isikhathi sabo esiningi behlola izinto noma belele. Bebehlala nabantu amakhulu eminyaka, futhi kuyo yonke inkathi, amakati afuywa ngenhloso yangasese.
Ukufanekiselwa kwekati elimhlophe kuyisihloko esihlukahlukene. Lezi ngezinye zezinto amakati azifanekisile kuwo wonke umlando wokuhlalisana kwazo nabantu:
Ukuzalwa kabusha
Amakati kuthiwa anezimpilo eziyisishiyagalolunye kanti impilo ngayinye iyisibonakaliso sesiqalo esisha. Ikati elimhlophe lisho ukuzalwa kabusha njenganoma yiliphi elinye ikati.
Inhlanhla nebhadi
Amakati amhlophe athathwa kabanzi njengophawu lwenhlanhla. Emazweni amaningi omhlaba, amakati amhlophe awuphawu lokuhle.
Uma uhlangana nabo usendleleni, uzophumelela Kunoma yini engizoyenza Kepha, akudingekile ukuthi zonke izifunda zomhlaba zikuthathe njengekhubalo lenhlanhla.
Kwamanye amazwe, ukuhlangana nekati elimhlophe emgwaqeni kuwuphawu lwezinkinga nobunzima. Ngokuyinhloko e-UK, azibhekwa njengenhlanhla, njengoba sishilo ekuqaleni kwalokhu okuthunyelwe.
Izici zamakati amhlophe
Ngaphezu kwalokhu okungenhla, amakati amhlophe anezici ezithile okufanele aziphawule ukuze uthole umbono wokungagcini ngokufanekisa kuphela, kodwa nokuthi yini angayiheha empilweni yakho ngoba ungumnikazi wakho:
- Bathule. Njengoba amakati amhlophe abhekwa njengamahloni futhi ezolile, kuthiwa awuphawu lokubekezela nokulawula. Abantu abanamakati amhlophe ezimpilweni zabo maningi amathuba okuthi babekezelele ubunzima bempilo ngokusemandleni abo.
- Imali nokuchuma. Uma ikati elimhlophe livakashela ikhaya lakho, kubhekwa ukuthi imali iza kuwe. Kukholakala ukuthi uzothola imali eningi nempumelelo ezikhathini ezizayo.
- Isibonakaliso sempumelelo. Emazweni aseMedithera, kuyinkolelo ejwayelekile ukuthi uma ikati elimhlophe lizwana nengane kusho ukuthi impilo yale ngane izogcwala ubuhle nempumelelo.
- Lala kangcono. Amakati amhlophe athanda ukuchitha isikhathi sabo esiningi elele. Uma ubona ikati elimhlophe nxazonke, kungasho nokuthi lidinga ikhefu kunoma yini oyenzayo. Kukhombisa nokuthi ukulala kubalulekile nokuthi kufanele ucabange ngakho. Ungabi lukhuni kuwe futhi uphumule ngokwengeziwe, umzimba nengqondo yakho kuzokubonga.
- Ukusekela nokwelashwa. Amakati amhlophe angabasekeli babantu. Banokuxhumana kwabo nemvelo nemimoya, ngakho-ke batshela abantu ukuthi basebenzise amandla abo ukuphilisa. Amakati amhlophe awabukeki nje emuhle, kepha anamandla amakhulu okomoya. Ziyaziwa ukuthuthukisa amandla engqondo omnikazi wazo.
Akulula ukubona ikati elimhlophe qwa nsuku zonke, kepha uma ulibona, ubone kahle bese uzama ukucacisa umyalezo elikunikeza wona. Kepha ngokujwayelekile, ikati elimhlophe liyisibonakaliso sokuhle, noma ngabe kubhekwe kanjani ezingxenyeni ezahlukahlukene zomhlaba, baluphawu lwenhlanhla nenjabulo.
Izinkolelo ezimhlophe zamakati
Cishe uke wezwa ngezinkolelo-ze ngamakati amnyama futhi, kepha kuthiwani ngezimhlophe? Njengamakati amnyama, amakati amhlophe anezinganekwane ezithile, izimpawu nezinkolelo-ze ezijikeleza kuzo. Kulesi sigaba sizokhuluma nawe ngalokhu.
Amakati amhlophe nenhlanhla
Ezinganekwaneni eziningi nasezinganekwaneni, amakati amnyama babhekwa njengabanikeza izibi ngamashwa. Kubukeka sengathi okuphambene nakho kuyiqiniso: emazweni amaningi, amakati amhlophe abonakala njengophawu lwenhlanhla, futhi okukholelwa ukuthi nakho kumele ubumsulwa kanye nokuzethemba ezindaweni eziningi.
Amakati amhlophe nebhadi
Lokho kusho, njengoba sibonile ngenhla, kwezinye izifunda, amakati amhlophe yiwo okufanele alethe amabhadi nezinkinga (kuya ngokuthi uzithola nini futhi kanjani). Isibonelo, shintshela kwikati elimhlophe lapho uya emsebenzini kungacatshangwa ukuthi uzobikezela ukungasebenzi okulandelayo noma izinkinga emsebenzini wakho.
Amakati amhlophe nezingane
Inkolelo-ze eNyakatho Melika ikholelwa ukuthi amakati nezinsana ezimhlophe akufanele babe ndawonye, njengoba inyamazane yakho ingazizwa isongelwa ngobumsulwa nobumsulwa bomntwana futhi ingaqalekisa ingane. Kodwa-ke, kwamanye amazwe aseMedithera, Njengoba sibonile ngenhla, ingane ezwana nekati iwuphawu lokuchuma komncane.
Amakati amhlophe nemali
ERussia, amakati amhlophe abhekwa njengelungile esikhwameni sakho futhi ukuba nekati elimhlophe ekhaya lakho kufanele kulethe imali. Uma ikati lomunye umuntu elimhlophe likuvakashela, lokhu kuvame ukubonwa njengophawu lokuthi imali nokuchuma sekuzokungqongqoza emnyango wakho!
E-UK, noma kunjalo, okuphambene kuyiqiniso. Ukuba nekati elimhlophe ekhaya lakho kubhekwa njengenkomba yezikhathi ezinzima ezizayo, futhi ikati elimhlophe eliphuma endlini kukholakala ukuthi liletha yonke inhlanhla ngalo.
Lapho ikati elimhlophe liwela indlela yakho
Uma ikati elimnyama liwela indlela yakho kusho ibhadi, kuthiwani ngamakati amhlophe? Yebo, izinkolelo-ze ezungeze lokhu zingahluka kusuka esifundeni ngesifunda, kepha kubhekwa njengenhlanhla ukuhlangana nekati elimhlophe emigwaqweni, Futhi ikakhulukazi uma ekubingelela bese uthola "meow" ngokubuyisela!
Amakati amhlophe abambe igqubu
ENgilandi, kunenkolelo yokuthi amakati amhlophe angabamba igqubu iminyaka, futhi kubhekwa njengobuwula obedlulele ukukhubekisa noma ukucasula isibaya esimhlophe! Kodwa-ke, ukukhombisa umusa kwikati elimhlophe ngokunikela ngokuphatha noma ngokudla izokunikeza izibusiso zekati futhi ikulethele inhlanhla usuku lwakho lonke.
Ngakho-ke, jabulela inkampani yabo 🙂.
Kimi kusho inkampani, uthando, ukwethembeka, yize kuzimele, lapho kutholwa uthando kuyakwazisa ukudla kwansuku zonke okujatshulelwa futhi okunomusa.Kubizwa ngokuthi "yiNdlovukazi" ngoba ukuhamba kwayo kufana nenye yazo.
Ikati lami lineminyaka engu-9 ubudala, li-tabby futhi linothando olukhulu, ngilahlekelwe ngumyeni wami muva nje, usalinde yena lapho ezwa ukhiye emnyango, ulinda abone ukuthi ngumyeni wami yini, futhi uzokwamukela noma ngubani ofika kuleli cala indodakazi yami, futhi ubesecaleni lomyeni wami kukho konke ukugula, banikela kakhulu ngokushintshana cishe nalutho, ufuna ama-caress akho futhi akanawo amahloni ngokusondela nokuqala ukuzitotosa.
UQueen wakho unenhlanhla yokuba nawe 🙂
Siyabonga ngokuphawula kwakho.
Nginengane enezinyanga eziyi-9 namanje. umhlophe qwa ngesikhumba esibomvana namehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nomthethosisekelo wakhe ukahle ukuthi unjani, uyikati okuthi uma ngifika ekhaya akhulume kakhulu futhi adle futhi ajabule kakhulu futhi angangingenisi nezikhwama zokudla, I-effusion ingenza ngibe novalo ngoba ngelinye ilanga izongenza ngiwe, kufanele ngishiye izikhwama phezu kwetafula bese ngimphulula imizuzu eyi-10 futhi uma ngiya ekhishini ukuyobeka izinto, ugibela kwikhabethe lekhishi abeke ikhanda lakhe ngaphakathi ukuze ngibone ukuthi ngilethe amaswidi futhi lapho ekhathala uyangimemeza ukuba ngivule iwindi bese ngishiya izimpumputhe zivuleke kancane ngeteki, unamathela ekhanda emgodini abuke okwenziwa omakhelwane.
Uma ngibuka ithelevishini, uhlala eseceleni kwami, ngiyazisonga, ngiyazunywa ngifudumale ngesitofu esiphambi kwakhe, lapho ngidla into ayithandayo ngiyamnika futhi uyayidla kodwa kaningi ngenxa yokucabanga kakhulu umfowethu uyithatha kuye.
Ebusuku uhlezi elala nami ezinyaweni zami, ngakolunye uhlangothi uyeza umfowabo uma nginyakaza ahambe aye emkhombeni kanti ngobunye ubusuku uchitha cishe ubusuku bonke edlala umacashelana futhi abangivumeli ngilale ne izinhlanga ezingena ziphuma zigxumela ifenisha ngithe uma ngisukuma ngathola udoti box owu 5k phakathi nendawo. Ngamafuphi, ikati elibonakala lingathandi ukuhlupha. Futhi uma ethanda yena yedwa futhi ezoba semathangeni ami yilokho akuthanda kakhulu emhlabeni futhi into encane ukunquma izinzipho zakhe aye kudokotela wezilwane ngenhlanhla eseduze futhi angahamba nge-carrier yakhe. ubhuti bese ephelezelwa , nenqola yokuthenga ngoba vele bayakala.?
Sawubona Belen.
Unekati elikhetheke kakhulu 🙂
Kepha yebo, qaphela uma ungena endlini yakho hehe
Ukubingelela!
Amakati ami amabili amhlophe ayigugu lami, ikakhulukazi isithulu, ayintokozo yami, ukuhleka kwami, nokuhleka kwami ngokubabona nje ukuthi yonke injabulo nokuthula kwami kunathi
Siyajabula ukufunda lokho 🙂
Ikati elimhlophe lashona ezinsukwini ezingama-20 ezedlule eminyakeni engama-22. Okumangazayo, zihlukile ngesimilo kwamanye amakati, ngiyacacisa ukuthi ngineziningana. Unolwazi kakhulu ikakhulukazi nendodana yami. Kwaziqondanela nje ukuthi izinsuku ezi-4 ngaphambi kokuba uTomi ashone ephazanyiswe ukulaliswa kwakhe esibhedlela kanye nezimpi zezinkunzi, besinganakile ukuthi kuqhamuke elinye ikati elimhlophe elangena ngefasitela lalala embhedeni wami. Ngamafuphi nje, ufakiwe ekhaya, uyayithanda i-air conditioning kanti uphethe ukushisa kwakhe kokuqala futhi kuyasihlanyisa. Awukwazi ukuthola isikhathi sokuthena kuze kube nguJanuwari 27, sihambele yonke into, kepha amaholide lapha e-Argentina angcwele kochwepheshe. Ngakho-ke kufanele sibhekane nomona wakhe kuze kube nguFebhuwari 3. Asethembe ukuthi sizolulama ngoba ulwa kakhulu namakati amadala asendlini.
Sawubona Alicia.
Iminyaka engama-22 yiminyaka emangalisayo yekati. Siyakuhalalisela, noma ngizwa sengathi angisekho 🙁
Ngesineke 'esisha'. UFebhuwari 3 cishe usezofika ekhoneni.
Ukubingelela!